Hello Dreadful lads. It's time again for 60 Days of Dread.
This year, our posts will focus on mindset for our areas of improvement. To the extent that we have original content this year, it will be aimed toward this.
For example, our Week 1 post is traditionally on lifting. You can review past years' posts on how to lift effectively. What we want to discuss this year is why to lift. The obvious answer is "to get stronger." There are less obvious answers too.
If you lift well and lift consistently you will indeed get stronger. You will look better. You will feel better about yourself. You may even get to the point that you get women throwing IOI's at you. But none of these things are the why, and they should not underpin your mindset. Vanity and hedonism are for the weak-minded, just the siren-song of ego; those things Iisted are benefits, yes, but not reasons.
Your mindset for lifting should instead be linked to your identity as a man. You lift because your body is made for it. You lift because it shows commitment to your own well-being. You lift for the clarity of mind and commitment to process that it affords you. You lift to become a fully actualized man.
So, by all means put yourself on a program. Get as big as you can, I dare you. But when you're grunting out a set and you're just sure you will die when you're through - remember why you're there, and you just may smile through your pain.
For reporting goals and progress this year, put in OYS each week. Include a #60DoD tag so I and other interested readers can find it. Remember that this is your challenge to yourself to improve how you operate. Your mindset for that should be to own it fully and execute it as a promise to yourself. Those who make outstanding progress (as judged by mods) will again get 60 DoD flair. Recall that prior year posts are on the side bar. If you're new to 60 DoD you should read those. Now get to work.

Vonfahtz 6y ago
As this is about mindset, some important ideas come to mind for me.. I've been in decent shape for some time now, but I'm only now beginning to realize how important the mental point of origin concept is for EVERYTHING we do.
As an example: I went for a run yesterday after work. I was lethargic, lazy and not engaged in the slightest. I was not connected to my reasons for doing this workout. I wanted to stop, turn around and go home. I started walking to warm up anyway. As I was walking, I saw a group of people nearby. They glanced my way. Something about having people witness me immediately woke me up, and I started running. That's probably a bad thing.
No fucking wonder I am where I'm at. No wonder sex is on an IV drip with my passenger of a first officer. My fitness regime goals have shifted from being self actualized as a man to being a tool to assist me in ticking off a box on my end of a covert contract with my SO.
Contrast this with the best shape I've been in my life. I was training for reasons connected to my identity as a man. I wanted to kick ass at hockey. I wanted to have endurance at work and have a clear head. Sure, some of it involved the idea that I'd attract women (I hadn't even met my SO at this point), but that notion was much lower on the totem pole than it is today.
Stallion--Duck 6y ago
Gonna have to do bodyweight workouts till the gym opens back up. This is an awakening for me to never rely on a gym again. My next big investment will be a real home gym so there are no excuses. I'll be the first to admit I've been a fat fuck these past few weeks. Eating like a faggot, training like a faggot, reading like a faggot. Who's fault is it? Not big daddy Trump's, not my governor's, not my wife's. Mine. I see the puffiness in my face from all the carbs and sugar. I feel like a slob. Fuck this. I'm about to be 29 on good friday and I'll be damned if I turn 30, fat and weak.
rather_empty 6y ago
The
coron... home gym workout:50x 20kg kettlebell swings before morning coffee to start the day. Already had a 20kg kettlebell but thanks to lifting heavy things at the gym for the last 9 months including their 28kg 'bell, it's now too light for challenging swings. Going to now buy a 32kg kettlebell.
Bought a doorframe pull-up bar. 3 sets of 5 seems challenging for now but I'll work toward 3x10.
5 sets of 20 pushups on the knuckles to end the day.
Today I realised there's enough space to deadlift on the patio in front of the house so will look into buying a barbell and plates.
Stay swole gents. Use your manly-ingenuity to get/stay ripped under
adversemarginally sub-optimal conditions. It's not like you're in jail or anything.Massive-Plate 6y ago
Used bowflex on letgo, offerup, or Craig's.
I bought 1 for $100, bowflex elite home plus.
Has bench, curl, pulldown, squat Deadlifts...
It is older but works.
sash_northpointe 6y ago
Yes! I'm pumped for this. The last couple of months my lifting has been hindered by multiple injuries, sickness, and laziness.
Now that I'm on lockdown for the next few weeks, I've gotten the home gym set back up get back into some sort of routine.
Looking forward to this and the rest of Days of Dread.
canooboy 6y ago
I am very hesitant to post this, because i.am not one of those super accomplished fuckrtards who has had beyond amazing results...... But, at the same time, I am a fuckrtard who has (at 61 yo) had a revolutionary dod series of events.... (My wife now feels my muscles, and touches my arms) based significantly on my lifting progress, with only noob gains of 135 to 210 squat, and 45 to 110 bench.....
Here's my point.... Anyone, at anytime, can make it happen ... Just lift
RStonePT 6y ago
only taking superhero stories are how we got idiots like GLO, Anthony Johnson and friends...
The last thing we need are superheros, what we need are baseline accomplishments and expected results, since those are the only ones that matter anyways.
Plus, no one brags about banging 5s and 6s, but they don't like about them either.
Balls_Wellington_ 6y ago
You went from bench pressing an empty bar to almost 35s on each side.
Right on, man. Progress is progress.
VigilantSmartbomb 6y ago
You rock lmao keep it up
Balls_Wellington_ 6y ago
Even at 27 I was starting to have chronic back and knee pain.
Since lifting it's just gone. 100% pain free except for the soreness of growth.
Aesthetics and strength are awesome benefits, but it doesn't hold a candle to the fact that I can have decades more with a limber, pain-free body. That alone would be worth the time spent.
Vegasman20002 6y ago
I have a hip impingement. I used to have to sleep with the leg elevated and it would sometimes ache so badly I couldn't sleep. Since I started lifting the pain has gone mostly away and I haven't had a sleepless night from the ache in months.
MrCluelessFrog 6y ago
Props!
I too have back and knee pains and just recently started lifting before corona hit us.
Any tips for when I get back to it?
section8sentmehere 6y ago
Late to the show, but when I got back to lifting, I literally started with JUST the bar on everything, if not for just the purpose of looking at myself in the mirror (hope you have one) and making sure my form was on point. As you progress, your muscle memory will be in a place that when you’re doing heavy lifts you won’t have to make too many adjustments and can clear your mind to just. Lift.
I think the other thing about lifting is, is some people lift to really aggressive music. I found myself looking for a good smooth rhythm. Something where I can clearly focus on the weight on my shoulders, chest, etc. You should not be going crazy pumped up with your lifts. Keep it methodical calculated and without mistake.
I can’t work with a partner because I get so focused that any outside distractions will completely throw me out of my element. Good luck.
Balls_Wellington_ 6y ago
Squats and deadlifts are going to tighten your back muscles up really tight if you lift as hard as you can. Balance them out by doing weighted sit ups to strengthen your opposing core muscles.
Stretch to prevent injury.
Consistency is king. 3-4 shitty workouts a week is better than one awesome workout per week, so show up every time no excuses. Of course 3-4 awesome workouts is best, but you are going to have sick/tired/shitty days sometimes.
Don't start a set of squats if you have a risky fart brewing.
ImNotSlash 6y ago
This year has been about lawn renovation for me. Our yard has always been decent. I wanted better.
One of those tasks involved running a core aerator.. Shit looks simple in the pictures. The fucker I had was like taming a wild horse. Came in two speeds: idle and warp speed. Weight probably between 250-300lbs. I did my yard and my neighbor's whose lazy faggot husband had no interest touching.
Another task was uprooting and relocating a ten-year-old tree. Sounded simple when planning. Far from it. I was not adequately prepared, using just a shovel and some manual assistance from the wife. I won't even try to estimate how much this fucking thing weighed. But clearly there would be no picking it up and carrying it the ten feet to it's new location. But we did it.
These two tasks are quick reminders how far I've come in lifting. I fucking love it. The gym has become a sanctuary for me. I've never done it for aesthetics. I'm still fat. Those two tasks alone I never would have accomplished even a year ago. I lift to do shit. I lift to win battles. Think none of these boosted my confidence mentally? All related.
HornsOfApathy 6y ago
Can relate. I had been lifting about 6 months and remember the day I knew lifting was for me:
My ceramic big green egg smoker somehow fell over in high winds and was laying on the ground in a pile of other debris out of its cradle. I remembered that when they delivered it, it took two grown men to move that thing into place and they told me and my wife never to move it alone.
What was I supposed to do? Well, I picked it up off the ground and set it back in there all by myself.
I thought I was superman that day. I felt like I was supposed to. Before I would had to call for help.
Later that night my wife initiated sex but I fucked her harder than any woman I've ever fucked before and saw the most enthusiasm I'd ever seen. Laying there in the afterglow she started rubbing my back. "I can't believe you lifted that damned smoker today all by yourself like a crazy man."
I had no idea she had been watching. And it didn't matter. DNGAF. Lift. Reap rewards mentally and physically.
Balls_Wellington_ 6y ago
That reminds me of a time before i found MRP. I was remodeling our house and had reached a deal with our contractors that i would do the demo work and they'd do the rest, to save money and time.
I was demoing a bathroom one night knowing the crew would be there at 6am to get started when i found out the tub i thought was steel (200 lb) was actually cast iron (600 lb). At 2 am. I cut it in half before running out of cut off disks, nowhere to buy them at that hour so stuck with two 300 lb half tubs sitting there mocking me.
I'm not sure how my pasty, out of shape ass got them both downstairs and out to the driveway, but somehow I channeled enough anger and frustration to get it done.
I tell the story now because I haven't thought of it in at least a year, but now that you mention it my wife sucked my dick that night. The last blowjob I had before MRP. Never really made the connection before.
ImNotSlash 6y ago
Shit, that night I think I took 20 Advil, went through a tube of Neosporin and made the wife carry me to bed.
Twisted_Hipster 6y ago
Gents, I’m here with a tale of victory.
For years I’ve struggled with back pain after squatting. Desk jockey accountant for many years plus growing up wearing cowboy boots and lifting heavy shit the wrong way has given me poor mobility and a bad back.
Doctor referred me to physical therapy which taught me a series of stretches that basically temporarily alleviated the pain but did not fix the problem.
I’ve spent years working out off and on. Using machines and single leg exercises and gay little weight loss/hypertrophy programs. I was two weeks into the “Cablebuilt” program that Josh Brolin did for Deadpool 2 when shelter-in-place shut my gym down.
I have a pretty solid home gym setup for Starting Strength/Stronglifts so I decided to start Stronglifts again.
I’m taking it slow, lots of hip mobility, ankle mobility and thoracic spine work. I am front squatting 95lbs to start and am happy to report two sessions with no back pain. It felt so fucking good to be in that movement and to feel those sore muscles this week.
I’m fucking jacked to be back! This has actually helped my mindset as I’m just focused on squat strength progress. Don’t give a fuck how I look (although I anticipate some noob gains) or whether the wife notices or not. I’m doing this for self improvement.
I’m 6ft and 209lbs. Down from 226 lbs at beginning of 2020 and was as high as 230 late last year. I want to see what 190 looks like and determine if I’ll switch focus at that point.
HeckleandChide 6y ago
Men are made better through certain types of suffering. It toughens us, focuses our will, and prepares us for future adversity.
Lifting is suffering when done right. Squats are perhaps the best example of it. Guys who spend all day lifting arms and occasionally throwing in a set of shitty ROM leg presses miss some of the best “gains” the gym can provide. Same with guys who quarter squat because “they have an old football injury.”
Fuck that. And fuck you too, Mr. I Don’t Do Any Challenging Cardio.
Get in the gym, find out what you hate the most, and focus on that for 6 weeks. Then re-evaluate yourself as a man and see if there weren’t some mental benefits from stretching yourself and enduring some suffering.
Balls_Wellington_ 6y ago
You're absolutely right. I'll add in, fuck you mister "I'm too macho to consider stretching."
You know what's less cool than yoga? Blowing out your rotator cuff.
rightsided 6y ago
I have a few OYS under my belt, but definitely understand I need a challenge to spur me on, and I'm glad that this year's focus is on mindset, one of my weakest areas.
With the gyms closed/closing, it's going to be interesting to see how this plays out. How creative can I get to challenge myself if I can't get into the gym? How can I power through my bullshit excuses and come through on the other side? Will I allow excuses to hinder/affect my goals? I think this calls for a re-read of Can't Hurt Me by David Goggins.
See you in OYS.
Floatingsidewal 6y ago
Lifting is very important, but I've always found the motivation to get into the gym and lift very natural.
Last year I decided to take things that I literally had zero motivation to do, like long distance running and yoga. I wanted to adopt a growth mindset around different types of athleticism.
Started the year with 2 to 5 mile runs, now I'm doing around 12 to 18 every weekend. Initially, they crushed me mentally. I hated every minute. Now, the longer runs are actually a great time to think thru the week and plan out what I want to accomplish. One year of doing something you don't enjoy trains you as much mentally as physically.
And the yoga... It's really helped clear up some early 40s joint pain.
RickTickTickyshaw 6y ago
Just checking in for the sake of the group. Was a big time runner for half marathons and mountain biking. I thought I would get in shape and be fit just by running alone and that lifting was not as healthy. Very satisfied by going to a more growth oriented exercise like lifting. My body has responded well, and I look forward to pushing it more during this next 60 days with everyone. #60DoD
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RickTickTickyshaw 6y ago
I started with 5*5
RickTickTickyshaw 6y ago
I'm doing full body moves and cardio in between days. So major lifts upper body.. bench , bent rows, bicep curls, tricep pulldown, pullups, ring dips, overhead press. Lower body squats, deadlifts, calf raises, leglifts. Running and biking for cardio. All are 6 reps, 3 sets and a warmup set. Also doing band work to Max out.
HornsOfApathy 6y ago
Stop running. Minimum cardio. MINIMUM. That's like a mile for me.
You are skinny as fuck, bro. You want to gain mass. We already talked about this in your OYS.
RickTickTickyshaw 6y ago
Ok, minimum cardio. I took a couple naps yesterday after squats and deadlifts yesterday:)
HornsOfApathy 6y ago
Joking aside, amount of sleep is just as important as the amount of food to grow.
RickTickTickyshaw 6y ago
That's very good point, can't tell you how much my body needs sleep so much more that I started lifting.
VigilantCMDR 6y ago
i recommend arnold's blueprint to mass. great program and its free