Why would a girl be comfortable going on a date with someone they've talked to for 5 minutes? It kind of makes sense that a girl would be put off by the idea that someone they barely know is inviting them to hang out.
I got this one chick's number and I asked her out on a date in person, to which she agreed, then I ask when she's free through text which she didn't respond. I then ask her if she just wants to talk more and then we start talking about school. Anyways, I don't want to be her orbiter but I do understand her wanting to know me better before going on a date. Is this the right way of thinking?
Pedal_Moonpower 2y ago
Some TRP \ game material says you can't build comfort over text. She already is attracted and comfortable enough or unlikely will be. ANd although I have seen guys telling forum stories about high success converting girls from text to meet, that was when it started online [dating apps, INsta, fb]. My shot would be telling her to add you on [...] and telling her you will contact her when you have more time in a week - 10 days. Then go cold for that time. If your profile is good she might go for it. But again no more than 5 messages [try voice message].
whytehorse2021 2y ago
This is how you meet and determine if you want to go further. I suppose the alternative is an arranged marriage or introduction service.
NeoSpartan 2y ago
Depends on the girl really. For your situation, my best guess would be to get her a bit more comfortable with you but ask her out again pretty quickly, don't get trapped in the beta friendzone thing. Definitely add flirts to your convo, maybe just light ones idk this girl's temperament. You just gotta feel it out dude. The winky face emoji has never steered me wrong tho. Good luck.