Hey everyone, so I was going through the list of users with flair, and I realized it's been far too long since the Moderating team bopped users with the Flair wand. So, I thought it would be good to ask for everyone's help.
If you currently don't have flair, tell us how long you've been participating and actively commenting on the RPW sub.
If you've had the same flair for 2 months or longer, let us know and we'll look into upgrading you.
Gentlemen, feel free to request a "RP Man" flair as well.

blonde_locks 11y ago
When's the next bop? I'd love to be part of the bop committee!
MorePancakes 11y ago
RP man here, been commenting for about 3 months, mainly focusing on articles asking/commenting on male psyche. I try to give level headed opinions when women seem to be asking for them.
a_killa_kitty 11y ago
Thank you! I feel special!
whimsicalweasel 11y ago
Is there anyway I could score a RPW in training tag? I've been here for about a month and I feel like I ask way to many questions, but I'm learning.
aTweetingBird 11y ago
I would love a flair! Been lurking since December-ish, and posting for a few months.
Spore2012 11y ago
Can I get my RP man flair. I love this SR. The only place on the internet with sane women.
RedPillMotors 11y ago
Can I maybe get some RP Man flair? I don't chime in much, but I seem to get decent feedback.
RedPillMotors 11y ago
Thank you kindly ladies. :)
Nicanooni 11y ago
I would love flair, but I don't know if I deserve it yet, I do comment and participate but not as much as I would like. I've been on here for about 5 months, I'm trying to get back on here more ;)
beginnerbuttocks 11y ago
Me please! I've contributed many articles and original posts.
VarsitySlutTeamCpt 11y ago
Can i get an RP Man flair? I've been posting/lurking for the past two months.
snbdmliss 11y ago
I'm here fairly often reading and occasionally commenting, not sure I deserve flair yet, but I do think in many ways I'm a RPW, and I actively strive to be the best good woman I can be.
Mr_Mori 11y ago
Seven months into TRP and recent discoverer of this sub. I tend to send my non-feminist and anti-feminist cohorts this way.
Flare me up if you'd like.
And as usual ladies, keep up the good fight.
[deleted] 11y ago
I've been a RPW for six months(wow already!) and I've had this flair for about a month now. I doubt if I qualify for the big one just yet.
IllDoMyBest 11y ago
Before seeing this post I had no idea what "flair" was - I learn something new every day! Having been a long time lurker, I made my account in order to comment when RPW hit 5000. I had been an active reader of RP material even before finding this place, and have lived with RP ideals pretty much all my life.
However, I'm pretty sure I don't qualify as an active commenter. I do read basically everything that gets posted here, but I don't comment often because I either 1) feel that what I can contribute with has already been said, 2) fail at finding the right words to express myself, or 3) feel unqualified to comment due to my young age, inexperience etc..
Perhaps in a few months time things will be different, or maybe I will never qualify for a flair. But I will continue trying to find chances to contribute nevertheless.
TheToastTot 11y ago
Well... One of my posts was featured in /r/thebluepill
So... Maybe I can get an upgrade? XD
menina_idealista 11y ago
If they were hating on you, you are an official RPW. Congrats! :D
aZombieKitten 11y ago
Had the big flair previously from months of posting but now I have nothing since, well, yesterday.
Would love to have it back, but there's no rush. :3
PhantomDream09 11y ago
HAhaha! Good point, and thanks for the reminder. :0)
aZombieKitten 11y ago
You're welcome. :3 Opportunity arose when I saw this thread.
Kikuhoshi 11y ago
I don't think I deserve one, but I'd like to see this up again in a couple of months. :)
PhantomDream09 11y ago
Yes, I think we'll make a habit of posting a thread like this in a few months. It's easier than trying to keep track of all the users here individually.
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swift-heart 11y ago
just noticed the new changes to the flair, it looks so pretty! and i'm very grateful for the bop. <3
Kikuhoshi 11y ago
Hooray! :) Thank you!
TempestTcup 11y ago
Do you have flair turned on? It's on the sidebar by your name.
Kikuhoshi 11y ago
I don't. I'm still new, & I don't think I'm "ready" for a flair yet. I have a lot to work on in regards to my attitude. Thank you, though!
TempestTcup 11y ago
Okay - just checking!
Kikuhoshi 11y ago
:) Thank you! :)
morganlane 11y ago
I've been posting here for about 5 months now. I'd like to be considered for flair, please!
proprioceptor 11y ago
I'd definitely like flair if you feel like I've earned it. I've been commenting for a couple of months now and I take the ideas discussed here very seriously in my relationship. However if you feel like it's too early, or that I should participate more before getting flair I would completely understand.
DanteAmaya 11y ago
I got magicked with some flair a while back. I like the one I have, and if my relationship keeps going well maybe I'll request an upgrade in a few months. :) (I actually counted it an achievement that two of my recent posts were ripped on by /r/thebluepill )
menina_idealista 11y ago
I don't deserve a flair because I never submit any articles or say anything groundbreaking, but I just wanted to mention, it would be cool if the flairs (basic or otherwise) came in different color choices. :) That would add some diversity to them, and it'd be really pretty. Just a thought!
MeowZedong- 11y ago
I don't think I'm flair worthey quite yet as I'm pretty new and still learning! But I try hard to make good comments and communicate with you all, I just never have anything good to post!
StingrayVC 11y ago
Your moniker is hilarious!
MeowZedong- 11y ago
Thank you :)
[deleted] 11y ago
Wouldn't mind an RP man flair.
Hydrangeas0813 11y ago
I've been living the RP life for seven and a half years now but I haven't been here for all that long. I'll let you decide if I deserve flair.
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MrsKittenHeel 11y ago
I have been posting here nearly 2 months. I am naturally very red pill and so is my husband. May I please have a flair? :)
MrsKittenHeel 11y ago
Love it, thank you :)
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gabilromariz 11y ago
I'd love to get a flair but I'm not sure as to whether I deserve one, especially if there is more than one. Is there something in the lines of "in training" or something?
I've been here for 4 months and I'm applying principles in real life with great results but I'm unsure of whether my advice is useful/quality. I try, though, so suggestions are welcome
sierrasecho 11y ago
May I recommend /u/gabilromariz for flair? I like her responses ususally :)
gabilromariz 11y ago
Aww thanks. I'm kind of insecure about whether my advice is "good RP-ing" so this means a lot to me :)
sierrasecho 11y ago
Mayhaps it is not. I'm still learning too! Regardless, without reading back, I recall a lot of you trying to be feminine at least
gabilromariz 11y ago
I do try, but that's my point, I'm not sure of how good I'm at right now nd whether it's good enough for flair. I'll let the modettes decide.
I saw someone else say modettes here and i just find it adorable. And thanks for reading my stuff
Aerobus 11y ago
I don't much care for an RP man flare but if the mods feel it will help people (understand that I'm speaking as a man) then go ahead and give me one.
MrsStrom 11y ago
I've had this flair for more than two months. ;-)
PhantomDream09 11y ago
Haha, well, if we ever make something else available, I'll let ya know.
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MrsStrom 11y ago
Can I be "Marmee"? Like in Little Women?
Bbyybbbaby 11y ago
I will hold off on my flair. I have only been here a month and I still need to work on my femininity.
I got asked the other day if I served in the military :/ I really need to work on the way I hold and carry myself
tofeelforever 11y ago
Might have just been because you have really good posture. Do you?
Bad posture is pretty par for the course these days.
Bbyybbbaby 11y ago
I do have pretty good posture but is mainly manly posture.
Hands behind back standing up straight, legs slightly apart. I have a friend who is in the army my who is also a PT. He tends to get me to stand like that and has so for years to correct my bad posture I had. But I have started to take it in in real life.
When you stand like that having to wear steel capped boots and a hard hat, you definitely look very manly.
[deleted] 11y ago
I've been lurking for a while, and contributing for about a month. I'm not sure I deserve flair, but I would appreciate it.
swift-heart 11y ago
i've been active here for a few months and try to avoid giving non rp advice, and i think i've made a lot of progress in regards to my femininity?
but really, it's up to the lovely mods. i certainly don't feel entitled to one or anything :3
Engineergirl22 11y ago
I don't think I have earned my flair just yet. I have been lurking for a couple of weeks and just starting to feel like I enough understanding to start commenting, plus still working on incorporating all of these ideas into my life.
sierrasecho 11y ago
It feels a bit too bold to request this. I'm not sure I'm worthy, but that is to the modettes to determine. I would feel pretty damn proud if granted though :)
swift-heart 11y ago
actually i see you have one, it's just not the fancy one haha.
Italianweddingcake 11y ago
I think I deserve a flair, please. :) well, I've been here awhile and I try to share good articles with you like minded women. My record speaks for itself.
[deleted] 11y ago
I think you totally deserve a flair.
Samantha_Simpson 11y ago
I've posted here a few times before, but I'm probably not among the more active users. I do read this sub regularly though, and my beliefs are certainly much more aligned with RP than anything else due in large part to being raised by a very RP mother.
PhantomDream09 11y ago
No worries, I got ya covered. Congrats!
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LadyKitten 11y ago
I only joined about 2-3 weeks ago, so I'm not sure what the criteria is on these things >.< I've been actively commenting for only about 12 days...
tofeelforever 11y ago
I don't think I deserve flair yet as I'm still working on sometimes being selfish IRL with S.
So please do this again in a couple of months!
PhantomDream09 11y ago
I'll hold off on the flair, but I will commend you for your honesty. Sounds like you're working hard and making progress.
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How are you selfish out of curiosity?
tofeelforever 11y ago
It can be hard for me to get out of my own head and recognize what he needs and how much he does for us.
I'm also still sometimes bad about telling him what to do - just being bossy and controlling. It causes problems for obvious reasons.
I'm improving with time though!
HappySnowGirl 11y ago
I'd love flair. This is the only sub I really frequent. I've been around for a few months, but I'm sporadically active. I try to only comment on that which I can add something new, unique or meaningful.
Is it tacky to ask for flair? It feels like a faux pas! :-P
PhantomDream09 11y ago
It's not tacky when the Mods are asking users to pipe up and help out. We've been kept rather busy and giving flair to loyal users is important, so this is an attempt to pick up the slack and show appreciation to the wonderful users that help make this sub a useful and thriving community.
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LL-007 11y ago
I'm new! a flair would be sooo cool!
PhantomDream09 11y ago
Flair is somewhat of an incentive for users. The longer they stick around, and the more insightful/frequently they comment - the more they establish a positive reputation and earn flair.
Stay active, continue to contribute and you'll get there.
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LL-007 11y ago
Ok! I will.
KlaiFrai 11y ago
I've only been here a month. While I'm great at being a doting RPW for my SO, I'm not quite the lady I'd like to be with friends, family, and acquaintances. Maybe when I can be gracious and less controlling to everyone, I'll consider a flair.
Bakerofpie 11y ago
Last time I was on a PC (3 months ago?) I saw I had flair, but I'm not sure what varieties of flair exist.
PhantomDream09 11y ago
You have the big flair, and there's nothing that comes "after" that...so unfortunately I can't do anything other than say you're amazing and that it's great to have you here. :0)
Bakerofpie 11y ago
Haha, well now I feel all fancy! ;-P
sugarcrush 11y ago
I have flair already but I like the word "bopped" so I have to comment.
Bop bop bop! :P
PhantomDream09 11y ago
Boppers, Bopply, Boop.
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a_killa_kitty 11y ago
I'm still in training. I'm commenting because I would love a flair linking me to RP women because I wish to get the word out. I think marriage is failing and this is our only hope. The more women and quality men that research and swallow the pill the better.
That being said I don't feel I am carrying my weight in my relationship. I have a truly amazing man that is my everything and I'm not doing well under stress. feel I'm failing at my role.
Also I'm not fully in agreement with shaming promiscuous women. I'm all for lying in the bed they have made for themselves and being responsible for their choices. I just tend to read dead bedroom stories and majority of them are wives who aren't/weren't sex positive. Not that AWALT but the husbands wish the women weren't so antisexuality.
Edit: CCW
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