I'm not married, as a disclaimer, but my instinct is that yes, they will become bored if you're a doormat who does everything he wants. I'd play a little hard to get with the sex, personally. I would elaborate on that but it's hard to without really specific examples. You gotta keep him still craving you and wanting more, IMO.

More you give to men better it is. Usually it's women who find out-putting this kind of thing, definitely not men.

It depends. How reciprocal is it?

I ask because MUCH violence isn't one-sided. If you are both violent (or you trigger him, many women do and some even like it or get off on it (See Erin Pizzey's experiences with her battered women's shelter)) then you've got a LOT of work ahead of you.

If it's just him who's violent, and it's not a one-time occasion, then get out. It's likely not fixable (because it's all on him). When it's reciprocal, you can work on it together to stop the circumstances that cause it to arise.

Physical violence is a line that the overwhelming majority of men will never cross because it's a red line, deal-breaker and non negotiable.

Men are different from women. This is one way how. Read this blog post. It should help. Don't try to change him, try to understand him.

http://judgybitch.com/2012/11/07/men-talk-about-their-feelings-all-the-time-they-just-dont-use-words/

That's not exactly how I would put it. How I would put it is;

Hypergamy is wanting the most attractive man possible. If you believe your man is the most attractive man possible then your Hypergamy instinct is satisfied.

You can definitely become in love, or become obsessed with a man where this is a thing that happens.

It's true. But it can also be dangerous, because it blinds you to his faults. If you love him but don't respect him, and the love falters, you'll fall out of the relationship faster than you will believe.

Hypergamy functions on the premise that women will always look for the best possible mate. When you're in love, all the positive traits of your object of affection are highlighted and the negative traits downplayed. In comparison, all other men don't measure up. So by attaining the best, you stop actively looking for other mates. Of course, love and relationships aren't static, so circumstances can change and you could fall out of love, or have your attraction to him decrease enough that you look for other options.

Very true. As long as you love nobody will compare to the one you love. They cannot be the same and such they will never reach the value he has.

what if there were women who are better in sex than me?

Let me put in this way, while not having sex is a deal breaker for men, it's not the main reason he chooses to keep a girl around for. That's the purpose of girl game.

Men don't wander for the same reasons that women do. A man won't kick a woman over for sexual inexperience; he will kick her over for a) turning him down, b) being unwilling to try new things, or c) being unattractive sexually.

Do you maintain your looks? Are you agreeable, pleasant, and DTF? Are you open to/satisfy his kinks, and he yours?

If so, you've nothing to worry about in this department.

On cheating... is he a serial cheater? Do you have reason to believe he is predisposed to cheat? If so, that may not be fixable. But you should know why, if he is. If he keeps dating women who don't fulfill his needs, then... it's not hard to understand.

One crappy, old stereotype is of the faithless playboy male who just wants to score. Most men aren't like that - they have some level of code/integrity, even if it's just Bro Code. Ask a hundred men if they'd cheat if their woman was keeping them satisfied, and I guarantee you at least 75% would not. Because men aren't hypergamous. Hypergamy sees the grass is greener than what you have - even if what you have is GOOD - and goes after it. Most men aren't wired like that. Men seek something else because they lack what they need.

Put another way, a woman dating a faithful 5 will branch swing if a 7 makes his interest known. Whereas a man dating a faithful 7 will downgrade her to a 5 and possibly ditch her if she stops satisfying him.

Never ever get fat.

Admiration, respect and sexual desire.

Stay fit & treat him like a king.

I think you are a guy by your question and responses? If that's the case you should be on askTRP not RPWomen.

If you are a woman, then my suggestion is yoga to loosen up your body and bring a sense of ease. That will make you appear more relaxed and that should result in appearing less angry/tense.

This is a problem for me too!