Here's my theory how it exactly where the softening of men in Western society started to slowly change:

Generation X: AKA "The Middle Children Of History" Or I would call "The Founding Fathers of the online Manosphere" The 90's generation that saw the peak of Western Civilization, the collapse of the Berlin Wall, the dissolution of Soviet Union, women's rights stronger than ever, racial harmony and equality, homosexuality being accepted by society at large, technology getting better and better, ruled by pop culture and Hollywood, social security, comfy consumerist capitalism/materialism, a stable economy, back when nobody knew what the hell Muslims were, along with Christianity fading away, and with the rationalization of Western society....

But how did men change?

No hard challenges or struggles. No great wars or economic depressions. The easy living of the comfy consumerist/capitalist life style.

While many of the feminists and Post-Modernists were busy purging and taking over academia. Most men never thought much of it or hardly noticed back then, A lot evolved into corporate excutives or shallow weak cubicle computer office McFreindzones drones towards the secretary compared to the generation of the older hardened factory workers due to the fact that technology improving more and more, while most others joined army or went to trade school or retail, and most men were just carried on with life back then whether it be watching sports, parties or bar fights, drugs, Metal bands, gangsta rap, college Fraternities and skinheads back when only nerds and losers use to played video games.

Unfortunately instead of Honor, Strength, Pride, Resilience, and Willingness male Masculinity in the West devolved into the shadow of itself slowly being shunned by society as it strictly devolved into: Sports, beer, gurlz, fast cars, in a shallow sense.

Yes I know you guys love your NBA, NFL and the Premiere League but unfortunately for some reason SPORTS & BEER has become one of the fundamental basics for becoming masculine man these last 20 - 40 years for some reason.

The old saying goes: "Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men and weak men create hard times"

Skip right through to today and here we are now and the worst thing that these feminists and Post-Modern academia freaks have ever did was challenge us Western men at dominance hierarchy, because that's all we men needed a fucking CHALLENGE.

Trump was only a warning shot there's going to worse if they keep going where they're going.

To be continued if you want more....