This may not be the accurate advice but it may be little bit helpful. So it's been 6 years since you were falsely accused for sexual assault. The thing is you have to get over it either today or in the future. I want you to ask yourself this question Do you want your life to be remembered by this incident? Talk to your parents and i would recommend you to talk to a consultant. There are great things ahead in life. You can grow from this situation man!!! Talk to those friends who are positive in life and who will not judge you based on this incident. I have not been a victim of sexual assault and i don't know what is it like to be in your shoes. Also good to know your family members are still with you. By the way i came here by seeing your comment in YouTube.

Bro im 14 and something similar happened to me at 13 in school. It's not cool man and I understand what it feels like because i was there in that situation as well. Just breathe and clear your head. It may seem hard but I'm living with the consequences of that aswell. We're all in this together brother. I'm indian but i live in the uk and I know what its like man.

Keep your head up king....

Threatening harm isn’t much better tho

Let’s be friends

Jesus fucking christ man, I'm sorry this happened to you. Do you have some sort of therapist to talk to about it? Or your family is the only one that knows the truth 100% and at least tries to support you?

Let me guess,

You are Indian?

i did not hit her i did not!

jokes aside, i hope you feel better

Appalling. I think you need to move out of the area as soon as you are comfortably able to do so. Women lie regularly in order to "get even" I know from personal experience of working in an office, and although it had nothing to do with sex, was pretty annoying in any case. More people will be along to give you further advice, and the most important thing you need to bear in mind is that you are not the only one. Do not consider suicide. That will let them win.

I can only imagine what you have been going through for the past 6 years. You need to get out of that town man. You're 18 right? Move into another city for your higher studies.

Wtf, falsely accused of sexual harassment at the age of 12? How would anyone even believe that? That's fucked up, I'm sorry that you had to go throught all this shit and remember that life is great and don't do anything crazy try to talk to someone like an expert about it

Sorry to hear this dude. We are all your friends on this subreddit =)

I've been in a rather similar situation. Good thing in my case I left the country I was in for another with my parents. I'm still socially awkward tho and I check many times before I befriend any female other than 2D characters. I think I'm making some progress tho. Moving to a more conservative country like Greece is also good option if you suffer such problems. People here have thicker skin and don't report you for sexual harassment for staring at their feet for 2 seconds.

Op. I can't profess to know how to help you. But I can offer you an ear in dark hours. If things every feel really bad, and you're done with it all, please message me. I'd love to talk to you

Hang in there. Is it possible to move? Maybe being out of that environment and around those people would help.

Hey. I am so sorry you have to go through that. I wish I could help you in some way or another! I hope you are able to seek the right help and that things get better! Stay strong because you’re worth it!

Sincerely man, you don't deserve that, and i'm so so sorry that you had to go through that, just because some stuck up bitch said you sexually harrased her, they had no right to do that, and i hope they recognize that and apologize, even if that is far fetched

Women won't stop at any cost to get what they want and you must remember that. When it feels like you have no-one on your side, remember that you have your family, and that you have us. You can PM me if you want. Stay strong bro.

This is so unfair. I was blamed for sexual harassment as well when I was 12. Basically I called a girl “pretty” and she went to the guidance counsellor and said I sexually harassed her. The thing is, I’m not even sexually attracted to women!

This is a dark time for men, I am so sorry that you're going through this pain.

It's okay to be hurt and it's okay to be angry, this is unjust and I am so so sorry.

It can get better and it will get better, don't give up, you are a beautiful human with hopes and dreams, with feelings and needs, you are a part of life and life can be so hopeful, right now you have come to the eye of the storm, surrounded by the chaos, this is one of the few places where people understand this and will support you, all of the men and women here will support you. We share your pain.

The only consolation I can give in these trying times is that things are actively changing for the better, false accusers are evil and people are coming to an end of "believe all women" it hurts my heart that there are people like you, who got trampled in the dirt before it could die down but we are here for you.

Bro your English is amazing, wouldn't know you aren't a native

This is so sad to read.

I hope your relationship is still good with your sister because you know she will have your back, and a person to talk to.

Reddit is here for you

Please just leave. There is nothing else. Just move out to a better place as soon as possible. And also get professional help for your mental issues. Please just do something.

If you get in an encounter with someone like that make sure you record it if possible

Are you telling the truth? If you are, good. I just have an itch, i dont really believe stories without evidence. Still though, im sorry

I am so sorry that happened to you. That is not the sort of thing that anyone, let alone a 12 year old, should go through.

Just out of curiosity, you referred to where you lived as the 'colony'. What do you mean by that?

Bro where are you getting your stats on report of rape because I don't think its 56%

Yes we have a sick modern day society and men everywhere are getting burned by spiteful, criminally intent and vengeful women, INCLUDING gay men such as me. They were 3 thieves who worked for me and, to protect themselves, they distracted the focus of the home office ...by making false reports of sexual harassment. This way, when I later decided to report the thefts, no one (at the office) would believe me...and it worked!

Get out of your hometown ASAP. There is no reason to stay there if you don't work in a family business. Nothing good ever comes from staying somewhere you grew up. I watched two friends O.D. and two more just flat out kill themselves and I also made an attempt on my own life.

If you had any sort of rough patch or negative experience growing up, staying in a hometown never ends on a positive note. Any time I go back (once a year tops for family) I still hear about people gossiping about me and what I'm doing now behind my back when I talk to none of those people and have live half way across the country for around 5 years now.

Small town people are insane and they never forget nor do they change their perspectives. Their entire existence is to remember shitty things that other people did to make them feel better about themselves.

Moving never helps enough on it's own though. Find a support system, even just a therapist or counselor is a good start but based on everything I've seen personally, please consider leaving the area before you become another statistic. If you ever need someone to talk or rant to, don't hesitate to PM me.

Oh boy! Lawsuit time!

if you want to talk about stuff more i can listen i don't know from personal experiences how it feels but i can tell that it's terrible

and the English weren't bad it was pretty good.

its really terrible to see that men's lives can be ruined by a few words when said by a woman

Thank you for sharing your story. I hope you feel better soon!

What country?

Brother - you can sit home and feel sorry for yourself until you die. Remember this: My own WIFE went to the police and claimed I had raped her so she can win custody of my kids.

You CAN'T feel sorry for yourself. You have to start exercising and improving your life. You're very young. Private message me and I will give you guidance if you still need it.

The first part alone is literally so hard to read..."getting our chocolates"...people need to dismantle female privilge NOW.

Holy fug. Just reading this made me so angry. Some people are just...so... I don't even know how to describe it. I'm sorry that happened to you man.

Man, I’m sorry for what happened to you. Try going to a therapist. One thing you did correctly is to not trust people. Trust comes with consequences. There a lot of people who are willing to fuck you up for survival or amusement. Don’t fix paranoia, embrace it. Because sometimes it’s the only thing saving you. Good luck friend, I hope you find happiness in this world.

I'd reccomend getting a body camera to wear when you go out in public if only to ease your anxiety. This is dependent on the laws where you live. Some places are single party consent and some are not.

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I wish you the best, and I really hope you move to a better place.

What country are you in?

Please call the suicide prevention hotline at 1-800-273-8255.

As far as your uncle, does he have a lawyer? What country is this? You might consider wearing a body camera in public. It's ridiculous yes, but protect yourself.

Anyone have the statistics for 56% of allegations being false?

Its a terrible thing to not be believed when you know yourself to be innocent.

A similar thing happened to me while in school. I was in 6th grade when a girl that I knew had lied and told the school that I had been looking down her shirt and that I tried to grab her. She told the school office and the police were called and so was my mom . We had a huge "talk" in the principals office and by talk I mean they believed her without asking me what happened. After that the school cameras were checked and they didn't find anything. Two of my friends told them I had done nothing because I was with them when she said I tried to grab her. She ultimatly told the principal that she had lied.And in the end, even though she said she had lied and was proven to have lied, a lot of people believed her and my entire reputation in middle school was destroyed.

That girl was a Karen in training

soon this subreddit is going to be falsely accused too

6th grade for me! 2 girls told the principal of my school I told them I was gonna sneak into their house and rape both of them (not even related just friends who lived far apart I assume) and they believed it! For 5-6 months of my life it was constant questioning etc over and over and finally they admitted to lying.

My mom brought me in front of a whole church to pray the demons out of me! And guess what punishment they got? Nothing and my mom didn't she because it wasn't the Christian way

Where are you located that has 56% fake allegations? Also stay strong man, it might be worth going to a therapist. You really should work on bettering your mind and making yoruself be more comfortable to go outside. It might be worth moving to somewhere else

This shit ruins lives. A must see.

This breaks my fucking heart man.

Holy shit man. Threatening to kill a 12 year old over something they have no proof on. Wow.

Stay strong man. If you ever need someone to talk to, I can pretty much guarantee everybody on this subreddit would be willing to offer some kind words in solidarity. Life will get better, I promise.

Same. When I was 8, I was falsely accused of molesting a girl in a language class. Everyone believed her, though thank god my teacher decided not to take action

You are not alone. Your sister knows you tell the truth. Even if all of the rest of the world is against you, forgive them, for they know not what they do. A life worth living is not only one filled to the brim with happiness, it can also be one of trials that are mastered with dignity. When I think back to the boy I once was, I am grateful that he prevailed. Carry the torch forward, it will be worth it.

Read Seneca the Younger: https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/On\_the\_Firmness\_of\_the\_Wise\_Man

Holy shit man. I’m really sorry that happened and I along with everyone else in this subreddit thank you for opening up and we’re here for you. At least I am. It sucks that people can just say that and have everyone believe them.

Wtf is wrong with people

Death threats to a 12 year old? That's fucked up

What you think the "sane" pepole care? Man up!

I was raped by a woman back when I was 18. I told my then-girlfriend about it, and she accused me of being consensual to it and therefore was cheating on her. We broke up soon after, and for a while I developed some level of gynophobia. I would feel really uneasy when I’m the only male in a closed area, like when I’m in the lift and there’s a bunch of women in the lift as well.

When I was 19, I was backstabbed by an insecure asshole whom I thought of as a friend. He falsely reported me for sexually harassing a female clubmate of ours. At the same time, he spread rumours about me to the female club members which made me shunned by basically everyone in our club. That in a way elevated my gynophobia and fucked over my mental health even more to the point that I started to feel suicidal.

OP, I may not be in your shoes (since all this shit happened to me when I was matured enough) but I feel a deep connection to what you’ve been feelingr all these years. Please hold on and take care. Go seek professional help. We need you to be well. We need you to live well. We don’t want to lose yet another good man in this world.

Which country is that?

You deserve so much better, if you need someone to talk to just hit me up, my dms are always open to people in need

Bro, I hope you can get better, we are all here for you

Are you Indian or Pakistani by chance?

Stay strong brother! Do you have access to support groups or counselling to talk this through irl as well as on Reddit?

Keep your head up, stay strong as you know you’re right. I can’t imagine how awful it is but the truth will always be the truth. Good luck!

Hey? I wanna tell that things will get better! Try to see a professional for help with your depression and anxiety. You're a awesome person and I am proud of you that you told the world about this!

I think i’m going to wear a go pro every time I go outside now. Not even safe in your own neighborhood..

Get out of that country. Some countries are oppressively bad for men in this regard.Sadly the concept of "Innocent until Proven Guilty" is far from a widespread accepted value.

Damn dude, I wish it gets better for you. I've had my own issues. And I wanna say it gets hella better. Hang in there king, the world needs you

OMG I am so sorry for you. I bet your reputation is ruined, probably forever. You're only 12 years old.

Gee man if I was you I would get fucking revenge on that neighborhood and especially that bitch

Keep your head up kid. Focus on self improvement and find something you love doing (for me fixing airplanes) and run with it. I’m telling you getting lost in something you love is amazing. I was suicidal until I started going to school for aircraft maintenance.

It’s not an easy road and there will be suffering. But you come out of the end stronger and more confident than ever. And I’m telling you once that happens life will be so much sweeter. Don’t give up keep pushing forward you have value to this world.

That's what happens being born a male. We are born guilty until can prove our innocence. The female is "never wrong" nor ever lies..... Our court systems and laws in America are a fucking joke. Created by the wealthy and privileged male, but to harm and destroy men. We need to burn and send all our law makers and politicians and judges to hell!

Please go to r/SuicideWatch.

Life does get better. I've been down and it's worth continuing.

Tip: Put the “Sorry for bad English” at the beginning so people now when reading it.

What country are you in?

Tip: Put the “Sorry for bad English” at the beginning so people now when reading it.

condolences

Feel free to reach out to me if you want to.

Buy a gun. Carry it if they try anything defend yourself

Im so sorry.