I like how you remind us that we are not special ourselves. Sure we can be fit and attractive, but we are being naive if we think we are special and unique. Thinking we are special alfalfa snowflakes is just as bad as the dumb girls who tell themselves the same thing.

Not ME. A guy LIKE me.

Boom. Way to keep the ego in check.

Quick question:

Why doesnt your wife just divorce rape you, take your kids and half of everything, and shack up with boy toys for the rest of her life. Its not hard for her.

Its a big credibility hole here

Hey, I'm in my mid 40's. Also had cheating wife and I have two kids. Kicked her ass out and spent next year as single dad while she just visited. Now she is back and even though we are divorced she does nearly all the housework and I go out whenever I want. Had many different types of relationships since then. More due to pick up than red pill as I only discovered the redpill 5 months ago. I prefer to avoid married women generally but am now in a casual doing one nighters as well. I am now going to the gym thanks to redpill and my kids always want to come with me. This will lead to a healthier lifestyle and better habits for my kids.

Not only has the redpill increased my success with women but it has changed my mental attitude extremely. Before redpill I was still getting oneitis for girls and making beta errors. Now I never break frame and the plates do as I say. I blast my way through shit tests by ignoring them, punishing her for even trying that shit with me or just agree and amplify (eg: married girl says " You treat me like a dog" response - I am going to bend you over and fuck you like a dog when I see you next). Redpill is full of good advice from older guys. OP and archwingers posts are some of the best. Make sure you listen to them younger guys because with age comes wisdom and experience. These guys are here to help you.

I am going to start doing some posts on money making and achieving your mission in life soon. I think this is one area which is very lacking in here. In fact I would love to see the mods add a flair called "Mission" or "Money". We should have as many of these posts as there is about body building and I think a new flair would really help. Stay tuned for some posts on making money and achieving your mission in life.

Great points, its easy to let it go your head when you start having success and think its you. You recognized well that its anyone like you. However, very few people are awake so there aren't all that many like you.

The more drama and push, pull I throw, the harder she wants to please me. If i wasn't game aware I'd let this go to my head but we here know the truth: Any dickhead could have her. I'm not so fucking great.

In this subreddit full of sexual strategy discussions, this is easily one of my favorite quotes. Mindful execution, game awareness, humility, "it's not my bicycle", everything right there. Bravo and thank you.

This is one of my favourite posts ever. I don't even care about the formatting I hope the mods let it slide.

Pull ups

Have you tried adding weight to yourself when doing pull ups?

whatever machines are in my shit gym.

The struggle is real, currently in young proffesional capital of the world so there's only shit gyms here, have to do everything by dumbbells in my backyard.

This is a good reality check. None of us are really special despite what our plates might tell us. It's all about getting our shit together and constantly improving our SVM.

This post needs to be given more credit, thank you for reminded us that bitches in shit, everyone once and a while we sometime " think " differently when they give us attention, but everything you wrote was spot on.

I couldn't help but laugh to myself as I pictured all these soccer moms desperately competing for the attention of the Alpha dad during a birthday party for their kids. And when you think about it, all he really did was show his face, bounce, and then send out a couple texts. Just goes to show that when a man is actually worth a shit, it's hilarious how little effort it takes to make women compete for him. Beautiful execution, OP.

I'm starting to learn that similar to /u/Archwinger, /u/theultimatecad sets a great example for us younger guys that it's fully possible to make the best of a difficult situation (i.e. marriage) and still find ways to be happy. Except unlike Arch, /u/theultimatecad wishes that he hadn't married, and yet in spite of that, he's still fully capable of doing whatever / whoever the fuck he wants to do.

I think the takeaway for us young bucks is that a healthy self-interest and game-awareness is really all it takes to have beneficial relationships with the women in our life. By simply taking them off the pedestal & giving less fucks about them & giving more fucks about ourselves, women will desperately compete for us. Simple.

Any dickhead could have her. I'm not so fucking great.

This so much. You sound like you're doing great OP, and I commend you. But I'm so sick of posters here thinking just because they hooked some tail they're some impressive shit. Pretty much all the tail we all get is due to two things, being fuckable enough (which can be easy as hell given the beta competition), and being present when they were looking for someone being fuckable. That's it.

This is a post I could put on my wall, or something. Excellent and full of wisdom.

I thoroughly enjoyed your post. Especially the message that a woman is not attracted to YOU, but to a guy LIKE you. Women fall in love with a mental construct of you. And that's about it.

Rather one of the biggest lies out there. And I highly doubt if women themselves are aware of their own fallacy. Yes, they'll say they love you. They'll say you're special and awesome. And that they'll never leave you, blabla. But the real you is also at times a weaksauce and that version of you they hate and loath. They love you for what you give them, but never you as a person.

So I understand the strong undercurrent of bitterness and hate anger in your post. I hope it serves you well.

Great Post! I'm mid 50's myself and in very similar circumstances, although my kids are out of college and the house. What a lot of these younger guys need to take from this lesson is the "I'm not so special" mentality and to keep up with the fitness routine. By maintaining your health and frame, plating in later years is easy. And abundance of plates increases. When every other guy your age is 30 pounds over-weight, you become a plate magnet. Just don't let it get to your head!

Let's take a moment to reflect. A couple things are required for this wonderful story to be possible. Here's two:

• OP kills it in the gym and with his diet - a great, admirable feat in its own right.
• Abundance Mentality - "I can and fuck anyone I want."

Take out any of the above facts and none of the post is possible.

Take this for example:

I asked a different kids mom whose kid was also on the local soccer team if she was attending. She said yes and that she was considering leaving to check out some sales at a store nearby for holiday shopping

"That's lame. Let's drink and catch up, been too long"

"Ok! Where? What time? How are you getting home.....etc etc"

"Drop off at 4, then we go out. Leave to me gorgeous"

Good luck making that happen if you aren't the hottest 40 year old on the planet.

Take a moment to really think about what the scenario would be if he didn't invest in himself.

Now go and execute.

Great post. I am in my early 50's and in a similar situation, although my game is not as advanced as yours. Spinning 2 plates, hitting the gym and I have a great body (not just a great body for my age, fuck that); and my business has taken off thanks to my TRP attitude.

This post is a great post, especially the part where it says :

*I don't know if she is more useful to me as a dread provider or a warm hole. In the end, it doesn't matter.....there are millions of bitches and none are worth shit. All of them need me.**

Actually, that's not true. Not ME. A guy LIKE me.

Great FR bro. Look forward to reading more from you.

e: realized I've read a couple FR's from you, and went and read some more. Great stuff.