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little_ga_peach

Posted 8y ago in Uncategorized - Permalink - Locked - 89 Views

A while ago I posted about my worries about moving in with my boyfriend. Well thank you for all of your comments and help. You all really talked some sense into me.

I talked to my boyfriend openly and honestly after thinking things through. He asked me if I trusted him, and I do. He said there's no reason for me to be worried if I trusted him, and he was right. I moved in with him a few months ago, and it has been fantastic ever since. I'm so happy I did!

This man...he is wonderful. I'm so frustrated at myself for being worried about it. It just shows me how much I need to work on myself. I have been working hard to become the best woman I can be.

About a month ago he surprised me with an engagement. I can't thank you all enough for your advice. I truly appreciate it. I know I have to keep working on myself and there's a way to go, but I could have messed up my relationship with the best man ever by not trusting his judgement. THANK YOU!

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FahneGirl 8y ago

An engagement! Ahhhh!!!! So proud of you sister.

You must be so excited! Good work babe!

I can't wait to get married...so jealous

RPDame 8y ago

He asked me if I trusted him, and I do. He said there's no reason for me to be worried if I trusted him

Awwwwwwww!

I'm really happy for you.

I looked for your original post in your history but couldn't find it. You either deleted it or posted it under another account. Any way you can dig it up and link it?

little_ga_peach 8y ago

I deleted it due to some harassing PMs. It was just easier.

The basic gist of the post was that I was raised in a really traditional household where cohabitation before marriage is completely frowned upon. I was worried about bucking tradition and my parents. Ultimately after talking to the ladies here I realized that following my man was the best option. He had gone above and beyond to make me comfortable at his house, and as you quoted, there would be nothing to worry about because I trust him.

I handled telling my parents and surprisingly they were okay with it because they can see how good of a man he is and how we take care of each other.

Happy endings all around!!

snbdmliss 8y ago

Trust is the most important thing! Its great to hear that you have a captain that consistently makes good decisions for your team. Congrats and best wishes for your future together.