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oowiw
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Where Have All the Good Men Gone?
Got me curious so I looked, not much more.
"Why is everyone settling" https://archive.ph/tzbzI
"50 Shades of Choosing the Wrong Men" https://archive.ph/HJeRr
> My guy friends used to ask me why I insisted on dating the douchiest guys I could find. And I used to tell them that it was because I was...
10mo ago - Permalink
Re: How to regain wife’s respect!
Yeah I don't see how he's gonna trick her at this point. He says "the stupid bitch" but any stupidity she had for him is gone, hence her figuring it out each time he cheats.
IMO he didn't fuck up by getting married, but by claiming they were exclusive and then revealing, twice, that his claims had ...
10mo ago - Permalink
oowiw
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Hot, Stunning, Beautiful, Great Personalities AND GREAT JOBS!
I think they say it in a kind of hopeful way:
1. I wish I was a 10
2. Wait a minute, what if we redefine 10 to be how you feel about yourself?
3. Well, I obviously don't feel like a 10...
4. But lets reverse the process:
4 A) I say I'm a 10
4 B) Only a person who feels like a 10 would say ...
10mo ago - Permalink
oowiw
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Hot, Stunning, Beautiful, Great Personalities AND GREAT JOBS!
> By the time she NEEDS to stick the landing, she won't be able to.
Exactly, she complains about guys wanting to get married tomorrow, but I'd bet that's because they're looking at her timeline and thinking, just barely in time to start a family, no delay is advised.
Give it a year or two and her ...
10mo ago - Permalink
oowiw
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Hot, Stunning, Beautiful, Great Personalities AND GREAT JOBS!
> It's so revealing the way she complains that men in their 30s want to 'get married tomorrow'.
Imagine a man dating her and expressing that he's serious about marriage and not wasting time. What he's really trying to tell her is: I'm serious about having healthy kids and IF that was with you, WE c...
10mo ago - Permalink
oowiw
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Demanding single mom demands a man who meets her demanding list of demands
“It’s happened so many times so I need to note it” do I detect pride? I think I do. She’s proud that men are asking for nudes.
1y ago - Permalink
oowiw
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: You need to make 300K a year and have 4K a month in passive income
odds are it's this guy:
https://www.mamamia.com.au/the-man-with-1000-kids-netflix-true-story/
> a whistleblower from a donor website revealed that in the Netherlands, Jonathan had been working with another man named Leon. The men were running a sperm donor ring by posting a range of fake profiles ...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: Compliments during sex?
Use validation to reward and reinforce good behavior, like when she caters to you in bed...And I mean actual validation, not just some dirty talk. Just keep it in line with what you've been like so far, a small amount will probably go a long way given the status quo you have going.
1y ago - Permalink
Re: consistency
A quote that resonated with me recently is: "You can't live a beautiful life without making beautiful choices" and "beautiful choices don't require negotiation".
When I hear myself negotiating with myself in my head, the thing I'm trying to negotiate for can't be a beautiful choice. If I'm trying t...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: How deep does “Trust actions not words” go?
I guess I'm not understanding your question. Nothing "counts" as anything except in the eye of the beholder. If you want to call it manipulative you can, if you want to say it's unintentional and she's gaslighting herself you also can. It seems like you're trying to draw some sort of math-level proo...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: How deep does “Trust actions not words” go?
Voting is an action, but following on social media is talk - because you can see who someone follows, so it's about image, appearance.
The key distinction is action has costs and effects, talk is about image or how someone appears to others. We don't know how she votes because that's private, we onl...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: How deep does “Trust actions not words” go?
it sounds like you just need to look up the definition of gaslighting
1y ago - Permalink
Re: How deep does “Trust actions not words” go?
gaslighting isn't just manipulative people it's also narcissists who have built internal defense mechanisms against anything that clashes with their identity - they're not necessarily manipulative because they're manipulating themselves - thus when they gaslight you they actually believe they're tel...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: How deep does “Trust actions not words” go?
"gaslight" = words and
"conversations you've already had" = words
this is not actions vs words, this is just showing that words are unreliable
1y ago - Permalink
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Re: There are genuinely so few good men left.