2y ago TheRedPill
Looking on advice on what I should do with my critical/complaining girlfriend. We've been together for 9 months and recently moved in together. Over the past couple of months I've noticed she criticises me. This has increased a lot recently.
For example I went to the shop to get us stuff to make dinner. And she first of all comments regarding the lack of sustainability of food I bought as its something that was imported from the other side of the world. Then she complains about the way I cut the ends off and throw it away. So I tell her there's a way to encourage someone to be sustainable and this is not it. She eventually storms off and sleeps in the spare bedroom for the night. Often times she'll pick the stupidest stuff to criticise me on, like that some piece of food I add to a dish doesn't suit the entire meal. Today she asked me "Do I think this working or not" She's also told me about some star sign bullshit and how it says we're not a good fit because she likes to argue and I don't
So to sum up:
- She seems generally unhappy, probably in the relationship & in life in general.
- She seems to have more criticisms than compliments for me
I care about her but I think she's being unnecessarily bitchy. Her argument would be that I'm not being proactive enough in something that she really cares about (sustainabilty). My argument is that overall I'm good with it and that you can't expect to change someone like that
Should I just let her go?
Yes, you should let her go. Hell, you never should've moved the whiny cunt into your home to begin with. You've significantly complicated matters for yourself by doing so, especially if she's been on your lease for thirty days or receiving mail at your address. Do yourself a favor, hard as this maybe, before you put her out stop having sex with her for the next two months so you know that she's not pregnant. Then get some boxes together to pack any of her things into and drop them off with her parents or her nearest relative or friend.
When that mess you've gotten yourself into is sorted, consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, also known as the late Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's mirrored on several sites and a podcast. While his media is a bit pricey, it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. If you've already found you'd like to read his book, save yourself a search and give this scribed link a gander.
Read More2y ago TheRedPill
@Boosted_Arrow I would say trust yourself in these situations. Don't be afraid to tease the guy and the girl a little. If you can make them laugh then even better. Also, if you've interesting things going on in your life than you'll be more confident and at ease in these situations.
2y ago TheRedPill
Looking on advice on what I should do with my critical/complaining girlfriend. We've been together for 9 months and recently moved in together. Over the past couple of months I've noticed she criticises me. This has increased a lot recently.
For example I went to the shop to get us stuff to make dinner. And she first of all comments regarding the lack of sustainability of food I bought as its something that was imported from the other side of the world. Then she complains about the way I cut the ends off and throw it away. So I tell her there's a way to encourage someone to be sustainable and this is not it. She eventually storms off and sleeps in the spare bedroom for the night. Often times she'll pick the stupidest stuff to criticise me on, like that some piece of food I add to a dish doesn't suit the entire meal. Today she asked me "Do I think this working or not" She's also told me about some star sign bullshit and how it says we're not a good fit because she likes to argue and I don't
So to sum up:
- She seems generally unhappy, probably in the relationship & in life in general.
- She seems to have more criticisms than compliments for me
I care about her but I think she's being unnecessarily bitchy. Her argument would be that I'm not being proactive enough in something that she really cares about (sustainabilty). My argument is that overall I'm good with it and that you can't expect to change someone like that
Should I just let her go?
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