I've read a lot of redpillwomen for the last few years, but I didn't completely accept it into my life. I was lost, like many young women, with strange and faulty ideas about how boys are and what relationships should be like. I know I'll definitely make a post about that in the future, about how red pill has changed my life, but I guess I want to share something that I know will help all you ladies here.
Redpillwomen has a huge focus on improving yourself, and by far the most effective motivation I've had is just reminding myself that everything I do, everything - it really is for our relationship and our future. When I want to spoil myself with chocolate and over eat, I remind myself of how important discipline will be throughout our future, how I do want to look good for him. Equally, I know I need to take breaks and treat myself to something lovely when I go through a stressful time or have done well recently.
It's honestly been that simple for me. Because the crazy thing is, I think I have found the one. When I told my mum she was incredibly sceptical, because I'm so young - but I also know I'm dedicated, and my loyalty doesn't falter. I want to be the best girlfriend, carer, cheerleader, wife - and I know the decisions I make today, tomorrow and this week are important in the long run.
I just wanted to share that, it's helped me lose weight, focus on school and become truly feminine. Swallowing the pill has improved the quality of my life by a long stretch, and I won't ever go back.
LaneysWorld2 5y ago
Did you create a new account to engage in discussions here? If so, welcome! I'm glad you're working on improving yourself, it's one step at a time ;)
How old are you? I'm still young too and I believe I've already found the man of my life <3 This sub and the ladies here helped me to improve myself so much!
redwatch95 5y ago
Me too :) I’m 22! About to be 23 so I’m not sure if that qualifies as young anymore ????
vintagegirlgame 5y ago
I had just turned 22 when I met my SO...that was 9 years ago!
MakeAmericaRichAgain 5y ago
If your age starts with a 2, you're not young.
Welcome into the fold. Hope some of us old(er) fogies can help to offer some wisdom.
redwatch95 5y ago
What's one thing you would say is important to remember for a "young" woman?
MakeAmericaRichAgain 5y ago
You should remember that you and your man are a team. Nobody's perfect. It's not your job to "fix" your man, either through nagging or more subversive means. It's your job to love him, flaws and all, and help him to navigate the madness that is living in a country where 30% of people can either barely read or are illiterate.
redwatch95 5y ago
I’m not in America but I see your point!
raeonmon 5y ago
If you're determined and realistic about marriage, and willing to put in the work, youth should not be an issue (esp if you're redpilled). I began dating my husband after my 20th birthday, and knew he was the one about a month later! We were engaged a year and a half later (much to the chagrin of our family--"we were too young" hilarious since my mother was engaged at 19!) and were married at 23. Our marriage is still going strong and it's so wonderful to already have my life partner while many people are struggling in the dating arena. I know I'm very lucky!
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