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bambiliftsweights 5y ago
So RPW discourages women from bitching about their SO to friends and family and with good reason, right?
Does this mean we can’t bitch at all? Can I Bitch in forums? In my journal?
Someone please explain this.
ManguZa 5y ago
It's better to work on a positive mindset and don't bitch at all.
You can possibly talk about an issue if you need to be listened and advices. But no bitching.
humanbynature 5y ago
Hi all, What does dating look like for you? The actual date itself, not the act of finding them.
ta1901 5y ago
It's spending time together and talking to get to know the other person. It could be movies, restaurant, art fair, picnic, just watching the ducks at the park, walking around the boardwalk, watching fireworks, trying new foods at an art fair, etc.
[deleted] 5y ago
This question definitely deserves its own post.
For me, to make long explanation short. It’s very important when both people are being considerate of one another’s wellbeing.
In the beginning like 1st and 2nd dates, I let the man lead and if his action shows it’s ALL about him then I just ghost. Leading is incremental and so is following. If he’s leading me to the bedroom by 2nd date, I don’t follow.
I have a different belief system of “date,” I think going out one afternoon for a jog isn’t necessarily a date but it’s just spending time together. It doesn’t have to be super formal. I’ve even went out on a “date” to the park throwing frisbees and packing picnic. Anyways, not sure if this helps. ????
leviathanis 5y ago
Lifestyle question: How do I help motivate my man? And myself as well?
We both have pretty lofty goals for the future, and we're both in the same university, but we have trouble getting basic life tasks done, not to mention schoolwork and personal projects. He's better at schoolwork than I am, and I'm better at motivating myself to do personal projects.
We both have Asperger's/autism, and he has ADD too. He also displays all the symptoms of depression besides sadness, such as being tired all the time and loss of appetite.
For example, I want to start going to the gym and start working on my projects, and he wants to create content for his discord server and work on preparing for his future career in psychiatry. How can we motivate each other to be the power couple we know we can be?
ta1901 5y ago
I put all necessary tasks first and get them done first. So here's the top priorities first for my college life:
Do this without fail, every day, no exceptions to make sure you get in the habit of things.
raeonmon 5y ago
You could turn working on your projects into a date. Pick out a cute coffee shop or cafe, bring your laptops, and work on your projects there as you chat and bounce ideas of each other. You could do this once a week or once every two for an hour or so. The gym is most likely something you will need to do on your own. Could you go with a girlfriend? Or, you could join a club that's activity is physical aka rock climbing, hiking, ultimate frisbee, etc.
leviathanis 5y ago
He's pretty introverted, but I can probably entice him to go out and work with me in public with the promise of food, lol. I have a few options for people i could go to the gym with, i'll try that and going by myself to see which is more enjoyable. I do rollerblade around campus sometimes, it's fun. Took a while to learn but worth it
LookingForMySelf 5y ago
While searching for the correct answer to your depression and ADD, here here is an interview talking about the elimination diet, which allows you to find types of food that may lower your defences to feeling low and ADD. According to this article 90% of serotonin is produced in the digestive track. I heard a more modest number of 75% before.