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banmered
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Typical modern, barely average looking, chick rants about Tinder Chads fucking her, but not committing... Noooo, you're not the problem (unable to hold up your own standards) sweetie. Someone take her on a date for a whamburger and french cries. Skip to 3:18 for when she gets real honest!
These schemes only reliably work when you run them 5-7+ years before pulling the ripcord. Or you set up asset protection before ever meeting her. Courts and opposing counsel have seen literally thousands of different ways attempting the same. And family court can levy garnishments and clawbacks in a...
4y ago - Permalink
banmered
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Mother knows best
This only works well in communities where the families have literally grown up together. The one factor that cannot be gamed in relationships is decades and even centuries of experiential evaluation. While the mostly assortative matching starts in early 20s, the *evaluation* starts during childhood,...
4y ago - Permalink
banmered
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Mother knows best
> I'm 6'4 but I won't even give the time of day to a woman with a height requirement listed.
Height requirement is stealth gold-digging. You are wise to avoid that red flag.
4y ago - Permalink
banmered
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Hot single moms in my area who are finally looking for something serious!
In the US, start with [the CDC number of 40%](https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/unmarried-childbearing.htm). Now depending upon whose numbers you use, [non-paternity events range from less than 1% to 12%](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Non-paternity_event). There aren't good numbers there, much less t...
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Failed logistics texts.
Musicgoon425 is correct. You’re misevaluating the zero buy in leading up to your “Meet me…” text.
GLO (GayLubeOil) has really good OLD chat game, with him leading into excellent conversion to text logistics. Look up his posts. I’m assuming you’ve got your fat ratio and muscle definition...
4y ago - Permalink
banmered
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Are You Getting Daddy-Baited? Others Found This Helpful So Maybe You Will Too
No shame in that, bro. I was astonishingly dumb. Very easy to do when you have no way to cast a wide net gathering information. Even with the Internet today, it is still very easy for billions of men to not be aware of the 411 we take for granted in these forums.
It matters not where you were. Only...
4y ago - Permalink
banmered
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Are You Getting Daddy-Baited? Others Found This Helpful So Maybe You Will Too
Dumb men learn from high-samoling-rate pattern recognition. Smart men learn from experience. Wise men learn from others.
4y ago - Permalink
banmered
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Are You Getting Daddy-Baited? Others Found This Helpful So Maybe You Will Too
Get one of the "snack size" Ziplocs. Pack inside it one of the single-serving Tabasco bottles, like you find in American MRE's or buy them online. Bring with your condom, it packs down into your wallet and won't leak.
Refill Tabasco bottle with a syringe or there are tiny funnels online (buy or 3D ...
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Failed logistics texts.
Your "...to coming over for a date" makes me suspect your frame and wording are off.
If she's in your frame, "I'm at Nasty's Bar Sat. at 8. Anything goes." works better than supplicating, "Are we on for Nasty's this Saturday at 8 pm?" *Acta, non verba* means you don't ask, you tell. You're going th...
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Is it a red flag for a girl to make light of her friend cheating?
Not worth the emotional investment. People who either play with others' emotions so casually, or take it in stride when they have ringside seats to it, are not worth any commitment. Not LTR material; plate her until she breaks or undergoes a drastic growing up (extremely unlikely).
4y ago - Permalink
Re: My LTR is constantly comfort testing me and is insecure about things that are actually true. What do I do?
You have not set a direction for yourself. You cannot expect her or strangers to set it for you. Prioritize whether you want an LTR with her, an LTR with a girl you find attractive, or both, and dig down deep enough into yourself to know why you made your specific choice. Then assess the costs, and ...
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Did I fail this shit test?
Based only upon what you said here, you failed before she replied. You aren't literally meant to say, "go make me a sammich" without any context.
Women organically respond to you maintaining your frame about your mission. She can see you're still deep in a sales contract negotiation for the biggest...
4y ago - Permalink
Re: I'm not replying to the LTR. It's dread game. However...
Is she going offline, or stealthing her online presence?
Going offline: good sign, reward her with more time and attention if she's going offline for you. Those platforms are just negative time sinks to men busy with their mission.
Stealthing: she's a plate even if a long term one, she either come...
4y ago - Permalink
Re: What to do as an ex muslim still living in a 3rd world majority muslim conservative country and you can neither leave or have sex?
Lots of advice here, none immediately actionable, but that's mostly a side effect of insufficient context on your situation. I'll try to give ideas for what you an act upon literally tomorrow.
I'm not aware of a majority-Muslim nation with English as primary language. If it is true you live in a ma...
4y ago - Permalink
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