2y ago TheRedPill
Any advice would be greatly appreciated guys. I’m in my feels! I got on my girlfriends (of 6 months) Snapchat last night and saw she had a 5 day snap streak with a guy. I know who he is and we’ve talked about him before. I saw a text on her phone when we first started dating and I made it abundantly clear that it was unacceptable and it needed to end immediately. He is definitely a beta male orbiter she is using for free attention, but I’m still not comfortable with it. To my knowledge they’ve never hung out while we were dating. I immediately broke up with her and am not sure if that’s the right move. Am I deep down an insecure beta male that can’t handle my girl having some free validation from a non threat man? Should I just expect my girlfriend to have orbiters? Is it okay? It doesn’t feel okay but I’m struggling to come up with clear thoughts around this topic.
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