I ended up matching with a girl on Tinder. She messaged me shortly after. Unfortunately, I made a mistake and swiped on her by accident. Anyway, I explained that to her and apologized. She began calling me names. I AGAIN apologized and wished her well. She became more vicious and ended up really getting to me. I hurled an insult about her physical appearance that was blatantly obvious. It was a rather cruel insult. Even she was taken aback. She claimed she was going to "blast" me on social media. Whether or not she screenshotted that conversation and posted it on social media is a mystery to me. The only thing that I pondered was that she MAY be mutual friends with some of my friends/or family. Who knows. Maybe not. I've learned my lesson. A friend of mine gave me the best advice. "When you say something to a girl, you are essentially saying it to her entire social circle." I was better off simply unliking her. Oh well. Lesson learned.
piamadeline 4y ago
Insults are never a nice thing but I think you felt triggered by her behavior, so I get you. Next time, refrain from engaging in a conversation like that. After apologizing once simply move on. Or don't apologize in the first place.
She sounds rather young and like she was being brainwashed by too many (fake) message posts on feminist accounts.
I wonder what she'll gain from posting the conversation? a self-esteem boost? Very immature. And if she posts it as long as she doesn't post your (full) name, so be it.
OppositionMemorialCe 4y ago
I appreciate your logical advice. I definitely should've just ceased activity the moment I apologized. More than likely, she will get a few moments of attention from her followers and move on. No, my first name was on there but not my last. I was more concerned about one of her friends or relatives seeing the post and searching me on Google. You know how people get...Either way, lesson learned.
mgtowolf 4y ago
Yeah sure I have. I have also had one shoop a convo to look like I threatened her. Good thing her shoop skills were shit, it was blatantly obvious. Didn't even come close to matching the font , let alone the font size lol.
OppositionMemorialCe 4y ago
Jesus Christ....the things some of these women do....I definitely learned my lesson. Every woman I speak to, I keep the conversation brief
MBV-09-C 4y ago
Honestly, you're better off just ditching tinder itself outright. Even if you're only using it for hook-ups, just about every girl on there is going to be 'high-maintenance' or psycho, and the two are not mutually exclusive.
InsertEdgyUsername8 4y ago
Kill em with kindness. They are usually the ones upset with themselves at the end of the day.