Met a HB8 at a beach party last sunday. She was giving heavy IOI's, so I opened her, talked for a bit and made out a few times. After about 30 minutes of meeting her she asked me if I was available somewhere this week and insisted that we should meet. So she just invited me to her home next sunday, because she's home alone. To me it seems pretty clear what we both want, but she just hits me up with the "what do you want to do though?"
Is this a shit test (or anti slut defense) and how should I respond to this?
Edit: jokingly proposed to go sparring with her at her home. She was very receptive. Thanks for your answers!
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jessne1 5y ago
Yep, slut defense. Give her any reason you want, say let's make or order some food, have some drinks, watch a movie. That's all she needs to make it seem like it "just happened"
Blackhawk2479 5y ago
Exactly this. She knows you’re going round to fuck her, you know you’re going round to fuck her, but this needs to remain unspoken and you need a bullshit excuse so that she can continue trying to convince herself and the world that she is not a slut.
Just play along my man.
Lynsane 5y ago
I find it hard to choose one though. She does mma so maybe playfully ask if she wants to go for a few rounds of sparring? Or she's from a rich neighbourhood while I'm from a farmers village so maybe I could ask her if she can show a simple farmersboy around, something like that? Or is it better to propose indoor activities instead of outdoor ones because it's simpler to escalate at her home?
I might be overthinking this, but I don't want to screw it up because I really want to hit that.
redhawkes 2 5y ago
Why are you stepping on your own dick on purpose?
Ask her what's her favorite food and if she knows how to cook it. Then go from there.
You don't need this shit. It's straight up scarcity and she can sense it.
wobbleelbbow 5y ago
Are you a moron? She wants to fuck and you offer to go outside?????????
DadOnDabs 5y ago
Here's a list.
"Bake cookies and write our Christmas lists"
"Make pancakes and watch spongebob re-runs"
"Build a sandcastle"
Doesn't matter just make up some bs
BuckNekkid18 5y ago
Like /u/redhawkes said; give her some plausible deniability. Say you're going to order some food and watch your favorite movie.
wobbleelbbow 5y ago
This
redhawkes 2 5y ago
Classic ASD.
Any plausible deniability can do here. She's attracted to you, just don't step on your own dick with needy shit.
"Have fun" or "I'll tell you when I get there". Go radio silence till the meeting.
SauliusTRP 5y ago
Cook together. Free meal and sex. Profit.
wobbleelbbow 5y ago
Shit test
bannedfromWTFmod 5y ago
This is basic dude but if you're going to imply sex, use plausible deniability.
Bruchibre 5y ago
Don’t forget the update and FR