Everyone has wondered how easy it is to pick up women, whether they go for confidence, looks, wealth, status, whether they're seeking validation or if they're seeking a beta spouse.
- How you open and how you speak.
What's important to note is that women respond differently to how you speak to them, and how you look, if you speak nicely to a woman and try and immediately get on her good side they will respond poorly and assume you are trying to gain something from the interaction, and turn off from you.
If you break rapport with them, they will chase you, women who have spent hours in the mirror and trying on outfits are desperate for validation, they are desperate for approval. Everyone knows a woman like this, everyone knows a woman who takes so long to get ready, gets completely done up, short dress, chest out, heels, make up caked on, they are everywhere.
What happens when you say to these women who are so desperate for validation that their outfit isn't actually that nice, if their face has too much make up, if you simply say "your dress, it's alright, but it's too blue" then this woman who has worked hours in the mirror will immediately feel that she has to correct you, she will feel she has to find why you think it's too blue, do you not approve? do you not like how she looks? this woman who has been approached all night by countless guys fawning over her telling her how amazing she looks is met by a man who tells her actually no... you don't look that good, maybe you should try harder.
Immediately you are not like the other men that have approached her, you are the standout of the night, you are that one nagging thought in her head that why didn't he find me attractive? why didn't he like my dress?. These "princesses" world view is shattered when you tell them this, as suddenly she has a man who isn't bothered about impressing her, and therefore you must be higher value than her, otherwise you would be chasing her.
- Comfort vs Value
It is imperative that you remember that when you speak to a woman the more comfortable she is the lower your value, if she's comfortable with you you begin to become the man she could date instead of the man she could fuck that night. The less comfortable you make her, while still maintaining your frame raises your value but lowers her comfort, it's important however to not overdue this, especially if you over-game and she is turned off. If she becomes so comfortable because you have stopped negging then the value you presented at the start of the conversation is seen to be a front, and your value disappears almost instantly. This can be seen when a girl will speak to you for around 5 minutes and you start complimenting her and telling her how hot she looks and suddenly the girl realises actually it's not you who is the prize, she is, and you're chasing her. She has to maintain the thought that YOU are the prize, and sleeping with you is a win for her, not you.
Be aloof with your responses, if you do not know what this means then when she asks you something, or you ask her something, don't wait for the response, don't wait on her every word, instead of responding instantly wait a few seconds, look around the club and say "sorry what was that?", she 99% of the time immediately repeat herself to you but closer, trying to get your attention, trying to make you pay attention, she is starting to qualify herself to you. It is important while in this phase to keep this high value conversation, stay being aloof, stay looking round the club, look at other girls, make her look at you and think "damn, he could be going home with anyone here but I am speaking to him instead".
- Create a narrative
The longer your interaction with woman the better. She must build a narrative with you and a story in her head in order for her to be able to take you home. You must justify your value to her, tell her how you travel, tell her how you can't tell her what you do for work as you're not allowed, tell her how amazing the night could be with you, drive her intrigue, let her get her hooks in.
"So what is it you do? tell me more about yourself? Oh so where are you from?" can all be responded differently but still in a way to create a story, "Oh actually I can't really tell you what I do, but tell you what, after you buy me more drinks I might tell you when you take me home with you" Or "Oh actually I work in a really complex industry, you wouldn't understand" - this peaks her interest, why wouldn't she understand? She now has a reason to talk to you, you have created a hook and she now feels like she has to know what you do, this also raises value as you are clearly so high value that she can't even know what you do for a living.
This also works as a push pull, you're giving her something but then taking it away. Tell her you want to have sex with her then never call her again, tell her how you'd love to take her home, but you're worried you might lose a kidney or two. Kiss her once and then tell her she's such a bad kisser you're not sure if you want to kiss her again, this sounds like she would ignore you and leave, however the narrative and value you have created in the interaction will make her distraught, damn, she might actually lose this really high value guy, quick I need to kiss him again!.
- Accents are king
Now, before I came to the US I believed the whole "British guy in America" thing was a myth, a total myth. I can confirm it is in no way shape or form a myth. Just as your accent will be not a myth in a foreign country too. The benefit of an accent is two things, one, you sound like no other guy there, immediately your value skyrockets, you're the rare commodity in the club. Secondly, you have something to talk about 100% of the time, she will ALWAYS ask you where you are from, this gives you unbelievable chances to game and begin a high value interaction with her and get her making out, and desperate to take the foreigner home with her.
I went up to a barmaid in Tallahassee and asked her for a pint of lager while calling her lass, then left with a "thanks love". I think she melted. Same goes for women in clubs, say things that you just know she has heard in her head so many times and she will fawn over you.
The crazy thing about accents is that you don't even need to speak to them! Here are some tinder interactions simply getting a snapchat or getting a number by just saying I have an accent and I am British, I have included a selfie for transparency.
If you have an accent, use it. I had to sneak out of "tri-deezy" at FSU because I fucked a sorority girl. These things work.
- Be positive
The most important thing you can do is think you will be successful. This mental frame will make sure that you are successful. Women aren't bitches, women aren't these mean creatures (they sure can be), they are there to have fun just like you are, and more often than not go home with someone. Make sure that you are happy, having fun, laughing, joking, talking to her friends, asking how they are, making sure you aren't just the random creep talking to one girl in the middle of her friends.
Do these things and you will always be successful.
DarkMountain666 5y ago
You're extremely attractive. You will get results no matter what. Hell, I'm not gay but even I find you hot as fuck.
outofideas007 5y ago
Lol it's not your texting game. Dude you're a good looking guy. An ugly British dude wouldn't have gotten that far.
HeadingRed 5y ago
accents are king works. After watching a series on TV I was able to do an Irish accent pretty good - or good enough for Chicago women. I went out shopping and would just walk into the store, start with the accent, lie about in town visiting family for a month, etc.
Never picked-up a woman with it - can't maintain the accent for a long time - but the amount of attention I got was insane.
MurkyArtichoke 5y ago
I can't take this serious when you look like a fucking greek god with that jawline lol. Add to the fact you are british and you are pretty much the dream for every american girl ever. I think you could literally write anything to these girls and you would get their snapchat lol. It would actually be an achievement to NOT get laid when you look like that.
dauthor_ 5y ago
LOL this was not written by a guy who gets laid, this is painful hahahahah
circlingldn 5y ago
This is written by a guy whose good looking enough to score with shit game
ThatKidinAfrica 5y ago
Come on OP, Placing your picture on the Internet on one of the most hated subreddits isn't wise. Basic sense.
PhasmaFrank 5y ago
Damn most comments are just complaining about how you look like, good post btw, im foreign too
bojsihtekat 5y ago
The one thing I've noticed about British guys in the US is that they don't have to actually have game...because they have an accent. They can literally say anything they want, and it'll work.
NiceTryDisaster 5y ago
That jawline though. How tall are you and how much do you weigh?
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Protocol_Apollo 5y ago
Hmm, looks like someone has been taught by the God Todd V ;)
Psychological_Radish 5y ago
Not to dismiss all the work you put into this post - this is a well-written field report - but you look like a model, dude. You're objectively top 5% in terms of facial aesthetics, probably even higher.
chasevalentino 5y ago
I was just about to unfollow the red pill due to the increasing amount of negativity on here by some posters and then I read something like this and I stop myself from doing so.
This reminds me of when I was 20-23 (currently 25). Had that cocky attitude backed by the fact I was shredded, was a bodybuilder so I knew I looked good and on top of that fairly intelligent. Knowing this made me kinda cocky but always in a funny lighthearted positive way and this translated to girls wanting me. Really echoes the sentiments you've talked about bro. You've GOT to have that sense of cockiness which will manifest into a lot of the little things that's you've mentioned such as thinking you're the prize and she's lucky if she gets to bang you, thinking you will succeed so just go up to her because it's bound to work, not trying to pander to her by always agreeing and trying to kiss ass. Instead, bantering and talking shit, they instantly call you 'omg what an asshole' but when you look at her face she has a smirk when saying it. That means she's into you lads.
This all ties in with your final point. Be positive, be happy, have fun because life is too short. Be gracious that you got another day to live on this earth and make the most of the day you've been given. If you truly want this, you have to first meditate or visualise your self in a setting with women, business, even a shopping centre where you see yourself as this semi cocky funny guy. Then go about obtaining that in real life by gyming, getting intelligent, living a positive fun life.
I'm currently trying to rediscover that mental space that I had, I was a much happier and more positive person back then and at the end of the day the above is my personal process of how I reached that mental space. If you are feeling lost or just want to live at a higher frequency try the above out.
DramaticGolf 5y ago
this is downright the dumbest post i've ever seen. you have model tier facial genetics, you're from a country that 99% of the world would give up everything to be a citizen of and you come to teach game? Damn trp content has really gone down hill.
Gr0o0vy 5y ago
accent? this guy does not even have to speak
Vikingcel 5y ago
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Wish I was hot enough to hamster away why I get laid so eazy.
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Britainwon1812 5y ago
Thanks mate, a lot of people are pointing out my looks which admittedly of course helps, but without decent frame and being able to have the confidence to go out and actually meet women... you still aren't getting laid.
Snowaey 5y ago
red pilled and with those looks, u must be a serial killer when it comes to pussy lmao
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GL_QUAD 5y ago
Yep. Come to think of it, some guys did a few online dating experiments on this: early 20s male, a fake profile with model-tier looks, trying to sound as unattractive as possible.
Another one...
Yet another one...
... so that about sums it up.
Aroundwork 5y ago
Being "picture attractive" as a dude is not that important at all. At best it lets you approach situations where maybe an "uglier" guy wouldn't be able to, but it's always about personality and closing skills that actually gets you laid.
Plenty of great looking guys who get laid less than normal looking ones because they have their own issues as well
ShitBeRealBra 5y ago
You have no idea what you'are talking about. Looks are probably the most important factor. Why are you denying this!? Why are you selling snake oil to newbies? Where are those "plenty of great looking guys" that get laid less than the average guy? All my model tier friends get laid left and right, doesn't matter that they can't keep up a normal convo. Do you even know how often does the average guy get laid?
For the newbies believing this guy - if he was right, if your "skills" were the most important thing, then we all here would bang only 9s and 10s. But we aren't, because hypergamy doesn't care. A 9 would never fuck a 6, unless some extraordinary circumstances. Hypergamy states that women will always date up, if she doesn't find you as more valuable than her, she won't fuck you.
So get the hell out of here, pua retard!
Aroundwork 5y ago
I genuinely feel sorry for you man.
I share the exact same sentiment with OP. That's what is amazing about being male, is not being bound by your looks in the same way women are (sexually speaking).
Getting laid is entirely about your inner game, we are not chicks dude, being pretty as a dude is more or less useless
ShinyIsGold 5y ago
Youre right but its not useless at all.
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youwhatm8tey 5y ago
Pretty sure it's worse in the US where they're all being pimped and gang raped by spics
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JackCoppit 5y ago
American women and children are being raped by violent mexicans every day, and no... you didn't win 1812 lmfao
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Are you upset they've taken up your hobby?
MarcusArelius444 5y ago
All those discounting his achievements on looks alone are undermining your own learning. GAME>Looks. Every. Single. Day.
I once had a girl slip me her number on a note of paper as I sat down in a cafe looking at my work notes. And guess what... I fucked if up. Looks only open the door. Game is what gets you through. Sure 8/10 men will get lots of IOI however if he’s overly beta in his frame. He like I and that occasion will fumble the bag.
Also if you want to learn more watch Alpha Male Strategies. He techniques made my fuck 11 girls from Jan-May while studying in the US.
FirstLastMan 5y ago
Just out of curiosity, how did you fuck it up?
MarcusArelius444 5y ago
Went on a coffee date, date went well & she invited me back to hers after. Easy lay right? We talk, smoke weed and end up on the balcony making out. Here ASD was coming out and I should of escalated and try to go to the bedroom...
Instead I decided to go back in and watch Netflix where her roomie and her BF were there. Couldn’t escalate the same way in the company of them. And then when she drove me home and I asked for a BJ in the car.
What I learned was. 1) Always say less than necessary. In that scenario if I shut up I probably would of got laid. The next date if I didn’t ask for a BJ. 2) Strike while the iron is hot. Girls are fickle one day they will suck your dick next day they leave you on read. 3) Lift; that girl wouldn’t of given me her number if I didn’t have a sick gym pump at the time.
I hope I helped you learn from my mistake. Stay positive, the law of attraction is real. And don’t hate women just accept reality and adapt. TRP is being overtaken by butt hurt losers of late.
GodOfDinosaurs 5y ago
Not saying the accent doesn't help, but the jaw line of a greek god is doing some heavy lifting for you.
ELMasTurbo 5y ago
I agree with the accent. I was born in the U.S. but I learned Spanish first so I pronounce certain words with a little bit of an accent. This leads to girls asking me where I am from, and I just tell them I am from Peru, as opposed to being " oh i'm from new York" lol.
Andgelyo 5y ago
You’ve got a way stronger jawline than I do, and you’re British in America. Go figure.
Next time just ask for their numbers and escalate. No need to ask for their “snap” (I don’t have it).
P.S. OP, do you think the inverse would be true for us American guys? Would an American guy be a hot commodity in Britain?
Britainwon1812 5y ago
I shall document the next interactions, I have plans for some great posts/experiments.
To your PS, I do believe the same would be true, depending on the location and accent of course, just as if I was a scouser then American women (hell even British women) would be completely turned off.
Isbjornsolo 5y ago
It doesn't work the other way nearly as well. Generally Europeans do well in the UK. Americans have the preconception you're arrogant and loud. Which to a certain extent you are. I swear you guys get louder the further away from the USA you are.
Sparky159 5y ago
It depends on which part of the country you're from. If you're from the midwestern part or the southern part (minus Texas), then you know how valuable peace and quiet is and tend not to be obnoxious. If you live in the coastal areas, Texas, or otherwise buy into the "MURICA" mindset, then everyone overseas is going to hate you
Sparky159 5y ago
>No need to ask for their snap
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There are some rules I personally have in place, and here are a few (and why):
It may seem like a lot, but all of it is in an effort to reduce drama and keep your plates from being snoopy. It has yet to fail me
Britainwon1812 5y ago
Very good points, where as the base? I have friends at Edwards AFB.
Minimalising drama is such a key thing.
Sparky159 5y ago
I could throw a tennis ball and hit someone on Barksdale AFB, in northern Louisiana. I'm national guard, so I'm allowed on base at any time, and can use the commissary and the base gym for free, at my leisure. This is important for my game because that allows me to go to them at very little effort for the girl (girls don't want to have to put in effort for sex to happen), while still allowing her to feel a sense of familiarity and comfort. The free gym is also a yuge bonus as well
Isbjornsolo 5y ago
Mate, you are shooting fish in a barrel in the states as a Brit. The only nugget from this piece is being confident, treat her like a child & be in shape.
I was a fat piece of shit when I studied there and pulled women I wouldn't even think about approaching back home. I was 240lbs neck beard and would have girls coming up to me at parties/bars screaming "OMG you're the English guy!!!". All I had to do was not be a complete retard and it was straight down to business. Women want to have a cool story to tell their friends. Remember AWALT. P.S American Women are the easiest women on the planet. So get your fill.
A game we used to play was. To see which international student could come up with the greatest back story as to why they were studying there.
N.B. I didn't have a southern accent to fall back on either. So speaking the queens was out of the question.
Bruchibre 5y ago
So how many of theses girls did you score?
ManeBullShark 5y ago
Tri Delts at FSU are smokin
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GreatGoldSphinx 5y ago
"The crazy thing about accents is that you don't even need to speak to them! Here are some tinder interactions simply getting a snapchat or getting a number by just saying I have an accent and I am British"
Looks at photo of OP: I think it's a bit more than that, mate. As someone who speaks multiple languages and has a unique accent, I agree with the effectiveness. It's nice of you to put forth some good RP nuggets, but instinct tells me you could get away with saying "I will kill you later" and still get digits. Go forth and slay. And don't DOX yourself on TRP and imgur.
tchower 5y ago
Lol! I went out with one of my acting buddies one night to practice all of our accents as actors to see how believable they were with people, we practiced our British, Irish, Scottish and French accents and each one was a different character that worked a different job and had a different background and traveling to America for a different reason, it was amazing how much the woman actually loved it! We were laughing our asses/arses off at the end of the night how everyone believed us.
Thisismybot8 5y ago
Lol OP is comfortably in the top 10% of men. I've been rated in the top 20% which is why I'm hesitant to give dating advice.
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MatrixofLe3adership 5y ago
Maybe...but if anything, the post is practical, solid advice from someone who isn't full of shit and painfully more successful than myself with top-shelf sorority ass. Thanks OP.
Britainwon1812 5y ago
Much appreciated friend, just thought it would add to credibility if you add actual interaction evidence!
warburgio 5y ago
That jaw. Id do u ;) but seriously I moved to the UK and men here are generally far better looking and groomed than women, its crazy. Whats more, because they dont have anything better in vicinity they chase these humongous slobby maked-up to the max blobs. Crazy!
Britainwon1812 5y ago
You aren't wrong, guys here have learnt to raise their own value as much as possible. Reason being is outside of the cities you want to be the one getting the local 10s, not having to settle.
In the cities however guys are sooo desperate for validation they chase women who are clearly lower than them, and the women know this and so that's why they are easy scores for them.
iloveturks 5y ago
Strong 9 aesthetics, but don’t take selfies friend, you’re not a woman. And in the most mundane of places too, a fucking elevator, and with a Snapchat filter to boot! Why, add the caption “lol shopping time” to that photo and we might as well slap a pair of tits on you
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Britainwon1812 5y ago
Hey, let's slap those tits on and I know what I am doing with my afternoon ;D.
Selfies get far too much hate, selfies sometimes can convey a case of "I don't care how I look, I can take a photo right now in shitty lighting in a shitty place and I don't give a fuck"
Women like the care free attitude, women want to be able to see a genuine you when on sites like Tinder, especially if all your other photos are looking proffessional, the selfie brings you into high value but still normal.
iloveturks 5y ago
Except that it doesn’t convey a IDGAF attitude at all, particularly when you’ve touched it up / added filters to it. And then the further implication is that you take these photos all the time, and you keep taking them until you get that one that looks juuuust right. So what it really conveys to me is vanity, neuroticism and that in your idle moments your thoughts are directed on getting that perfect photo. Don’t get me wrong, I’m sure you have other thoughts too, but I think it’s a safe assumption to make that successful men who know their mission have more pressing concerns at the forefront of their mind (unless of course that selfie is important for their brand and by extension their success). But don’t worry, I’m peculiar and think about these things a lot, and in this fucked up world of degenerate narcissists (which I’m not calling you btw) nobody would think twice about taking a few selfies a day, and my words would be considered hate crime
iloveturks 5y ago
Let me spin it another way. Do you see, for example, Conor McGregor taking selfies? Absolutely not. He is important, and important people have others document their lives. Sure, each of his Instagram photos probably went through rigorous shooting, reshooting and editing, but the final product looks effortless because it appears to be just a snapshot of his happening life
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InfectedDonor 5y ago
some posts suggest approaching with straight lines, like 'you look great' ( for example ), and here we're adviced to do the exact opposite ? can someone explain ?
Andgelyo 5y ago
Be direct but do the “push/pull” method, meaning tell her your intentions straight up: “Let’s grab some hot chocolate sometime, I want to get to know you better.” Then, when you see her tease her playfully: “ You look really, really, hideous today (in a sarcastic tone)”. Be masculine (direct conversation, state your intent) but also be charming and witty (push/pull method).
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VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
Yeah, it's totally not. If you sound like you're from Lincolnshire, nobody will know the difference. If you can fake a posh accent, it's like "easy" mode.
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IIlolII 5y ago
Why does everyone think OP is like a 10? I think 7/8 tops
alphamystic 5y ago
Jawline i guess. Body is also important we can't see that here. Don't forget height.
I kinda look like OP but with a trimmed beardline. You still need game.
Well. You need to meet up and dont mess up...
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I wouldn't really want to look that feminine personally, but he is certainly a 10 in terms of who women want jizzing down their throat.
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Dude fuck you. I’m straight but your hot as hell no wonder it’s easy to get women. Damn I’m jealous.
Britainwon1812 5y ago
Haha! Appreciated man, rule 1 is making sure you are visually attractive and "healthy" looking as possible.
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Yeah I lift and stuff but your jawline and facial structure is really good and I can’t change mine. It’s something nobody can change sadly without surgery
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circlingldn 5y ago
Nope you can change it with photoshop and creative first meetup locations
SKRedPill 5y ago
It helps that as a British guy, you're considerably more stoic than the American in terms of expression.
nitzschii 5y ago
I have the same accent as Arnold Schwarzenegger (both born in Austria, both moved to Munich in Germany) and I'll visit NYC in few weeks, let's see if I can pick up women with that hehe
Andgelyo 5y ago
Lmaoooo bro hate to break it to you but that accent is hilarious
renfsu 5y ago
Damn, I've been here at fsu for 2 years and I've never been to a bar, the clubs are okay, but I feel like I've been wasting a lot of time. Good read, and happy that of all of the places in the world, you went somewhere that I can relate to.
Britainwon1812 5y ago
Mate! We should hang out next time, try giong to Pots or Madso, they're usually the most chill places to be!
renfsu 5y ago
What nights are they open? And that sounds like a plan, I'm trying to do a lot of new stuff this semester
LetsSaveTheFirsWorld 5y ago
Yeah I'm not reading this shit
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Britainwon1812 5y ago
Out of curiosity, why?
LetsSaveTheFirsWorld 5y ago
I'm on the rugby team at my university. Girls fall head over heals for guys with accents. At least with my Brit and Aussie friends, these chicks don't even listen to what you say, they just want to hear you talk. It got to the point where I can't game with these dudes because they pull too much
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It's like playing on easy mode
_Ulan_ 5y ago
Americans will think that you are playing on easy mode. Brit accent makes those girls feel like their life has a meaning
ThatKidinAfrica 5y ago
"British accent makes those girls feel like their life has a meaning." Lmao.
scissor_me_timbers00 5y ago
Seriously tho. They quickly start dreaming up Eat Pray Love fantasies and/or imagining themselves to be a protaganist in some similar chick propaganda.
nitzschii 5y ago
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if you only had time for reading 1 sentence this should be it. it's the best and ultimate advice for everything.
Atheist_Utopia 5y ago
Called an HB8 disney princess fat, world shattered
Proceeds to explain to me for 2 days how it didn't affect her
TRP works
scissor_me_timbers00 5y ago
Lol that’s some crimson pill.
You know one of the travesties of a post patriarchy world is how much sexual power is in the hands of these otherwise retarded young women. There’s a reason fathers chose who they mated with in the past.
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Britainwon1812 5y ago
Lass is a term I use, it's friendly, hits her intrigue too. Literally no downside to using it at all.
Also emphasises you aren't a local, which increases your value.
Pestilence1911 5y ago
I call them lassy,
Am Canadian. They think its cute cause nobody else does it. Ps: 1776 will commence again.