AWALT/AMALT (Repost/Crosspost from TRP) | RedPillWomen

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ALL Women Are Like That/ALL Men Are Like That

Another surge in growth, another batch of newbies attempting to co-opt our message to fit their narrative. It is not going to happen, so read carefully and educate yourself.

Hypergamy, Solipsism, Rationalization, and Dark Triad traits.

These are core concepts of The Red Pill and you need to understand they apply to every single person on this planet. Yes. You, your mother, your sister, your girlfriend, your best friend, and your boss.

All definitions will be taken from the sidebar and then I will explain them in a little more detail.

"Hypergamy - The instinctual urge for women to seek out the best alpha available. This is marked by maximizing rejection (therefore women are the selective gender). A woman will vet her alpha through various shit tests to ensure his "health" on the alpha scale. She is conditioned to recognize a declining alpha, as hypergamy also tends to continue seeking out higher status males even while with an alpha male. Shit tests allow her to prepare herself for eventually leaving when a new higher status male is found. If the male fails shit tests to a great enough degree, it will effect her feelings for him. He will effectively lower his sexual market value in her eyes. This will enable her to jump to the next male with ease and little remorse."

When a woman "falls in love" with you she falls in love with the man you are at that point in your relationship. If over the course of the relationship you lose your job, gain a bunch of weight, stop challenging/dominating her, and generally become a supplicating low value male she will lose her attraction to you and start pursuing other options. This is the natural course women have evolved to insure they do not get impregnated with inferior genetics and/or behavior. Now, understand this doesn't mean that as soon as a Tall, Dark, and Handsome^^^TM walks by she is instantly going to ditch you. As long as you are more valuable than she is, and you maintain a strong frame she has no reason to stray. This is where her solipsism can actually aid you. She views the world through only her perspective, and you are the highest value man in her world. Maintain this and you will maintain her loyalty.

Men also have hypergamy but it isn't quite as harsh as women's, and generally revolves around her beauty and femininity whereas with women there are many more factors because of the different attraction triggers between the sexes.

"Solipsism - extreme preoccupation with and indulgence of one's feelings, desires, etc.; egoistic self-absorption."

This actually isn't in our glossary, and damn does that need to be updated, but it is on dictionary.com

Basically, this is viewing the world through only your perspective. Both sexes do it, but just like with hypergamy, women do it more often and to a greater degree. You can see it in any conversation you have with a woman, especially about other women. They will take any criticism directed at women personally, and if you attempt to debate a woman about something and prove her wrong she cannot separate the topic from her own feelings and will usually attempt to concoct some psychological warfare to throw you off. There is also a phenomenon called "in-group gender bias" which perpetuates female solipsism. Long story short, historically women had to band together for survival and naturally trust each other more than they trust men. From a strictly reproductive stand point, women are also worth more than men because they make the babies. All of this ties in together and explains why women naturally defend each other, and have a hard time putting themselves in other people's shoes, or, solipsism. That is until a high value man comes along, and then many of them will slit each other's throats to attract him. Evolution hard at work.

"Rationalization - The tendency for women to use rationalization to resolve mental conflict and avoid cognitive dissonance. The core mechanism that allows women to say one thing and do a different thing."

As we continue the trend, yes, men do it too, but not nearly as often or to the same degree. Examples are posted constantly in the sub and if you need any further proof head on over to /r/pussypass and look at what these women say. It is unbelievable the mental gymnastics that women are capable of to avoid accountability and responsibility, but such is life. Learn how to make the hamster work for you instead of against.

Friend of plate: "Wow, he seems kind of rude and stand offish."

Plate: "Nahhh, he's actually kind of sweet once you get to know him."

I've used this trick for over a decade. No darlin' I am absolutely rude and stand offish but the difference is - you're attracted to me.

Dark Triad traits

Another term not in our highly outdated glossary, but it is on wiki.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dark_triad

Narcissism is characterized by grandiosity, pride, egotism, and a lack of empathy.

Machiavellianism is characterized by manipulation and exploitation of others, a cynical disregard for morality, and a focus on self-interest and deception.

Psychopathy is characterized by enduring antisocial behavior, impulsivity, selfishness, callousness, and remorselessness.

Many of you chuckleheads seem to think you have none of these traits, well new guy, you do. We all do, and the women do as well. The difference is to what degree. There is a pretty decent test which I believe is actually the standard for Psychology.

http://personality-testing.info/tests/SD3.php

DEGREE

I just touched on this but let me clarify.

EVERY SINGLE HAIRLESS CHIMP ON THIS PLANET HAS THESE BEHAVIORS. ALL 7.149 BILLION OF US.

YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL.

Now, the difference is degree. Some men have a high Psychopathy percentile, some women have a low solipsism percentile, and some men have a high hypergamy percentile. Regardless, we all have these behavioral traits and the thing that separates us is degree. Men will generally be higher (Dark Triad) in some areas, while women will be generally higher (Solipsism, Hypergamy, Rationalization) in others. Some of it is nature, and some of it is nurture, but either way they affect all of us.

-SH

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throwaway_redpill2 12y ago

Now, the difference is degree

IMHO this is the crux of the argument, really. A rare individual woman (or man) might exhibit lesser amounts of one of the traits you mentioned, but that person is a) a statistical anomaly (and lesser amounts is still a nonzero amount), and b) probably only for that trait.

In short, adding "statistically" to every sentence on here results in stuff that makes lots of sense.

aaron_the_just 12y ago

Grown-ups speak in generalities. For example, I can say "Men have penises, women have vaginas."

I don't have to clarify that "Some people are born intersexed and have the wrong genitalia. Some are born hermaphrodites and have both genitalia. Some people have accidents at birth and get their genitals cut off."

But a typical blue-pill discussion about men or women immediately turns into the above: "What about gay women?" "What about MTF women?" "What about women who think they are actually a flying dinosaur trapped in a woman's body?"

Zanmoose 12y ago

"She is conditioned to recognize a declining alpha, as hypergamy also tends to continue seeking out higher status males even while with an alpha male"

This ^ wouldn't the world be a much better place if her instinct was to help pick the declining alpha up so he could continue to be her alpha? Our wiring... so sad..

The world would be a better place without mosquitoes, but nature is a harsh mistress.

Nature is humanity's bitch, growing up my city had the WORST mosquito problem.. but its been like 2 or 3 years since Ive seen one.

We can't spray women with DDT.

[deleted] 12y ago

i dont agree with the definition of solipsism. female solipsism is the extreme tendency of women to make everything personal and about themselves. a good non-RP related example of female solipsism is something im very guilty of all the time, if i type something in a lively chatroom and suddenly everyone stops chatting i IMMEDIATELY assume its because of ME and something I did and everyone is mad at ME. men on the whole do not experience this. also the tendency to become VERY upset when they see a generalization about "women" they dont like is a good example. women read generalizations as PERSONAL ATTACKS and will immediate respond with explanations of the way they are special snowflakes who never insert generalization here. if a woman sees two people at work speaking quietly in a corner, she will assume they are talking about her

basically female solipsism is a lot like how every time you go into the kitchen, the cat genuinely believes you are about to give them a can, because why else would you go into the kitchen?

Bakerofpie 12y ago

Very well put. That does seem to be a particular variety of solipsism that is more heavily represented among women.

SoftHarem 12y ago

Solipsism - extreme preoccupation with and indulgence of one's feelings, desires, etc.; egoistic self-absorption.

That is taken directly from the dictionary and seems to line up with your examples. I don't see the confusion.

i just think its not specfic enough. i see "female solipsism" as an idiomatic expression that incorporates more of the specific nuances of what i pointed up in the examples than just the bald word "solipsism". but its no biggie :)

Fair enough. If we were to take the definition and add to/change it to specify female solipsism how would it look?

PhantomDream09 12y ago

"The overwhelming compulsion of women to take anything said about 'a woman' or 'that woman' to apply specifically to them. Women are naturally disinclined to remove themselves/their views from a situation, and almost exclusively analyze things from their specific point of view. Women will go to extreme lengths to preserve/defend the idea that 'their view' is the absolute and unquestionably correct opinion."

Or something like that (possibly more eloquent and useful...and yes, I'm being a solipsistic woman right now by taking attention away from the work and qualifying my efforts. Apologies.*)

*D'oh!

Really appreciate seeing this post here, especially with the recent question about why men don't cry "NAMALT" but women cry "NAWALT."

That post definitely motivated this one. Many people do not understand that because we are a sub lead by men, for men, and by men that our theories do not also apply to men. Of course they do, we just don't talk much about it because we're in the business of attracting women.

I guessed it might have! Productivity is key, so crying over generalizations instead of utilizing them helps no one.

Thanks for posting this SoftHarem.

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AY GURL. I have noticed a few too many Blue and Purple comments. Save that nonsense for the rest of the internet.

I just made a "clarification" post myself. I'm tired of the nonsense.

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