she's fishing for information about her fiancee--has he cheated, what about an old girlfriend. something has sparked her curiosity and she's digging for info.

she's not looking to fuck you.

TRP on reddit is dead going by the replies on this thread. So many cucks.

Go get drinks with her if she starts to get sexual put your audio recorder on and show your buddy.

She wants some strange. Your move Chad.

A redditor once wrote...AWALT doesn't guarantee she will act a certain way, but she has the propensity to. Like the rule, "Treat Every Gun as it's loaded" doesn't mean every gun is loaded. With women and handguns, act accordingly. Don't give a gun a chance to hit an accidental target. Don't give a vagina a hard dick to fall on. Innocent or not. Can't happen if you decline.

That said, being the messenger will absolutely backfire in this situation. She sucks his dick and if he's not unplugged can influence his logic. Keep the messages saved and backed up. If he ever asks, be honest and don't hesitate to show him.

If this is your best friend. If he is like a fucking brother. You send him the screenshots of the messages and ask, "you cool if she asks shit like this"? Let him know you just don't want to disrespect him and youre not going. Fuck her (not literally) if she gets pissy and pulls some mental gymnastics and victims up. It'll not end great, but fuck if I don't give my man every chance to save himself if this is a red flag for him.

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You should go op.

I don't know your relationship with your friend, but maybe she is just trying to get to know you since you are her future husband's friend. Obviously, this is a win win either way, you work on your frame and you let your buddy know what he is dealing with.

Show your friend the messages, there's a possibility he's testing your loyalty or maybe it's even him through her Facebook. Then you two can work together to set up the date, and after you meet with her he will then ask her what she was up to on the day of. If she was not expressing any sexual interest and just wanted to meet up platonically so that she may build a better relationship with her soon-to-be husband's friends, and she does inform him about it, then by all means do as you wish. However, if she lies about her whereabouts, and does in fact show sexual interest and such, your friend will have solid evidence that he's marrying a whore. (Maybe you can fuck her if this is the case and you wish to do so).

My friend's soon to be wife invites me out to drink with her

If you decide to do it, record it. When she tries to play it off that you made the moves on her, you've got the evidence. Your friend can be stupid and ignore it, but at least there's (f)actual evidence in the wild.

and she doesn't want to spend evening home alone.

Classic words for "I want to fuck you." Your friend is about to marry a whore.

Screenshot the facebook chat, send it to your friend.

Three options:

1. Completely innocent. She just legitimately wants to hang out with you. Maybe to get to know you better, but more likely wants to ask you something you're more likely to know than other people - for example trying to pitch you some ideas regarding the wedding preparations and such, and how her STBH (soon to be husband) might react to this.
2. Not so innocent: wants some more detailed information about her STBH and tries to suss it out of you under the guise of a totally casual meeting.
3. Totally fucked up: Plans to cheat on her STBH with you.

Personally, I think 1 or 2 are far more likely; if only because it would be strange if she specifically singled you as her STBH's friend of all people out for cheating.

Two possibilities: She wants to talk about her bf/fiancé (who after all is your buddy), maybe ask you about doing something for him, or maybe asking about some obscure thing in his past/family that she's been gnawing on; or she wants to “explore her feelings” for you.

The odds are 70/30 it's the former. Lots of times, girls on the brink of marriage want to know every last little thing about their guy before they tie the knot. So as the day approaches, they try to nail down every last bit of intel they missed. I've seen this lots of times with my sister's friends just before they got married.

Now if she wants to see if something sparks between you two, that's a whole different story.

If it's that, then you have to tell your friend about it. “Bros before hoes” and all that crap.

Put it this way: If you were about to get married, and your bride-to-be hit on your friend, would you want to know? Of course you would—so as to avoid a colossal mistake.

In the mean time, keep an open mind. It could well be totally innocent.

Edit: /u/lukemeg pointed out a phrase in OP which I must've eye-skipped—but which totally changes the dynamic here.

OP wrote:

She said her boyfriend will be out of town and she doesn't want to spend evening home alone [emphasis added].

Me bad; I didn't notice this, and it changes everything.

I put odds 20/1 that she indeed wants to fuck OP's brains out.

My suggestion to OP would be: Surreptitiously record the encounter on your phone, enjoy the free pussy getting tossed your way, then head straight for your buddy and tell him what's what. Don't tell him about the recording. If the bitch says OP is lying and/or raped her, then OP whips out his recording.

Yea I agree with the others. Don't escalate. This might be a good chance to expose her

I would go but keep your guard up. Honestly she might want to talk to you about him like she's planning to do something fun for him and wants you to help or advice. If it starts to get weird call her out on it and tell your friend.

What exactly did she say? You may be misinterpreting.

Sounds like a situation to avoid in my honest opinion. Can't you go out with a girl besides your buddies fiancé??? Think about it.

Go for it and start recording on your phone as soon as you get to the bar. What you want is incriminating evidence. Either she shit talks him, or tries to escalate with you etc. Don't forget that dudes can be in severe denial when u tell them their girl is a floozy. Get proof before you tell him.

He probably set her up to do it you fuckin retard

If he's your friend tell him dude.

You decline the invitation. You tell your friend. Be prepared to lose a friend. He may be in denial.

She will deny it and say you're the crazy one for suspecting something other than "friendship".

She's just fishing for info about her fiancé. Nothing too suspicious

If you value your friend and even if ratting her out may end that friendship, then forward the messages to him and don't go......he'll either hate you or thank you later.

If you don't value his friendship, then go over, bang her, and never mention it again.

Personally, I would want to know.

Probably just wants to know some shit about your buddy.

Moron, go and sniff it out and help your "friend".

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she doesn't want to spend evening home alone

Maybe she's afraid of the burglars.

Seriously though, my mom is like that, she can never spend a night at home alone, because she's scared. Not that anything has ever happened.

Bro, it's your friend. You tell him

Stay away from tequila.