@own_chemical Women are born winners. That's why we emphasize how many loser women there are today. Imagine dropping the ball on the way to the touch down. Every. Time. Whereas men are born losers: useless, weak, powerless, and he earns his crown by becoming something despite the odds stacked against him. It will take time.
@own_chemical One's first love is hard to get past. I remember thinking I was cool having broken up with my high school GF on my own initiative. Then I called her out of the blue hoping for a booty call and she said, "Ohai, guess what I'm getting married this Saturday." I cried like a little bitch, NGL. GF two and three, sometimes I'd see the last one's face in the dark silhouette of the new one and it would mess with my head.
It really helps to get experience under your belt to get your pair bonding horomones under solid control. I'm not saying it's good to extinguish your pair-bonding ability, but to temper and control it.
Look at it this way: "I lucked out, I got a rich dude's GF as my first! Woohoo!" instead of maundering over it. Overwrite your memories of her with new ones with new women.
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guys how can I forget my ex? we broke up 10 months ago, she cheated on me and left me . now she is dating another rich guy and is doing brilliantly in life. I am doing pretty well as well but I don't have a gf , I am just going to college / studying / working in a different country etc.. I am not sad about us breaking up anymore, she was a horrible horrible person who abused me and cheated on me, she would even hit me and emotionally manipulate me..I was a cuck who allowed her to do it all and I've even found TRP after that breakup BUT sometimes when I am all alone in my house I get super annoyed and hurt because of what she did to me ( she was my first gf, 2.5 years relationship ). I mean, it's not sadness it's just like a feeling of betrayal that really bothers me + the fact that she abused me but is probably super nice to the new guy
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