that raccoon looks like one of my kittens.
2y ago The Hub
@carnold03 that raccoon looks like one of my kittens.
2y ago The Hub
@Typo-MAGAshiv should I go along with people just to please them when they can offer me something in return, or should I go my own way and look for a different option, despite not getting what they're offering me and pissing them off in the process? Plan A is Machiavellian, Plan B is maintaining frame and not letting other people fuck with you. I want to know which one is the best strategy for dealing with family members in the long-term, especially if they keep blackmailing me that they'll leave or go tell authorities for keeping kittens in the house (who I value to be more important than them and have purchased them with my own damn money, I take main responsibility for them too). I need to stay in this shithole because I'm taking online lessons in law, which I'm not happy with, but feel is necessary to do well in the world. If I move house I won't be able to take the kittens with me and the female imperative within my family just want me to give my kittens up to give an 'I told you so' moment. They'll piss me off and anger me forevermore if I agree to that.
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@320skew Yes, I really can't control whether I fap or not. I don't know if things would be any different if I wasn't a virgin, but from what I heard it's pretty much the same. It makes me a weaker man. I can't think straight and I keep self-deprecating in front of other people to make up for my mental and physical faults due to fapping. I know that I'm a pheremonal beta, perhaphs even a pheremonal gamma. I want to fix this, I just don't know how.
I've relapsed and failed NoFap again. I was literally on day 1 when this happened and I've been having full-on cold showers since yesterday. I become aware halfway through the fap, but then I just cum automatically without even intending too. This will cause a lot of premature ejaculation problems in the bedroom.
Guys, this is becoming a real issue which I feel is out of my hands. I've been addicted to porn since I was 11 years old and it's not getting any easier since discovering NoFap a few years ago. I fap whenever I should be studying, but luckily I have the advantage of all my lessons being online. So whenever I go onto the internet, I am automatically programmed to donate all my concentration, confidence and energy span to the blue-pilled village of porn, which raised me because my parents were too incompetent to.
I've been told to see a shrink, who will shame me for thinking that porn is a bad thing. I've tried cold showers, I've tried working out, I've tried reading, I've tried meditation. It feels as though unless I drop out of school and destroy all electronic devices, I am doomed to porn hell for eternity. Fuck my life!
Reads like you've got to remove porn from your computer. You might also want to consider learning how to block sites from your router all together. Here, check out this github link for more information.
Read More2y ago The Hub
I've relapsed and failed NoFap again. I was literally on day 1 when this happened and I've been having full-on cold showers since yesterday. I become aware halfway through the fap, but then I just cum automatically without even intending too. This will cause a lot of premature ejaculation problems in the bedroom.
Guys, this is becoming a real issue which I feel is out of my hands. I've been addicted to porn since I was 11 years old and it's not getting any easier since discovering NoFap a few years ago. I fap whenever I should be studying, but luckily I have the advantage of all my lessons being online. So whenever I go onto the internet, I am automatically programmed to donate all my concentration, confidence and energy span to the blue-pilled village of porn, which raised me because my parents were too incompetent to.
I've been told to see a shrink, who will shame me for thinking that porn is a bad thing. I've tried cold showers, I've tried working out, I've tried reading, I've tried meditation. It feels as though unless I drop out of school and destroy all electronic devices, I am doomed to porn hell for eternity. Fuck my life!
Read More2y ago The Hub
When should I go along with someone who tells me 'no'?
I'm addicted to porn. I actually busted one off today. I've been trying NoFap (with the prospect of having sex with females) for a while, but I keep slipping up and then cowering off from females because I don't have the confidence to talk to them afterwards (although I get IOIs from females regardless of whether I've fapped or not). People have asked me what my purpose is, but I have no idea at 19 years of age and I'm very restless to find out, I jump from thing to thing not knowing what I ought to be doing, skipping obligations to find that high. Then I go back to porn, because I don't even know myself.
Here's something I posted on the NoFap tribe in the run up to #NoNutNovember you may find helpful.
2y ago The Hub
I've always hated authority, I'd love to act like an authority figure.
2y ago The Hub
If nobody gives you any good advice, it means that nobody cares about your problem. Therefore, you shouldn't share your problem with other people because it will make you look like a pussy. You have to swallow your pride and act like a man, even though people just generally see you as being invisible and no one really cares about you for being in the bottom 20%. Sure, you could try to improve. But ultimately, you're just complaining in your basement about how you made it with a prostitute while everyone else is off having real sex. BETA!