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@SteinitzX It is quite correlated I'd say. More experiences with the hottest women could defintelly help maintain my frame when dealing with them. How do you meet the better looking ones? Cold approach? Social circle?
The hottest ones I've dealt with were always met through social circle and Im afraid I just don't have enough friends to regularly meet new women that way.
2y ago Ask TRP
@SteinitzX I guess this is a part of a bigger problem which is the fact that since the pandemic I've been mostly meeting girls through dating apps where I am usually able to hook up with 6s and 7s while this girl is easilly 8 or 9 (met her through friends circle where I have some social proof).
For now I guess I'll just stay away from my phone until my emotions calm down a bit. And in the long term I'll work on meeting better women.
2y ago Ask TRP
@SteinitzX Thanks man. This makes perfect sense. On the rational level I knew that. Its just surprising to me how strong these beta condidioned impulses can get, especially since I haven't felt anything like that for a long time now. I met her two days ago and Im fucked, I cant focus on anything productive (i know this gets better when a couple days without contact pass). Im just wondering, is there any way to actually get rid of these impulses? Its dificult to rationally persuade myself now. Any ideas?
2y ago Ask TRP
[Need help - developing feelings/oneitis??] Hey guys, Im having trouble dealing with my emotions right now and I don't know how to proceed. I've been doing relatively well recently, spinning some plates, working out (weights, combat sports), doing good at my job etc. Untill I met this one girl. I just can't help it but im definitely developing some feelings towards her. We met and had sex 3 times since we got to know each other about 2 months ago. I was able to hold frame relatively well, but i feel like its crumbling. I havent done anything stupid yet but I feel like I am one text away from doing some weak ass beta bullshit. I am not in scarcity, meaning I have other options to pursue (girls who are chasing me) but I got to be honest, the one in question is probbably the most attractive and we generally vibe best (common interests etc.) Honestly I could not care less about other girls right now and I know this is bad. This girl feels like drugs - no bullshit.
I don't really know what Im asking here, maybe just how to deal with the emotions of wanting to text her all the fuckin time and spend time with her like we are some couple in love or some other romcom bullshit. I know this a bad state to be in and im terrified but have no fucking idea how to deal with these feelings and im not gonna talk to my BP friends.
btw. sorry if I am posting this in the wrong place, I still don't really get this page.
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Couldnt get it up - any way to salvage this?
Hey guys, I'll make this short. I (26) was recently back in my hometown for my friend's birthday party. There I met this girl (22ish). She was all over me, it never went as smooth for me before. We had a lot of fun together and after the party was done we went to her place. There it turned out I had too much to drink (I only have this problem after alcohol) and could not get it up. Do you think there is a way to make this work after a thing like that? I wanted to make her a plate to meet for when I am back in my hometown (quite often, since its not that far from where I live now) but I'm afraid that now my frame is ruined.
Thanks and cheers