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Objetpetita
commented in Ask TRP
Re: 27 year old virgin, need brutal honest advice
Mindset is everything, your actions and by extension your results originate directly from it. Do not let your mindset be compromised for any reason, even if you rationally think you should because you are inexperienced or whatever else you can come up with. You should hold this as holy. You literall...
3y ago - Permalink
Objetpetita
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Height in Tinder bio?
Yeah but my thinking was it will filter out those who care a lot about height so I don't have to waste time on them, I don't mind if it hurts my chances if it means I can narrow down to a more dtf group of women. But after reading the replies I agree it's smarter just to not mention.
3y ago - Permalink
Objetpetita
commented in Ask TRP
Re: What is the truth about starting programs (weightlifting)?
I don't think the phenomenon of putting on weight for 2 weeks and then running into a wall is your fault, it's the result of bad programs designed to get you to a plateau as fast as possible. I like NH's breakdown here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S0qBQppUtTQ&t=1271s&ab_channel=NaturalHypertrop...
3y ago - Permalink
Objetpetita
commented in Ask TRP
Re: What is the truth about starting programs (weightlifting)?
I've heard that there's some research that suggests there's a spectrum between people who respond better to volume vs. those who respond better to intensity. I did Starting Strength-like routines for a while in the beginning too and I never really made noticeable progress on those, my newbie gains r...
3y ago - Permalink
Objetpetita
commented in Ask TRP
Re: What is the truth about starting programs (weightlifting)?
Do hypertrophy programs if you want to grow, the guys on reddit who say "just do your fahves on the squats guys" generally look like complete DYELs. They're so caught up in powerlifting ideology and the numbers on the bar that they fail to notice that their physique really is not that good.
They a...
3y ago - Permalink
Objetpetita
commented in Ask TRP
Re: What to do when a girl doesn't respond to kino/escalation?
No we were sitting next to each other but she didn't look at me for longer than 2 seconds at a time, she was mostly talking while facing forwards, which also just seems oddly disrespectful. I guess I could do the old put my finger on her chin and turn her head towards me? Although I usually don't do...
3y ago - Permalink
Objetpetita
commented in Ask TRP
Re: What to do when a girl doesn't respond to kino/escalation?
In order to get a decent kiss close, the girl needs to cooperate somewhat. I like to just have some prolonged eye contact and then lean in like a normal person. If the chick just will not allow this, then I'm forced to randomly kiss her mid conversation with no build up at all, this goes against eve...
3y ago - Permalink
Objetpetita
commented in Ask TRP
Re: What to do when a girl doesn't respond to kino/escalation?
Yeah it's kinda extreme, mainly brought on by frustration. I don't enjoy myself when I'm out with someone who has me do everything with not a single clue if she even likes being around me, makes sure to shoot down every opportunity to kiss even when we're in a relatively private area etc. I'm not th...
3y ago - Permalink
Objetpetita
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Should I cut?
Of course they vary, but as long as it's in the normal range (which is very broad), they're just not that important compared to training and nutrition. This T level obsession only started in the online lifting community since juicehead influencers like Doucette and MPMD started pushing it, influence...
3y ago - Permalink
Objetpetita
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Should I cut?
Testosterone is not nearly this important, people have built impressive natty physiques with below average levels. Same with working out when your T peaks, I have never heard of this or seen any real evidence of it. T is about *exposure over time* anyway, not so much about your current levels. Guy i...
3y ago - Permalink
Objetpetita
commented in Ask TRP
Re: How to start fitness?
Check out thefitness.wiki. Youtube is also a wealth of information from channels like Sean Nalewanyi, Jeff Nippard, Alphadestiny etc. Be careful though cause there are a lot of quacks out there as well.
I'd start with a 3/4 day a week full body program focused on compounds to learn the lifts and ge...
3y ago - Permalink
Objetpetita
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Thinking about going out solo
I don't have any advice to offer, just wanted to say I relate to this so goddamn hard. I don't have a problem getting to know people, everyone I meet seems to like me yet when it comes to going out there they're never up for it or the logistics just don't work out. I do not have the slightest idea ...
3y ago - Permalink
Objetpetita
commented in Ask TRP
Re: What did I do wrong here
Thing is, especially with online dating it seems like they need to somewhat get to know you first to know that they're not meeting a creep. At least that's the vibe I'm getting, going for dates super quick just gets me ghosted most of the time.
Might not have described this properly bc the post was...
3y ago - Permalink
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