1y ago The Hub
Hey, can someone message me please?
Nobody will or should invest in a free private therapy session. The discussion will be public to benefit all men who come here to read and learn.
I only converted to Islam because I'm struggling with religious warfare with being a Muslim
Why are you choosing to do a thing that seems to be actively working against your self-interest and greater good? I'm not inherently anti-Islam, for I know there are people who find their lives enriched by this and other faiths. This doesn't appear to be the case with you. You can choose to walk away from a religion as easily as you chose in adulthood to approach it, you know.
I feel like an incel. I'm treated like an incel just because I want to save myself for a quality woman
You're a VOLCEL... you have chosen to be celibate.
most Pakistani and Indian women only marry their own kind and I'm at a disadvantage with being white.
If you're living in the middle east, you're at a geographic disadvantage. Move.
I admit that I've simped and went on a bunch of marriage apps.
Common mistake made by many well meaning young men, myself included decades ago. You're putting the cart before the horse. Yes, seek out marriage-MINDED women. But understand going in that a woman must QUALIFY HERSELF to be your wife. If marriage is assumed from the beginning, you give away your bargaining power as a man, but more importantly, you remove any incentive for a woman to qualify herself to you. It's not in human nature to respect someone who gives away a thing of such enormous value.
I think you need to DATE a few women, and sleep with at least one but preferably more, before you consider whether you even want marriage.
Read MoreHey, can someone message me please? I'm a low value ambitious man who brings nothing to the table for a woman that they give a fuck about and I'm struggling with religious warfare with being a Muslim, blinding myself to the fact that all of our women are operating on the same primal level as girls who like to go out partying (with what they value in a man). I watched a bluepill YouTuber called Hamza who has sold me a bunch of lies on why I should respect women and it's only now I realize that my mistakes in trusting people who cater to the mainstream narrative more.
+ I admit that I've simped and went on a bunch of marriage apps. I know that I'm a pussy and a beta. I need to be set right and realise that I only converted to Islam because I saw all these alpha males, such as Andrew Tate, apologising for themselves for having multiple past relationships and thought it would be acceptable to show that kind of weakness and pretend that it's a virtue. As soon as people start hating me for my redpill mindset, I take 10 steps back because I'm too skinny to offend anyone.
+ I'm becoming a nerd.
"If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself, but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle."
― Sun Tzu, "The Art of War" :
What exactly do you want from us and what do you want for yourself?
Read MoreHow long should I be on MGTOW/ monk mode for?
Monk mode is not determined by its duration, but by its purpose. You go monk mode because you want to prioritize a specific aim, not to cut off yourself from society for a set time.
1y ago The Hub
@Desaint How long should I be on MGTOW/ monk mode for? Remember that I'm looking to get married at some point because of my religion, so I'm not sure if spinning plates outside of marriage and then seeking the forgiveness of Allah is the correct way to go about it. it's Ramadan right now btw. We fast for this month from both food and water until night time. Also, I don't give a fuck about your atheism. How can I make both my religion and the redpill work considering how horny I am and that women are dreamkillers?
1y ago The Hub
@spooky Many places are off limits for people like me because of the decline. I'm working to become a high value man but inside, looking around at all this hopelessness, I feel like an incel. I'm treated like an incel just because I want to save myself for a quality woman, but there are no quality women and everyone is the same. Degeneracy has spread to Jewish and Muslim women, most Pakistani and Indian women only marry their own kind and I'm at a disadvantage with being white. Even if I get into a marriage, who's to say that they won't turn their backs and leave me for a curry-skinned Tyrone? I have nothing to offer to a woman that's worth any value in the short-term and I don't seek out to keep up with the constant stimulation of the environment around me; Alcohol and social media give you a competitive edge. MGTOW is off limits with being a Muslim, but if I'm not a MGTOW then I may as well be an incel.
Read More1y ago The Playground
Can someone message me please? I'm spiralling out of control like a beta male and making my life complicated.
1y ago The Hub
I admit that I've simped and went on a bunch of marriage apps. I know that I'm a pussy and a beta. I need to be set right and realise that I only converted to Islam because I saw all these alpha males, such as Andrew Tate, apologising for themselves for having multiple past relationships and thought it would be acceptable to show that kind of weakness and pretend that it's a virtue. As soon as people start hating me for my redpill mindset, I take 10 steps back because I'm too skinny to offend anyone.
1y ago The Hub
Hey, can someone message me please? I'm a low value ambitious man who brings nothing to the table for a woman that they give a fuck about and I'm struggling with religious warfare with being a Muslim, blinding myself to the fact that all of our women are operating on the same primal level as girls who like to go out partying (with what they value in a man). I watched a bluepill YouTuber called Hamza who has sold me a bunch of lies on why I should respect women and it's only now I realize that my mistakes in trusting people who cater to the mainstream narrative more.