When was the last time that you actually fucked your woman HARD and FAST with reckless abandon like a wild man looking to shoot his hot load inside of her?

When was the last time you ravished your woman by absolutely demolishing her little body into a pulp, perhaps even turning her ass red, curled up in the corner of your bedroom, and maybe some exhausted tears running down her face?

When was the last time you fucked your wife so hard that she stopped being able to talk or communicate during sex, and you let out a primal roar as you grabbed her hips and thrust yourself inside of her repeatedly?

When was the last time you grabbed your woman by the hips, threw her down on the bed and ripped her pants just down to her knees and pounded her from behind like a man who has been dying to fuck?

How long?

Take a minute.

I once asked a guy here once who ironically quit (Edit: stopped posting to MRP for 3 months after doing exactly what I'm writing about here and updates us below in comments), /u/ice_walker, that same question who had been here at MRP for 2 FUCKING YEARS. You know what his answer was? “A year and a half I think, something like that”. What was his problem?

The relationship is an escape from the everyday life, a waterhole to replenish energy, a safe place for two individuals to meet for sharing their sexuality

she doesn't feel connected and hence she doesn't want to be close etc etc.

I think what she means is "play by my rules, be more at home and I might give you a little bit of closeness*/sex/whatever."*

That blew my fucking mind. Here we had a faggot that was on his journey for nearly two years and hadn’t figured out that he used sex to feel “close” and it validated his emotional needs. That’s not what sex is for, or at the very least it’s not until you figure out how to kill the validation needs that can poison your sex life.

Say this to yourself: I do not receive the feeling of being close to a woman through sex (right now).

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When I began my journey I didn’t really fuck my wife hard and fast and ravish her. Maybe every once in a couple months. I thought that she wanted good and passionate sex that would give her emotions. I was only partly right. I was fucking her in her frame.

Sure – your woman wants to have sex full of emotions, but not the kind that you think.

Go read SGM, it’s on the sidebar. It talks about DEVI concepts. Dominance. Emotion. Variety. Immersion.

There are many ways to incorporate these concepts but if you’re not getting the first one down in the beginning (dominance) you’re not going to get anywhere with your mental models since she is the most responsible teenager in the house and you will continually be in her frame during sex.

What kind of woman wants to fuck themselves anyways?

It all harkens back to the one fundamental principle guiding male-female relations: Chicks love submitting to powerful men.

So if you want to spend your time learning about different ways to finger her and hit her G-spot, or maybe quietly play with her tits in the bar, or have sex with her in the backseat of the car, or light up the bathroom with candles and draw her a warm bath and slowly carress her body while playing your wedding song in the background – if you ain’t fucking her hard on the regular like you are a man that wants to fuck – none of that matters.

You woman WANTS to be taken by you. She WANTS to submit to strong, powerful, masculine man. She WANTS you to take her body as your own and do with it as you wish to please yourself. She wants her body used as a vehicle of your pleasure, disregarding her own, and in that process submit to your desire to drain your sweat, balls, and every inch of who you are into her.

That gives her the feelz she desires. Then you learn to use this concept of dominance in other ways that aren't perhaps so... in your face. Speaking of which. Cum on her face. That's a good dominant move.

You know how I keep harping here all the time that your woman can feelz through all of your bullshit and your inner most fears and ego? She can also feelz this too… and these are the types of feelz we talk about when SGM talks about emotion and immersion and dominance. Variety is easy.

Through your giving of yourself to her – giving her everything you’ve got and living on your edge of reckless abandon – you are taking exactly what you want. But at the same time giving her your authentic self sexually and she feels through this. If you’re hiding that part of yourself from yourself during sex, she will feel that as well. If you’re stuck in your head about “maybe I should insert one more finger and give her the spiderman for 60 seconds followed by a little tease of my tongue against her clit”… she’s going to feel that. Like a robot, dude. And that's shitty sex for everyone no matter how many EVI ways you try without the D.

So get out of your fucking head. Just go FUCK your woman. Fuck her until her eyes roll back into her head and she's blabbering nonsense. If there’s anything you should be saying inside your head during this it should be along the lines of: “I love demolishing this little fucking body with my cock. You dirty little slut. Fuck you.”

Use some controlled anger if you have to. Use those pent up emotions you've learned to control with a cup of STFU and let them explode through you and into her.

Then once you get that down? Do it again.

And again.

And again.

Free yourself sexually first

Inside of every woman is a little slut that is begging permission to be freed. Either she has met her before, or she has been chained inside of her for the entirety of her sexual history. This is the part of her that wants to be unleashed in the bedroom – and ironically the part of a woman that you want unrestrained as well. Women just want permission for it to be OK.

You give a woman permission to do so by freeing yourself first from all insecurities. As I write often: The masculine grows through challenge. It’s ultimate reward is freedom. Break through the barriers of your fears and beta-shit-goblin on your shoulder saying, “She isn’t like that. She doesn’t like it when we have rough sex.”

You're a liar.

A woman doesn’t like rough dominant sex with a man that is inside his own head and doing it for her. She wants that primal, raw, unfiltered sexual version of you. The same you want out of a woman.

So fuck her hard. Then you won’t care about the spiderman, or some other crazy sex move you read about in SGM or saw in a porn (you've stopped watching porn by now, right?)… because you won’t have to. You will have given her the gift of Dominance and if accepted, your woman will complete the mutual cycle of gifting through her submission – which you gave to her as well.

That’s why we advocate often here that you caveman. Especially when your woman is giving you faked submissive duty sex. Take it. And take it how a man would. With hasty carelessness, without consequence, and the way that a strong masculine man would. Remind yourself that you’re a man. A man who is full of power and uses that power to penetrate his woman as he does the world.

Then you can do the chocolates and bathtub music if you like for some variety, but don’t expect her to fuck you like the little slut I know she is… and I guarantee she is… who’s been stuck in a sexual prison because you put her there.

Yes, it's all your fault your woman sucks at sex (with you) or doesn't like it (with you).

Break yourself free first. Then like a good woman normally does - she will follow your lead. Or maybe she won’t.

And if she doesn’t? Doesn’t matter, got laid.

Good sex is your responsibility.