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Re: Help me to evaluate this situation with this girl please
This helped me a lot. I am now confident and more positive. Super helpful answer and thanks for your time. I remember you helped me before by recognising your name.
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Help me to evaluate this situation with this girl please
thanks a lot i feel like my head is way clearer than hours ago tbh
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Help me to evaluate this situation with this girl please
You mean for a „the talk“? Yeah figured that too, what do you think is appropriate or normal?
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Help me to evaluate this situation with this girl please
I know i know. The fact that i am writing here is evidence enough. But it’s just how i feel right now and i want the best outcome for me out of it of course.
But what you said regarding actions i can’t control makes totally sense. I can only be me and then time will show. I mean i have been happ...
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Help me to evaluate this situation with this girl please
Gonna be honest, really hard for me even now to make that decision of being non exclusive LDR. It’s like only 4 hours away, you know. We could easily arrange a week in a month or so as i can work remote as much as i want.
You think she will bring the topic up and ask soon? Other replies said it ...
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Help me to evaluate this situation with this girl please
Sounds reasonable. Would you still communicate something? Or wait if she does? I mean, go on and seeing each other until the day she leaves without talking about anything seems weird or am i wrong?
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Help me to evaluate this situation with this girl please
I have no issues with that tbh. Just want to make clear i am OP. I know she had guys before, and i had women before. Only thing i can do is see what the time brings right?
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Help me to evaluate this situation with this girl please
Thank you for your reply man. I will re-read it again, because i think your first paragraph has a lot of value in it.
Regarding my situation: I said it above already, what i can do now is just do what i have done before, because that is what attracted her anyways. If she wants an exclusivity talk, ...
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Help me to evaluate this situation with this girl please
Thx for the reply.
My thoughts now: i will enjoy the the 2 months and do what i have done before. If she wants commitment, she will bring it up and i have the choice. If not, go out and meet other women of course.
The other thing: she will come back in the end. And will probably still share the sam...
4y ago - Permalink
Re: How much texting in this situation?
I don't understand this statement. How do you mean? Of course the only person i trust is my mother.
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Need reality check from my brothers here
what do you mean by tried to set me up? maybe i dont understand the phrase. And we had sex already.
5y ago - Permalink
Re: Need reality check from my brothers here
i would lie if i did not thought about the same. still we will meet today, if thats the case, how do i turn this around?
5y ago - Permalink
Re: Need reality check from my brothers here
Yeah i feel like texting her now would be an overkill after doing that for her 2 days ago right? We both know we will see each other latest in 2 days so i will probably just wait and when i see her game her at the party right?
5y ago - Permalink
Re: Need reality check from my brothers here
Yeah we are students/graduates and everything is opening up - got your point but i for myself am partying a lot right now as well.
What i really asking myself is did i break my frame with my actions? Did i go down the nice guy route? It is important for me because a similar situation might come up i...
5y ago - Permalink

Re: Over pursuing or leading?