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I’m going to cut the crap and be simple. I’m 21 yo and on December my oneitis broke up with me after being so beta for almost three years. Before (during the relationship) I used to say:

how can we not fuck more often?

Now that I have been reading The Red Pill since January I think:

How come I got to fuck her that many times?

Started trying new hobbies and posted a shitty field report which made the mods ban me. It’s been three months since that.

Me now. Retook my college engineering classes, started lifting (everybody is starting to notice but I’m still skinny AF), cut some toxic people out of my life, got a part time job as a software developer that actually pays really well for being an entry level position and I’m learning shit tons, I’m having fun.

I haven’t fucked anybody since my oneitis yet, however, I was anxious to even approach a girl during 3 months until I said fuck it, I’m walking the bus route and I’m not going to take it until I approach someone, did it, got a phone number (ignored me after that, but so fucking happy that I didn’t and still don’t care, because that’s progress).

Went out with a friend last week and approached 4 girls, two gave us fake numbers, the other two didn’t and I’m writing while on my way to our “double” date.

It all started when I started to read TRP and intensified when the mods banned me. So this is a post to say thank you to all of you who improved my life.

[-] HumanSockPuppet 253 Points about a year ago

It all started when I started to read TRP and intensified when the mods banned me.

Wrong. It all started when you stopped reading and started doing.

This is how a life changes. Through action. Failures and all. Keep doing it, keep learning, and please keep reporting back so the rest of these knuckleheads can learn from your example.

You are one of the few who has actually taken the pill.

[-] artificialfather 46 Points about a year ago

That’s the truth. I am really grateful because TRP shows you the path. What’s amazing to me (still amazes me) is how we start to clear the fog (reading sidebar) and yet don’t have the balls to walk. It’s after you walk, after you trip, that everything starts to make sense.

I feel that in a few years I’ll be grateful for life. This community have made what many people pay thousands of dollars to get:

Health. TRP says lift, your Health Points go up, what a surprise.

Money. TRP says focus on yourself, on your mission, get hobbies and educate yourself. Programming gets you the $$$, what a surprise.

Sex. You read comments and posts about thousands, like, dozens of THOUSANDS who have got success by doing a certain amount of steps REGARDING their race, height, financial status and so on and yet they fuck? What a surprise.

TRP teaches you something more valuable than the laptop where you are reading this or the phone from which you are scrolling this. Teaches how a way of living.

Thanks for pointing out that little typo that is a big mistake, it all changed after DOING what I read on the TRP.

[-] HumanSockPuppet 36 Points about a year ago

Welcome to the rest of your life.

And this time, it's actually yours.

[-] [deleted] 1 Point about a year ago

I sincerely thank all of you. Welcome to the rest of our lives. I will give back in helping with media.

[-] Chaddeus_Rex 10 Points about a year ago

Praise should not be given until he has earned it. He has not yet earned it. In fact noobies should not be praised AT ALL imo, gets to their heads and causes them to slip up

[-] apost54 16 Points about a year ago

There are no two words in the English language more harmful than good job.” - Terence Fletcher from Whiplash

[-] [deleted] 1 Point about a year ago

You are one of the few who has actually taken the pill. OP took the pill, and TRP banned pretty lies and self pity. Two necessary actions.

[-] Low_Cost_Chimp_Meat 208 Points about a year ago

Desire. I wrote this 15 years ago on the early red pill forums (sosuave & bodybuilding): Unless she is pursuing you, NEVER WASTE YOUR TIME. It's never worth it.

Face splattering blowjobs and anal sex only come from women that chase you. REMEMBER THAT KIDS!

That is the total sum of what is now known as the Red Pill. Fin.

[-] [deleted] 36 Points about a year ago

Just matched with this chick on bumble rn. She sent me a msg, I sent her one back. How do I take this from text to going nuts deep down n that ass? Thanks in advance professor!

[-] MrAnderzon 36 Points about a year ago

You get her phone number and try to stick to settings up a date.

Remember you don't exist until you are standing face to face or how you want nuts deep.

[-] Low_Cost_Chimp_Meat 20 Points about a year ago

Art. I can't stress this fires up most women's minds like nothing else and makes them have stalker-like attraction to you. If you are an artist or musician, you are golden. Find an opening night exhibition where you know other creative people and tell her to dress nice....have drinks beforehand with her at somewhere nearby (walking distance to gallery).

This is heroin for women.....think Titanic®

[-] Chaddeus_Rex 19 Points about a year ago

You invite her over to your crib to drink orange juice. Thats how.

[-] EmotionalProblem -20 Point about a year ago

this has worked before and if it doesn’t you could always pull a bill cosby

[-] [deleted] 12 Points about a year ago

give her emotions. that's all she wants. miserable, angry, sad, happy, whatever, it doesnt matter. she wants to ride an emotional rollercoaster, and feel like you are her rock. so make her sad and happy and joyful and angry and then fuck her.

[-] hammerhearth 11 Points about a year ago

You don't. Bumble and Tinder is for e-validation. She will drop you when she's bored.

If you want to meet girls easy go to your community pool. Start swimming 20 laps a day. You'll be chatting with familiars in your lane. I met three girlfriends this way.

[-] Smashing8s9sAnd10s 5 Points about a year ago

Get her phone number. Call her. You will make that emotional connection (for her) over a phone call. Texting it's not gonna happen. You gotta call. Women connect to voices, not words on a screen. Once she's connected to your voice and personality, then you got her. Go out, do some shots, keep it carefree that first meeting. Once you are kinda like away from everyone and in a 1 on 1 situation: Do this exact thing and say this exact thing:

Say to her "I just wanna get this out of the way" Then she'll say "What" You say "Close your eyes" She'll do it..probably all giggly especially if you've been drinking.

Then while her eyes are closed, take your hand and put it underneath her chin (assuming she's shorter than you) and give her a kiss. Do not force your tongue down her throat. Make it about a 5 second slow lip kiss.

Then when your done, if she hasn't started just grabbing the back of your head and making out (which she could) - pull back look into her eyes and say "I been wanting to do that all day" and smile.

At that point, if you can't bang her very easily then something is wrong with you.You do all these steps, she'll be thinking of you as her boyfriend. You been friends on the phone, you've had a good time, you've gotten that awkward first kiss out of the way in a way that she's going to remember.

[-] wereworm5 3 Points about a year ago

15 years is a very long time mahn Thank you for sticking around...

[-] artificialfather 1 Point about a year ago

Shouldn’t I focus on approaching as well to fight the social anxiety and learn to overcome rejection?

[-] Birdog770 2 Points about a year ago

Check out Alpha Male Strategies on YT. Learn about when a chick is choosing you. I avoid cold approaches. Only approach when she's showing choosing signals. Don't be outcome dependent. Drop that anxiety BS. Who gives a fuck if a chick rejects or accepts you.

Have a good time and be where the fun is at. Women are boring and need others to provide fun for them.

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[-] stylesm11 144 Points about a year ago

Keep up the progress man, looks like you're growing confidence

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[-] kenpachitz 84 Points about a year ago

I bet you’re banned again in a couple hours. Clearly it’s working for you. lol

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[-] bdoguru 41 Points about a year ago

Great quote. Im not a big religious person but i recognize the bible has lots of wisdom in it if you interpret it correctly.

[-] Meisner1 12 Points about a year ago

The bible is like the hardest red pill.

[-] Damien_Scott 2 Points about a year ago

The hardest red pill is a brick.

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[-] BloodSurgery 11 Points about a year ago

Started trying new hobbies and posted a shitty field report which made the mods ban me. It’s been three months since that.

Why did you get banned? lol

[-] GanksGriefersForFun 8 Points about a year ago

When I see stuff like this I can only imagine how subs like exredpill exist. Red pill obviously works.

[-] bearlakeburton 8 Points about a year ago

Not everyone gets it right I think there are multiple paths that people start on when they start red pill some of them end up in places like look how many girls I fucked but really I'm just unhappy on the inside.

It seems like OP got the message and has bettered his life because of it. He's happy that's the point that's what matters.

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[-] EqualResponsibility 8 Points about a year ago

As a old timer software developer start working on your finances and ability to spend frugally. The world of Engineering pays quite well. You’re doing great now, and when you land a full time Engineering position you’ll feel like you hit the lottery. In other words, it is so easy to grow into the money, start attracting the wrong kind of women because of the money and then lose everything you’ve worked for.

Don’t ever give up your dreams, your money or your sense of well being for a woman.

[-] artificialfather 2 Points about a year ago

Don’t want that to happen. Thank you, I’ll improve my finance game as well.

[-] KookieDoe 4 Points about a year ago

I'd like to know how a 21 yr old is already doing software engineering that sounds amazing

[-] comcain 6 Points about a year ago

How do you learn to write? You write. Every day if possible.

How do you learn to program? You program. Grab a book on, oh, Python, and start coding every day.

It's that simple.

Sure, college can teach you useful stuff for later. I went that route and was coding professionally at 21. But I learned how to program at 16.

Edit: typo

[-] EmotionalProblem 2 Points about a year ago

it’s all about learning multiple languages to make the muula otherwise you’ll be kicked out of the industry within 5 years.

[-] comcain 2 Points about a year ago

I agree but he has to start somewhere. I'm open to suggestions for a first language. Python is pretty popular. BASIC is too. Which would you recommend?

[-] EmotionalProblem 1 Point about a year ago

Python is good for automation but you won’t see / feel like you’re actually doing anything so python coupled with another language makes it powerful. C++ because you see results near instantly and you have to convert the language to something the computer can read. Easy ≠ Good.

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[-] TuukkaTheGeek 1 Point about a year ago

I self taught myself coding when I was 11 and 12 years old. I was really into it but then I started playing video games and lost all will to develop my skills.

I have regretted my decisions ever since and now at 18 am starting to program again. Had I continued with the pace I was progressing at I could easily be working as a programmer by now. Alas, I can't repair the past but I can learn from my mistakes. Do you have any materials that you would suggest?

[-] comcain 1 Point about a year ago

I'm not sure right off which languages I'd recommend. Other people in this sub know better than I do what's currently popular (for example, Ruby on Rails). Anyone care to chime in?

[-] saltyafrican 4 Points about a year ago

Reward yourself now with a cold shower

[-] -California 3 Points about a year ago

I really like how you set a reasonable goal for yourself. Approach a girl and you can stop walking the route. I'm sure everyone here would recommend continuing that process. Set a goal and actually measure your progress towards it. Doing it for lifting goals is very effective.

[-] bookloverphile 3 Points about a year ago

So why did the mods ban you?

[-] artificialfather 3 Points about a year ago

Posting a shitty field report.

[-] bookloverphile 3 Points about a year ago

Theyre pretty tough in here lol

[-] artificialfather 10 Points about a year ago

I may be 21, but I trust the wiser man in here that have said innumerable times how tough life can be.

Life can get tougher than all of the shit I got regarding that post, it’s then when you stop hearing the noise and start hearing the actual clues of what you did wrong.

Also, toughness is what shaped us into the war-smart-art-civilized men we are today.

[-] ThePlague 4 Points about a year ago

It's like boot camp: yeah, you're going to get yelled at, probably beaten up as well. It's not out of cruelty, rather preparation for far harsher endeavors that will have no mercy.

[-] bookloverphile 2 Points about a year ago

That’s true. Good attitude

[-] Flintblood 1 Point about a year ago

Can you explain that one a little more? Did you post something negative about your field report?

[-] mejakejohnson 2 Points about a year ago

You're exemplary of what a true warrior is, not phased by the setbacks you're dealing with. Wow.

[-] [deleted] 2 Points about a year ago

you're welcome. good work on everything. keep up the momentum, stay present, and observe your mind when it floats towards negative thoughts. i appreciate this post.

[-] Bumbleblock 2 Points about a year ago

Are you going to keep the rp update as you go on?

[-] Entropy-7 2 Points about a year ago

It's not punishment, it is TRIAL BY FIRE.

Welcome to the brotherhood.

[-] svparty 1 Point about a year ago

Fuck being a doob. I'm going in.

[-] coin_pwr 1 Point about a year ago

I think once one learns about TRP, there's no going back. The tendency may still be there from time to time, but deep down you will always remember the truth that there is no unicorn's out there and you stop putting anyone on a pedestal.

[-] strikethrough123 1 Point about a year ago

Hey man. I was in the same situation 2 years ago pre TRP (skinny as fuck as well).. I'm 21 now. Due TRP, I've gotten so far ahead of my peers (women, career, money) it's ridiculous. Welcome to the other side my dude.

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[-] jamsawamsa 1 Point about a year ago

That's progress. Mind on your goal and keep it up!

[-] Teton_POW 1 Point about a year ago

This is great. I've been suffering this every now and again since college. Every time i spend a few months in a relationship... turn back beta again... needy and shit. Then after its over... i go back to competitive alpha mindset. Gotta keep them at arm's length. You've got the power

[-] Rebe1Ye11 1 Point about a year ago

Are the mods still attacking the red pill community? I have been on this board for a while and seen post that have just vanished. Is reddit really that against the red pill?

[-] artificialfather 2 Points about a year ago

I meant the red pill mods. Not the Reddit mods.

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[-] topapito 1 Point about a year ago

This, precisely this, is why I don't see this sub as a place for long term growth. Everyone seems so snug about this kid's attempts at applying the valuable teachings. Like everyone is so red pill your dicks are shiny.

This is not a fraternity. It is a place of knowledge. Oh, so you called her? You're a blue pill. Like fucking kids at a schoolyard. We all fuck up. We all do blue pill things. The red pill is not a set of procedures, it is a way of life.

Applying it in real life, there is only one thing to keep in mind. Make them do the chasing. In business, make them do the chasing. In relationships, make them do the chasing. Don't chase. Do make them think you are valuable. How? Mystery, abundance mentality. Learn to be alone. You will have plenty of alone time while you master the chase game.

Other than that, everything else is filler for the lost. Stop acting like you have it under control. Put your dicks back in your pants, and your rulers back into your school lunch pails. Even I, a 54yr old red piller for life can glean some lessons from the OP. It costs nothing to be humble you dumb fucks. Respect yourselves by respecting others. Disrespecting others only shows your own level of shittyness.

Make mistakes. Mistakes are good. Women are like gasoline, a byproduct of refining oil. Women are a byproduct of living red pill. Those of you who measure game or success by the number of plates or women you fuck are missing the point. Living red pill is so much more than fucking. The side bar has all this info. Why not put it to good use?

OP, you wer'nt punished. Your field report sucked balls. Kudos though, you are demonstrating perseverance. To all you others, learn that from OP. Work on your own shit. Learn from other's mistakes. Calling someone a bluepill is the most childish shit ever. You should learn from it, not criticize.

[-] LurchingDeath -15 Point about a year ago

You still seem like you haven't doesn't anything really. I'm sorry to tell you this but you're simply out a beta through and through. Nothing you can do can beat it runs deep in your veins.

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[-] Nega-Chin -1 Point about a year ago

Your comment history is even more aids than mine. You must be truly disgusting! There, someone acknowledged you ;)