12 Rules For Life: An Antidote to Chaos

If you like fiction, check out Ayn Rand's three novels in order of: Anthem, Fountainhead, and finally Atlas Shrugged. If you must only read one of them, read Fountainhead if you want to learn more about yourself, and Atlas Shrugged if you want to be red-pilled about the world.

Older men have more mental baggage, they are very suspicious of women trying to use them. Some have even become so burned that they have decided to never marry.

Men value youth and loyalty the most. My best tip for you is to find someone you like around your own age and support him. His wealth and trust will grow with time. The more time you spend with him, the more he will think about marrying you.

Agree with the downtown abbey suggestion! Also any of the classics are good, particularly anything Jane Austen or Gone With the Wind has traditional concepts too. I’m not particularly sure about any modern literature but I’m sure there is some. Cooking classes is another good idea I think. My mother taught me how to cook from a young age and it’s helped me a lot in my relationship xo

If you're open to TV shows, I think Downton Abbey is interesting. It portrays how upper-class women in England found their husbands 100 years ago.

The Fascinating Girl by Helen Andelin is hard to get a hold of these days, but worth the read.

Not a book, but I'd recommend looking into some interesting hobbies and skills to learn. It may not seem this way right now, but your late teens/early 20s will be a period of your life where you've got a great deal of free time. Use it well!

Think about instruments you might like to learn, painting, rock climbing, surfing, anything! Investing your time to learn now will make you a more interesting and well rounded woman for the rest of your life. Having productive hobbies is a great habit to get into :)

Sarah plain and tall

Gone with the Wind.

Game of Thrones. No blue pill shit in there!

I have some very bad news for you. Being married young isn't simply a matter of choice. Technology is slowly killing marriage (article written for men, but useful), because the age at which people can afford to get married is getting later and later.

Pretty much the only way to deal with this is to focus exclusively on older men. Men in their twenties simply aren't going to be ready to settle down, or able to financially afford to.

Since you aren't going to bump into a lot of older men in your day to day life at age 18, you're going to have to make a conscious effort to find places where they are, and spend time there. You also would have to find subtle ways to make it clear that you are open to being pursued by someone 10+ years older.

This might sound strange to you, even creepy, but trying to date a 20 year old man and then persuade him to be ready for marriage would be a doomed enterprise from the start.

You'll have a much easier time with a man in his 30s or even 40s, because:

• He has probably gotten hookup culture out of his system.
• He was raised in an era when marriage wasn't quite so damaged as an institution.
• You appear very young, fresh, pretty, and desirable compared to women his age.
• He can support a wife and kids.
• Dating or marrying someone much younger than him elevates him in his own eyes and those of his peers.