I open the door for everyone regardless of what gender they are. I do it because I'm a human being and that is what civilized people are supposed to do in our society

holy shit, just smack her ass on the way through

Where I live men hold the door open for me far more than women do. In fact, I've had women slam it behind them in my face. As a general rule, I hold the door open for anyone close enough behind me. It's called manners, being a decent human being, which seems to be something men here are much more prone to than women.

You'll be surprised how much NOT giving a decent to hot woman the right of way to a seat on a train that becomes available really turns them on, especially when they were closer to it then you and you blatantly just take what they were going for and was most probably their right if you go be the proximity to seat rule.

Big difference in being "nice" and being kind.

Your mindset here is a covert contract: "I'll hold the door for you but I expect to be thanked and appreciated."

The predisposition against holding doors for women reeks of the Anger Phase.

Hold the door open because you are a kind person, not because you want an emotional cookie.

You seem to be nothing more than another fucking parasite on this planet.

And I always receive thanks for holding a door, be it man or woman! Good Manners always

reframe holding a door. Its not an act of service that should be recognized, Its an act of controlling the environment and making the world the way you want it to be.

You don't hold the door for others, you hold the door for yourself,

If others fail to acknowledge you for doing so, so what?

Go meditate buddy . You need it

being a red pill must be exhausting. having to think through every little detail in life.

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Or you know, stop worrying about what gender they are and just be nice and hold the door for them. If this is what goes on through your head before you are about to do something decent for someone else then you need help.

What a fucking shit post? It's called being a decent human being. If a woman is carrying a heavy box or something with both hands, there is nothing wrong with holding the door open.

There is a difference between being alpha and going out of your way to be a douche.

If this bothers you then you haven't grasped the concept of "not being plugged in" to the bullshit.

Listen, women, like all humans, are prone to adapting and getting used to the way their environment interacts with them. Both people and the way they interact. Which is the entire purpose of the red pill. To realize that the way mainstream society has pushed ideas onto people results in specific behavior.

You have to look at the way people have been treated in the past. Why do some NFL players do stupid that gets them into legal trouble? Because for their entire adult lives they have been the "golden boy" at whatever high school/college/pro team they played on. With people making excuses for their poor behavior and not facing any repercussions. This is the same way with women. Why would some women not say "thank you" when you hold a door for them? Because all their lives they were taught that men should do these things for them. Why should they thank someone for doing what they should do. They have also come to expect it. "Ladies first" has been a saying for a long time.

You are trying to adopt these concepts people discuss here but you are missing the point. Completely. We all know bending over backwards for a woman is not the way to win her affection and admiration. At the same time, purposely not doing things or purposely being an asshole is the same thing. You still allowed that women to alter your behavior.

What does a confident alpha do in these situations? You hold the fucking door. They don't say thank you? Fuck em. You can toss a sarcastic "you're welcome" their way if you feel like it. But you don't let their actions or inability to be a decent human being to even remotely impact your day or mood. A true alpha or confident man would think to himself "another bitch huh?" and go on with his day. To the point where he would completely forget about it. Not write a post about it. A true alpha, a true red piller, is still a decent human being. A decent human being, with common courtesy towards others. One who doesn't go out of his way to pine for the affection or admiration of others yet doesn't waiver from his moral convictions of being a good and decent person.

Some dolled up black chick got out of the driver side of a Benz, at a Chevron gas station. Coincidence timed it so that I'm walking in about four steps ahead of her. We were approaching the door from opposite sides.

It was funny and extremely predictable what happened. Her demeanor was of a big shot "I didn't end up a drug abusing single black hoe girl like them others in this area."

The millisecond she recognized that I ain't holding the door open for her, she broke frame and sheepishly smiled like a high school girl.

This is true in general. Men show appreciation for help, women show condemnation and disrespect for it.

Men respect generosity, women respect selfishness.

The other day I was walking beside a cute HB8. She droped her keys just at my steps. My old BP would without thinking bow down and get her keys..but I didn't. I kept walking. The girl was like WTF!

Don't over think it. Strive for being a good citizen and do not even spend a second of your time thinking what the others will think of it.

You put this much thought into opening a door for someone? Wtf?