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jonsmif9797
commented in TheRedPill
Re: I fucked up guys. Rookie mistakes. Let this be a lesson, especially to the new guys because we all take an L on occasion
I feel like your problem is resolved if you have multiple plates. From your post, it reads like you only have one plate, which to quote many endorsed contributors, one plate is NOT a plate.
6y ago - Permalink
jonsmif9797
commented in TheRedPill
Re: How the Red Pill ruined my Game
You were a typical nice guy.
>I was no longer a complete fucking asshole, insulting women when I could, or brushing them off to make them work harder or qualify themselves.
TRP tells you to **put yourself first**, but since you have been a nice guy, you go to the extreme end: by being the assh...
6y ago - Permalink
jonsmif9797
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Girls don't want you to say sorry. They want you to take actions.
I agree, but tt's not something you should say. It's what you should behave in an LTR.
If you retort with this sentence during an argument, which first you should not get into in the first place, and second, the woman already knows you enough that you are faking alpha, it would not help.
6y ago - Permalink
jonsmif9797
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Rant / FR: 3 years with a girl who has ASPD and NPD
No he is not being a dick. His point is rational and you really have to reflect on the "why" (you LTR these girls) more than the "how" (to run the relationships).
6y ago - Permalink
jonsmif9797
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Free yourself
You have a point.
I make meeting new people my routine, but my emotions do not depend on what other people have done and how relationships with other people turn out to me.
6y ago - Permalink
jonsmif9797
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Free yourself
A philosophy that I live by and which have kept me happy for over 6 months so far.
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"People and relationships are the least important factors for your happiness and fulfillment."
6y ago - Permalink
jonsmif9797
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Monk Mode journeys
My bad, I didn't fully understand your situation.
6y ago - Permalink
jonsmif9797
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Monk Mode journeys
You did not trust the process. You are outcome dependent.
If you have faith in your routines (such as showing up, working out, etc.), even when you are rejected or you experience failures, you will easily let it go because you know that those periods are temporary.
6y ago - Permalink
jonsmif9797
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Your Subconscious is Powerful
I think you got it wrong. You don't look for opportunities to tease to get a reaction. That's needy in a sense because you are in a reactive position. Teasing should be the default.
Teasing is not BS. Push-pull, A&A, and pressure flip are not BS. They are essential conversational skills not jus...
6y ago - Permalink
jonsmif9797
commented in TheRedPill
Re: The 5 most important things I've learnt, over the years.
IMO, investing in (4) and (5) leads to outcome dependence.
Yeap, def missing those two.
6y ago - Permalink
jonsmif9797
commented in TheRedPill
Re: The 5 most important things I've learnt, over the years.
1, 2, 3 are solid points. Don't be so salty and nitpicking.
6y ago - Permalink
jonsmif9797
commented in TheRedPill
Re: The 5 most important things I've learnt, over the years.
To expand on (2), when discomfort and risk-taking become part of your personality through routines and habitual practices, there's no going back to comfort.
Now I feel dead lazing around or watching random Youtube videos.
6y ago - Permalink
jonsmif9797
commented in TheRedPill
Re: How the Red Pill impacted my in unfathomable ways
I hope your entire post is meant to be sarcastic. Otherwise, I don't know why you are here in this sub. Clearly you don't even read the sidebar because you think alpha is supposed to be dumb and stupid.
6y ago - Permalink
jonsmif9797
commented in TheRedPill
Re: 1 Year LTR Reminds that AWALT.
That's not mate guarding tho.
Mate guarding is when her actions are ambiguous to you, and you jump to ward off potential suitors or prevent her ambiguous actions.
I think RP preach that you draw the line. When she crosses, you break up with her. If she doesn't cross, don't mate guard or be insecur...
6y ago - Permalink
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