Honestly, fat women are perceived as "easy" because of lower self esteem (low SMV). That's why they get hit on.

Also, while you're overweight, you don't look "fat" or obese. You look thick, which appeals to many men (ethincs, especially).

My greater concern is why you yo-yo 50lbs weight. That's not healthy and suggests health/psychological issues that you need to address before you go mate-hunting.

From my personal, real world experience people constantly heavily exaggerate about how difficult fat women have it when it comes to finding love from men. It's true that being in shape will maximize your attractiveness, and will give you more options, but being fat certainly won't condemn you. If you look around you most women and men for that matter who are fat and have always been fat have romantic relationships and end up marrying if that is what they actually want. Sometimes I think that people don't leave their houses or know many people in real life.

It's better to be in shape and since the red pill is generally about self improvement, the women here like the maximize their potential.

It's also highly important to remember that weight is controllable. Virtually no woman will be obese on 2,000 calories a day.

I've lived in NYC and men here are notorious catcallers. In my experience, Latino and black men like all flavour of women, but they especially like extra curves on a women. Since you're Latina with curves and take pride in your appearance, you will have no trouble attracting men. I know RPW advocates for a certain way of life, even down to dress, but one of the great things about this place is that different types of beauty are genuinely celebrated. I honestly feel like so many RPW things don't easily apply since things are just so... liberal.

Or maybe you can stop overthinking it and just accept you're genuinely pretty? Just sayin.

Where I’m from, thick/curvy women are the absolute IDEAL. The golden rule to be as thin as (healthily) possible has always kind of confused me. Men don’t tend to like women thin over here. From your picture, you look great! I’m envious lol

EDIT: I’m in an area that’s majorly Hispanic/Latino and we’re pretty much renown for liking a bit of meat on the bones. So, there’s that

Well, it really doesn't matter what men think because you feel uncomfortable with yourself, right?

If you want to lose the weight then do it, but most guys don't mind a little extra woman. Some men might find you more attractive how you look now. But you don't and that's the most important thing.

A variety of possibilities: (1) The makeup and fashion choices are successfully fooling the men into thinking you are more attractive than you are. Makeup and fashion are very good at pulling the wool over men’s eyes in this respect, and significant numbers of men are completely unaware of this. I’m convinced there would be far fewer beta orbiters, and instragram simps if women stopped using makeup, pushup bras, high heels, etc, etc. Not that there aren’t plenty of attractive women without makeup, but the number of “gorgeous” women would drop substantially, and the window of time when a given woman could achieve this level would be shorter, without makeup.

(2) If you don’t look genuinely obese, a decent number of men don’t mind. You may just be more attractive than you think you are. While I think body positivity activists who promote morbid obesity are completely delusional, a young woman who retains an hourglass, and is pretty, can still be found attractive by a decent number of men even if she is techincally overweight. I would avoid getting complacent though—women progressively carry those extra pounds less well as they age: gravity sets in, a big gut demolishes the hourglass, etc. For overweight women there can be a fine line between “sexy” and dowdy, and age is often a determining factor.

(3) They just want to have a short term sexual relationship. Men can become genuinely smitten with a woman (strong emotions, etc) based on a combination of looks and a superficial (and often inaccurate) perception of her personality. The level of attraction a woman needs to achieve, however, to be attractive enough to have sex with a couple of times is often much lower, depending on the man, and how comfortable he is with short term sexual relationships. I’m not saying that a woman has to be beautiful for a man to want to commit long term (although the redpill reality is that this helps); some men are reasonable and don’t expect very high level beauty even in a woman they would want to commit long term to, but it’s not necessarily easy to distinguish those who just want to plate you from those who want to be with you long term.

(4) Even though I just got done saying the body positivity women are delusional, there are a small number of men who seem to genuinely fetishize very overweight women. I suspect these aren’t the guys complmenting you, however.

Health is the most attractive trait a person can have. If you eat healthy and exercise a normal amount, you will look attractive to men.

If your healthy weight happens to give you some curves, all the better for you, because that's even more attractive to most men. Women store more fat than men because they're the primary caregivers to babies and they need to be able to deprive themselves in order to feed the baby if it comes to that. Thus, men are evolved to prefer curvy women. But health overrides weight, so a healthy skinny girl beats an unhealthy curvy girl.

I'm a guy, btw, and you look good in the pic.