2y ago TheRedPill
@FuckBoyAWALT this is really helpful appreciate it. I dont “care” necessarily, i mainly want to try to improve and eventually start plating some of them. I just feel like im doing something wrong because this is a consistent trend not just a coincidence. Been on 3 more dates since this post and fucked 2 who i dont care to see again. Got the third back to my apartment, made out, got her into my bed and halfway undressed but kept running into LMR. I am interested in seeing her again but when i tried to make plans again…ghosted. Not losing sleep over it and just setting up more dates but at some point I want to plate so its getting annoying
2y ago TheRedPill
What are thoughts on taking girls to dinner for first date? For context, I’ve taken 7 girls to dinner over the last 3 weeks (all from Tinder or Hinge). Went back to my apartment after with 6 and fucked 5 of them. I take them to upscale places but I do genuinely enjoy nice restaurants and its a hobby of mine outside of dating so I am alos doing it for my enjoyment. I do also pay every time but I make a relatively high amount of money for my age (23), so I don’t mind paying at all. However, I know this can be perceived a certain way by girls and I want to avoid that. I’ve had a lot of success so far but the one thing that I can’t figure out is why I haven’t been able to secure a 2nd date with any of them. To be fair I was only interested in seeing 3 of the 7 again but got ghosted by 2 and the 3rd flaked twice when I tried to set another date up so I nexted. Do you think taking them out to dinner could be part of this?
If it's a hobby for you to eat out at fine restaurants, talk to your accountant, and develop a plan that enables you to write the cost of the meals off on your business expenses. Unless a female is my grandmother, mother, sister, daughter, or wife, I generally don't make it a concern to feed them. That's a husband and father's responsibility, not a dates.
I learned early on in high school that females felt themselves entitled to being provided the best quality meal option available on a date. I quickly refused to do this. During college, I learned from females, both young and old, that they dated men so they could eat regularly because the educations they pursued had no real market value. Years later, research into female psychology and behavior would confirm this whorish fact.
Read More2y ago TheRedPill
@Elvis_Fawksley i get a text that night or the next morning from them every time saying they had fun. from what i can tell im fucking them good but i guess its a possibility. im just trying to pinpoint the issue because i want to start plating a few
2y ago Ask TRP
What are thoughts on taking girls to dinner for first date? For context, I’ve taken 7 girls to dinner over the last 3 weeks (all from Tinder or Hinge). Went back to my apartment after with 6 and fucked 5 of them. I take them to upscale places but I do genuinely enjoy nice restaurants and its a hobby of mine outside of dating so I am alos doing it for my enjoyment. I do also pay every time but I make a relatively high amount of money for my age (23), so I don’t mind paying at all. However, I know this can be perceived a certain way by girls and I want to avoid that. I’ve had a lot of success so far but the one thing that I can’t figure out is why I haven’t been able to secure a 2nd date with any of them. To be fair I was only interested in seeing 3 of the 7 again but got ghosted by 2 and the 3rd flaked twice when I tried to set another date up so I nexted. Do you think taking them out to dinner could be part of this?
Read More2y ago TheRedPill
What are thoughts on taking girls to dinner for first date? For context, I’ve taken 7 girls to dinner over the last 3 weeks (all from Tinder or Hinge). Went back to my apartment after with 6 and fucked 5 of them. I take them to upscale places but I do genuinely enjoy nice restaurants and its a hobby of mine outside of dating so I am alos doing it for my enjoyment. I do also pay every time but I make a relatively high amount of money for my age (23), so I don’t mind paying at all. However, I know this can be perceived a certain way by girls and I want to avoid that. I’ve had a lot of success so far but the one thing that I can’t figure out is why I haven’t been able to secure a 2nd date with any of them. To be fair I was only interested in seeing 3 of the 7 again but got ghosted by 2 and the 3rd flaked twice when I tried to set another date up so I nexted. Do you think taking them out to dinner could be part of this?
Read More2y ago Red Pill Me
What are thoughts on taking girls to dinner for first date? For context, I’ve taken 7 girls to dinner over the last 3 weeks (all from Tinder or Hinge). Went back to my apartment after with 6 and fucked 5 of them. I take them to upscale places but I do genuinely enjoy nice restaurants and its a hobby of mine outside of dating so I am alos doing it for my enjoyment. I do also pay every time but I make a relatively high amount of money for my age (23), so I don’t mind paying at all. However, I know this can be perceived a certain way by girls and I want to avoid that. I’ve had a lot of success so far but the one thing that I can’t figure out is why I haven’t been able to secure a 2nd date with any of them. To be fair I was only interested in seeing 3 of the 7 again but got ghosted by 2 and the 3rd flaked twice when I tried to set another date up so I nexted. Do you think taking them out to dinner could be part of this?
Read More2y ago The Hub
What are thoughts on taking girls to dinner for first date? For context, I’ve taken 7 girls to dinner over the last 3 weeks (all from Tinder or Hinge). Went back to my apartment after with 6 and fucked 5 of them. I take them to upscale places but I do genuinely enjoy nice restaurants and its a hobby of mine outside of dating so I am also doing it for my enjoyment. I do also pay every time but I make a relatively high amount of money for my age (23), so I don’t mind paying at all. However, I know this can be perceived a certain way by girls and I want to avoid that. I’ve had a lot of success so far but the one thing that I can’t figure out is why I haven’t been able to secure a 2nd date with any of them. To be fair I was only interested in seeing 3 of the 7 again but got ghosted by 2 and the 3rd flaked twice when I tried to set another date up so I nexted. Do you think taking them out to dinner could be part of this?
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