This weekend, I'm going to the opera with my wife and some friends. I planned the event a few weeks ago and everyone is looking forward to it. The wife bought a new dress and heels and is off getting her hair and nails done as I write. She wants to look good in face of the compeition - her female friends.
I just had my beard trimmed, bought a new shirt and some Tom Ford cologne. I have no competition. I just want to look good in the mirror.
Beforehand, there will be dinner, drinks and general jollyment. Afterwards, some more drinks and fun. I will talk with the BP husbands and try and impart some words of wisdom to them. Most of which will be lost on them but it may help. They are pretty balls deep in BP territory. Happy wife and happy life.
My wife's female friends are quite attractive. I will flirt with them and they will respond in kind. I will do this partly for my own entertainment and partly because I know that it will get my wife all hot and bothered. So hot and bothered, that she will fuck my brains out when we get back to the hotel that night.
Is this a covert contract I hear you noobies say? Well, the chances of it happening are 99%, so I honestly couldn't give a fuck. The weekend is set to be a blast and I'm looking forward to spending time with friends, having fun, flirting with women and banging my wife's pussy at the end of the night.
Meanwhile, some of you poor fuckers will be at home, scouring the Top MRP posts, reading WISNIFG, trying to employ AA and fogging techniques, badly trying to kino your wives, failing to introduce 10 second kisses, getting turned down for sex for the umpteenth time and generally having a shitty weekend.
How do I know that?
Well, because that used to be me.
But I'm not here to humble brag. Well, not just to humble brag. I'm also going to give you a few pointers. Nothing new here but something you can add to your reading list over the weekend while your wife is ignoring you. And theses are things that you should - at the very least - have or be aiming for in your lives..
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Have a Mission - it may take time to develop a purpose in life, but this - above all else - is the most important thing every man should have.
Have a Min income - at least enough to cover your outgoings, enough to save min 10% of your income.
Live within your means - debt is avoidable. Never go into debt for lifestyle expenses.
Be Family Alpha - become the leader of your crew. Be a positive role model for your children and provide them with the support that they need. Being a positive masculine figure is the singlemost important gift you can give to your children.
Be Physically attractive - dress well, groom well and often, smell good, fix your health issues, and lift until you look like you lift.
Be mentally sound - if you have mental issues, get them sorted. If you think you have ADHD, go to a fucking doctor. Then get a second opinion.Then a third. If you don't have any issues, continue to develop yourself mentally through reading, learning, improving. If you are spiritual, I can lend no advice on that, just be good at being spiritual.
Have a great sex life - develop your skills as a lover and enjoy exploring & experimenting.. tantric sex / BDSM / DEVI / fetishes.. whatever you are into, learn about it, practice it, develop it and become a fucking Sex God.
Improve & challenge - continually strive to improve & challenge yourself & to learn new skills. Skydive, mountain bike, tango dance, make curtains out of the hair of dead animals. Whatever. Just do it.
Have an active Social Life - Put the books down, put your phone away and go out and fucking meet people. At least once a week. Non negotiable. Be fucking social.
Aim to live a life of Consistent Happiness - you will have ups and downs. Aim to minimise the downs and maximise the ups. You have one life to live. Fucking enjoy it.
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And..
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- Develop a Strong Frame
- Always maintain State Frame
- Believe in yourself
- Be confident in your vision
- Be congruent with your desires
- Work hard on all areas of your Mission
- Always defend your boundaries
- Be confident and driven
- Be stoic as fuck
- Be fun to be with. No one likes a miserable cunt.
- Be adventerous. Challenge youself. Bring your crew with you. They will love the adventures and remember them forever.
- Be stong, dominant & project positive masculine energy
- Remain unphased by her - at heart she's just girl and underneath she wants to be a little slut.
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And remember, that the attitude you project is the attitude they reflect

slappysq 6y ago
What are your lifts and bf%?
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SBIII 6y ago
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You know, when I started on this sub, my wife - like yours - was a slob. She didn't clean, she didn't cook, she didn't dress well and she didn't fuck. Does that ring a bell with you?
Through what I learned here - and the application of the tools from the MRP toolbox - all that changed within less than 18 months. These days she cleans, cooks, sucks and fucks. Because I lead her to this.
You can too. If you pull your finger out of your ass.
Or, you can just sit on the sidelines, bitch and moan and spend the rest of your life in miserable cohabitation with a woman who has no respect for you.
I give zero fucks as to which option you choose. That call is on you.
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SBIII 6y ago
The fact that you came here bitching and moaning lies testament to that.
The fact that you're even here says as much.
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SBIII 6y ago
If you're afraid to stand by what you have said, then by all means, delete your posts.
All that says to me is that you are the one who dislikes being challenged.
hack3ge 6y ago
That reminds me I was at a wedding last weekend and they had one of those photo booths with the props.
I told my wife to pick out something and she picked out a sign that said “happy wife, happy life” and gave me a smirk. I laughed when I saw it because I knew exactly what she was doing and grabbed the Viking hat and put it on.
I grabbed her by the hair like I do when I fuck her and dragged her to the backdrop while she was holding the sign out smiling and giggling her ass off and giving me the I want to fuck you eyes.
That picture is something no BP man could possibly understand.
FereallyRed 6y ago
The inside joke is best.
There's a pun or two there but whatevs.
hack3ge 6y ago
I do wonder if she actually believes the happy wife, happy life or if she knows now why that dynamic doesn’t work. My guess is it’s solipsism and she doesn’t have to understand it she just feelz it.
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EasyDaysHardNights 6y ago
I think you're definitely onto something here.
My wife is a similar age to yours and more than holds her own in her age bracket. When her friends or random strangers of a similar age flirt with me it's a total dread boost. As I've been upping my SMV, on more than one occasion she's stated "Just remember me when a younger model comes along."
When you think about it, it's almost self-evident that there's a variable response to an uneven playing field.
Aechzen 6y ago
I've observed this too. Thanks for writing that out.
SBIII 6y ago
That's interesting.. It's like selective competition anxiety against women in close competition but a totally different reaction to younger women she can't compete with.. at least in her eyes.
RedPillGlasses 6y ago
Agreed.
My live in girlfriend is a 7-8. She hides in the closet while I fuck 5’s and plays with herself while I do it.
But she found out a co-worker of mine is a 9, and won’t stop stressing about it.
“Please don’t leave me for her, sniffle sniffle” “Tell that cunt she better not talk to you.” “She’s so hot, please don’t talk to her too much.”
Damn bitch, I live with you, calm the fuck down.
BarracudaRP 6y ago
Damn, closet game sounds fun as hell. I am curious about two things: does fucking the less attractive women produce any dread in your gf? Question 2 - why are you fucking 5s? No judgment, but I'm sure you are capable of pulling better.
RedPillGlasses 6y ago
Some dread? We’ve both come to the disturbing (yet pretty great) conclusion that we’re happier as a couple when I’m fucking side girls.
Me just TALKING to 8’s (similar to her) = irrational rage jealously and tearful insecurity
Me banging 5’s = she thinks it’s super hot and we have tons of sex
I think it’s an extension of “Every woman wants a man that other women want to fuck”. As in, my man is so alpha he fucks other bitches. She also likes it when they fall in love with me, and then I throw them away.
She’s 34, but got bullied in high school pretty bad, so maybe this is her way of feeling superior to other women?
I don’t know exactly why she is this way, but I’m glad she is. Twisted bitch.
BobbyPeru 6y ago
Exactly! I’ve observed it on several different occasions
EasyDaysHardNights 6y ago
So, this raises the possibility of intentional fine tuning of Dread and state management in general in public settings based on how you respond to or initiate flirting selectively by age.
For vets and guys further along in their journey this could be a tool that's available to them that never was available as a bloop and so we'd totally miss out on this. I wonder who else is seeing this phenomena that /u/BobbyPeru pointed out.
i-am-the-prize 6y ago
I've seen it on back to back flights. one going out of the country one on the way back in. Both flight attendants complimented me/flirted a little with me - in front of my wife. She was less calm about the younger one doing the same basic tactic.
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Maybe she was in a better mood outbound (beginning of vacation) :) no idea, a small dataset but literally a week apart and the age of the woman flirting differentiated the reaction at least partly.
red-sfpplus 6y ago
I see no mention of anal play or peeing on her.
You have a long way to go.
SorcererKing 6y ago
There's an art to peeing on a woman at the opera... not all guys can make it that high up the pyramid.
SBIII 6y ago
If you're seated in the balcony you can piss on half the audience.
FereallyRed 6y ago
The trick is to pee IN a woman.
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friendandadvisor 6y ago
Yes, don't pee on it.
FereallyRed 6y ago
No. 32 Savile Row.
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FereallyRed 6y ago
My "going out and looking good" piece is a Hublot Big Bang Skeletal. Titanium and ceramic, and watching the exposed gearsets clockwork around is still slightly mesmerizing. I have a very understated Patek Philippe in leather and black that is never noticed, but pulls a nice suit together. Might as well be a Timex. Which I kind of enjoy. I actually do have a vintage Timex Indiglo that still goes hiking with me. Not really a watch-head, I have trouble justifying 5 figs, but I have friends that don't even blink at the six figure toys and have cases of them. You?
42gauge 6y ago
Weird question, how did you meet these people? Are you in the financial industry? I keep noticing people on this sub are either wealthy or have friends who are, and I don't think that's a coincidencr
FereallyRed 6y ago
Expensive hobbies. If you meet a like minded guy, then he's either a trustfund douche, (easy to spot), or the guy has a particular set of skills he's capitalized on.
SBIII 6y ago
Reiss is a good shout for coats. They've some great shearlings in stores atm.
If you're in London, try selfridges.. they have a wide stock of stuff.. Paul Smith, Tom Ford if you're flush.
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Over60_FireTempered3 6y ago
That pisses me off. The man puts it "out there" to help the clan, and you put him down. Please don't help anyone else.
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Over60_FireTempered3 6y ago
Nice, you're a lazy woman married to a lazy guy. Your words not mine.
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Over60_FireTempered3 6y ago
Bumpkin... You left out misogynist and homophobe. One out of three ain't bad.
simbarlion 6y ago
The gayness of this motivational is a diametrically opposed reflection of the faggotry in the typical poster.
Arrogance in healthy doses is a trait of someone who has their shit together.
Wanting to help others....well I don't know where that comes from....
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simbarlion 6y ago
Not as gay as u/ayebeeceedeeeeffgee
You guys should hook up.
dilberryhoundog 6y ago
Solid Post.
I wanted to thank you actually, for putting up a big fucking stop sign on a path I was heading down. That was the path of lazy avoidance of any problems in my life.
I would previously scoff at posts like this, "where is the philosophical genius?" "this guy hasn't revealed a hidden truth, what an idiot". Turns out I was the idiot.
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Its been quite interesting endeavoring getting my mental issues sorted. I've come to realise most mental issues are not illnesses or conditions, they are just weakness (depression, ADHD, bipolar, anxiety). With exactly the same cause and remedy as physical weakness. I've looked at all kinds of therapies, non of them work great. Eg Meds for being ADHD is the exact same as steriods for being a weak pussy.
Turns out the most effective way to remedy mental weakness (from an expert who studied mental trauma ( PTSD etc) for 40 years) is to be in situations that require mental strength, to "live" the required outcomes, the body responds by building the required tools to overcome the challenge (muscle or neural pathways). MRP is high level mental and physical weakness training, and these posts are the calls to action to get "under the bar" or out in the mix.
SBIII 6y ago
Glad to help. I had written you off completely. Delighted to be proved wrong.
redismyfuture 6y ago
I can't help but notice you didn't mention haircut. I would always get my beard trimmed and haircut together. At least until 4 weeks ago when I started shaving my head. So, do you shave your head too?
SBIII 6y ago
Yup. Last haircut I had was around 1997.
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I am going to some parties with my wife and she is already planning sex for tonight as she recounted last nights fuck session. I will flirt with her hot latina friends and I know she is going to be all pent up ready to fuck. Jealousy fucking is a beautiful thing.
SBIII 6y ago
They hate it and love it in equal measures.
All results in the same thing though. Wet panties.
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What boundaries do you have for yourself when talking to other women when your wife is present? On Friday a girl I knew from a bar I frequent (wife didn't know her) approached me and hugged me. Wife looks like she is going to throw up and offers her hand and introduces herself. Girl is a cute 24 year old spinner who wants to fuck me. She is so close and touching me, close enough to kiss me. I allowed it but made a reason to break away and grabbed the wife.
Spinner approaches again later in the night, another girl I knew showed up and joined us. Wife comes back from the bathroom and I am surrounded by girls. Spinner is throwing game at my wife now. Grabs our hands and joins us all together to symbolize "threesome" with a devilish smile. She tries to get us to come with her but we say we have plans. She tells me to text her.
We leave the bar and I'm giddy. She is pissed I allowed a woman to touch me. Actually shoved me in the back. I just smirked at her and said "Get in the car. I'm gonna have a smoke and let you get your thoughts together before I speak to you. " It was fine, but now her hamster was in over drive and we were going to a dance club after.
Shit tested all the next day and she couldnt get enough dick. I'm kinda lost on this one. I just told her that it's OK to share my crumbs with other girls, she will always be getting the whole meal.
SBIII 6y ago
I stop at anal play and peeing on them.
FoxShitNasty83 6y ago
Does it have to be dead or is twitching ok?
SBIII 6y ago
I knew this would happen. You finally snapped and pushed her down the stairs, didn't you?
FoxShitNasty83 6y ago
Maybe, I had sex with the corpse before I buried it under the patio. Interviewing the replacement now. No old or fat cunts this time.
FereallyRed 6y ago
How many times I got to tell you.... n-count stands for "notch", not "necrophilia".
SBIII 6y ago
That's one way of getting the ride.
johneyapocalypse 6y ago
Did someone say roll?
FereallyRed 6y ago
Rawhide
hack3ge 6y ago
Fist bump, slap, roll? Or molly?
SBIII 6y ago
All of the above in reverse order.
Standard Friday night activities.