2y ago TheRedPill
Read MoreWhen a female wants to establish or maintain a relationship with you, she will do whatever it takes to do so. Bonnie robbed banks for Clyde. Matilda of Flanders refused to marry anyone but William the Conqueror, who was disallowed to marry her by Pope Leo IX for publicly assaulting her. If things were going well for you two, you wouldn't have moved 4-5 hours away nor would lock downs have stopped her. It might be time to for you to re-explore hobbies as you work towards figuring out if you're the sort of man a woman should remove obstacles in her way to be with.
Good shit. It reminds me of this excerpt from Rollo Tomassi's "The Rational Male", chapter 9, section "Iron Rule III":
A woman who wants to fuck you will find a way to fuck you. She will fly across the country, crawl under barbed wire, climb in though your second story bedroom window, fuck the shit out of you and wait patiently inside your closet if your wife comes home early from work - women who want to fuck will find a way to fuck.
@RedBird6, I highly recommend reading the book I quoted as well, along with his blog archives at www.therationalmale.com. Roissy/Heartiste is even better. Read through his blog archives at Heartiste.org.
2y ago TheRedPill
Basically: dated a girl from Jan - April 2020. I lived in Canada and crossed to Buffalo. Eventually border closure due to pandemic we got cut off and stopped seeing each other. Then I moved to a city 4-5 hours away. Basically gone no contact since April 2020.
Since then I've been on multiple dates, had a gf for 6 months, hooked up with 5 other women. It's not like im a miserable shut in crippled with sadness.
But I still can't get over her. Some days I think about her all the time. I long for the days we were together. It's like looking back a dream that I cannot access. We had such a great time together and was cut off by COVID-19 and I still can't ever get over her.
I feel like such a pussy and a simp but no matter what I do, I cannot get over her. I messaged her back in Feb 2021 to see what's up and she shut me down right away, saying she isn't interested in continuing anything from last year :(
Any tips on getting over her emotionally?
When a female wants to establish or maintain a relationship with you, she will do whatever it takes to do so. Bonnie robbed banks for Clyde. Matilda of Flanders refused to marry anyone but William the Conqueror, who was disallowed to marry her by Pope Leo IX for publicly assaulting her. If things were going well for you two, you wouldn't have moved 4-5 hours away nor would lock downs have stopped her. It might be time to for you to re-explore hobbies as you work towards figuring out if you're the sort of man a woman should remove obstacles in her way to be with.
In the meantime, consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, known otherwise until recently as Tom Hodges until his recent passing, wrote a weekly advice column that's mirrored on several sites and ran a podcast. While his media is a bit pricey, it's well worth the investment, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. If you've already found you'd like to read his book, but find money is an issue for you, you should be able to find copies through torrent sites, but I won't say where you should start on that endeavor. Given his passing, it's entirely possible that his site will soon have a sale and afterwards his media will likely be more expensive.
Read More2y ago TheRedPill
Basically: dated a girl from Jan - April 2020. I lived in Canada and crossed to Buffalo. Eventually border closure due to pandemic we got cut off and stopped seeing each other. Then I moved to a city 4-5 hours away. Basically gone no contact since April 2020.
Since then I've been on multiple dates, had a gf for 6 months, hooked up with 5 other women. It's not like im a miserable shut in crippled with sadness.
But I still can't get over her. Some days I think about her all the time. I long for the days we were together. It's like looking back a dream that I cannot access. We had such a great time together and was cut off by COVID-19 and I still can't ever get over her.
I feel like such a pussy and a simp but no matter what I do, I cannot get over her. I messaged her back in Feb 2021 to see what's up and she shut me down right away, saying she isn't interested in continuing anything from last year :(
Any tips on getting over her emotionally?
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