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Re: Anyone ever fumble a genuine good girl? Regrets
You did the right thing by not leaving/cheating on your wife. I don’t think that’s blue pill.
9mo ago - Permalink
Re: Anyone ever fumble a genuine good girl? Regrets
“she’s part of your life story” man that’s a fact. I just can’t stomach right now someone banging her like I did smh the thought of it is sickening.
9mo ago - Permalink
Re: Anyone ever fumble a genuine good girl? Regrets
Rose colored glasses haha yeah that’s a good way to put it. We definitely had issues but most were caused by me. While I was in it, I was thinking I may want out.
9mo ago - Permalink
Re: Anyone ever fumble a genuine good girl? Regrets
Yeah they are destined for failure but she agreed to it. She at one point was chasing my validation and only just wanted to be with me. So much she accepted it.
9mo ago - Permalink
Re: Anyone ever fumble a genuine good girl? Regrets
Man tell me about it, I got caught up with the OLTR stuff and over played my hand. I’m sure someone will marry her quick.
The streets are old and I wish I had this mindset with her.
9mo ago - Permalink
Re: Anyone ever fumble a genuine good girl? Regrets
Yeahhhh. That’s where my mind went. I admitted defeat as I wasn’t the best but I wasn’t the worse. She accepted the OLTR for 2.5 years becuase she thought I was worth it and had many other amazing qualities (ego stroke?). But you’re right, apparently she wasn’t getting what she wanted but ...
9mo ago - Permalink
Re: Anyone ever fumble a genuine good girl? Regrets
Yes. That’s my point, I have lots of regrets. I wasn’t the best leader and brought up other women too much. But now it’s too late. Hopefully I find another with just as much connection and just as hot
9mo ago - Permalink
Re: Oneitis? Coping with Regret.
I believe you are right. I thought I knew how to lead. Becuase she did pretty much everything I asked for. Until recent when we ran into a problem that I was too egotistical to solve.
It sucks knowing I wasn’t enough and I lost a good girl to me. Never had the feelings I had with her with anyone...
9mo ago - Permalink
Re: Oneitis? Coping with Regret.
Yeah it’s a big ego hit and self esteem hit knowing she still doesn’t want to settle down with me, WITH the wall approaching AND After I made some compromises and really did some inner work. She’s rather risk it with potential.Ego bruised.
But you’re right, I need to learn to be with mysel...
9mo ago - Permalink
Re: Oneitis? Coping with Regret.
Thanks man for the advice. And you’re absolutely right, I made her a super freak. I did all that there could be to her in the bedroom and out of it.
My part is the mental chemistry. Never connected with a woman like that before.
But you’re right, I have to let time go.
9mo ago - Permalink
Re: Some advice needed. Oneitius? Guilt?
Now I understand. Tbh our SMV was around the same. But the kicker is, I said I would stop…after she left. But the thing is we started that way and I was honest from day one.
But the thing is now she’s gone and went cold. And has new guys she dating and I can’t seem to move on
9mo ago - Permalink
Re: Some advice needed. Oneitius? Guilt?
Yes but it was agreed upon. At that stage in my life, I wasn’t ready to settle down and we made that agreement. Why did she accept it?
While with her, I did sometimes say mean things out of anger but I wasn’t that bad.
9mo ago - Permalink
Re: Some advice needed. Oneitius? Guilt?
Great advice, man. She was special to me at the time because she was a genuinely good, level headed girl. And I fucked it up. Now she’s talking to new guys and said “it’s something in my heart that doesn’t want you back”
It sucks because her heart is so cold and we’re still kind of in ...
9mo ago - Permalink
Re: Some advice needed. Oneitius? Guilt?
Yeah but I fucked that up. By telling her everything she asked. So it was in her face, even though she did accept it. She was definitely a normal healthy woman and not some raging liberal or feminist.
9mo ago - Permalink
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Re: Anyone ever fumble a genuine good girl? Regrets