I’m seeing my ex and I have a severe case of the oneitis which is giving me severe bouts of anxiety and feelings of jealousy. Discovering the red pill is surely a good thing for me but it also gives me a whole new set of variables to keep in mind in my interactions with her. This in turn gives me more anxiety and makes it virtually impossible for me to maintain a good frame when I’m with her. Now I know that I probably should let her go and focus on my personal growth, but it turns out that’s a very hard thing for me to accept. I never really had any problems with women when it comes to dating. I’m a good looking guy and I’m usually fairly confident. My goal is to better myself and get rid of this oneitis, but I’m facing a hurdle that I just can’t seem to get over. Understand that intellectually I know the right course of action, but I also feel Ike I would betray her if I started spinning plates at this time. I live in a rather small town and she will notice if I get a tinder account. She seems like she is willing to commit somewhat and I really don’t think she is seeing others due to how affectionate she is towards me. I could use some real tough love from you guys.
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asktrp4433 5y ago
sounds like you've got obsessive tendencies. sort your shit out lad.
and small towns fucking suck for dating. i live in a pretty big city with almost no nightlife so i see the same 20 people every time i go out. it's almost like a small town in terms of viable dating options due to an aging population and the industry my city was founded on falling out.
socfall666 5y ago
Yes I do. ADHD is not helping either. My city is the second biggest city in Sweden so there’s not really a shortage of options. It’s just that a lot of her friends use tinder so she’s bound to find out if I start using it.
Kabuki431 5y ago
Hmmm shes already fucking someone else and you are afraid if she finds out if you are or not. Read 3 times and think
socfall666 5y ago
She’s most likely not at this point. Probably will at some point though.
asktrp4433 5y ago
nah bro she's taking chad's dick while you're shitposting on reddit.
socfall666 5y ago
Just curious as to how this is a shit post. Isn’t the purpose of this sub literally to guide people who are struggling with red pill related issues? Firm but helpful answers I’ll take any day. I just don’t see the point in being rude to a fellow troubled man in need of advice.
ultimatrev666 5y ago
As a guy who was chronically one-itised in my mid 20's (now mid 30's), I say to you, "next this b****." There's always someone out there who will be at least as compatible with you and at least as attractive as she was. Move the f*** on.
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boy_named_su 5y ago
What is your Omega-3 and Vitamin D3 intake?
You need to cease all contact with your ex. Block her on all channels
Don't dig through the trash, amigo
grbr3 5y ago
And what are your testosterone levels? Average levels for dudes are 50% what they used to be. Also, are you drinking those soy lattes? Stop. They are estrogen mimickers and will give you bitch tits. Filter your water, air and eat organic. We're in a f*cking war and the feminists are commanding the enemy line. Step up or get out!
FixYourselfFirst 5y ago
RedPill isn't for everyone. Some guys find it easier to live a BP life. Sounds like you are scared to fully go RedPill.
socfall666 5y ago
If hypergamy is indeed a real thing(which I strongly believe it is) I just don’t see any other choice. Either I go redpill or I continue as before with this knowledge and become increasingly bitter.
Thotasaurus_Rex 5y ago
You will get over her eventually, it's the only way to keep growing.
Aptote 5y ago
why are you seeing her?
the cure for oneitis is to game and fuck 10 women, then you will see what women are
get you tinder account or whatever, and cut all contact with your ex
civilizedfrog 5y ago
She won't be thinking about you when she is dick gobbling