Hi all,

New to RPW, not new to being red pilled. It's been a few years. Deplorable lecture sealed the deal.

Funny that my first comment here is on making new friends after being red pilled. After a very long extraction process my husband and I moved from a very liberal city to the country. It was the best decision I've ever made. We left all our liberal "friends" behind and not surprisingly none of them called after we moved. Well maybe one. We found that it was impossible to live life in the city with our new/reclaimed values and red pill awareness. Not only is it difficult for me to be around liberals but I can in no way make friends with someone that is liberal. It's just too damn shallow and irritating. Besides, the idea of diversity is just another globalist blackhole to avoid. Why waste time with people who don't share your values or interests? Do grown women need a gaggle of friends? Are we children? I admit it's a bit lonely at times, but a true friend will come along in time. I spend my time being a better mother and wife and human being. I love my alone time. I've gotten closer to God and closer to the person I used to be before "the liberalism."

Build a conservative life for yourself. Try to find women that will more likely be aligned with your values. What we did was we joined a church even though we aren’t religious and I geared myself toward a career that I could meet likeminded women (labor nurse)

The easiest way to find red pill people is to join a religious group. If you are Christian, or just want to be in a place where people think like you, join a church.

Otherwise it's just kind of trial and error. But the only way to have the potential to make friends is to be around people consistently.

It’s always good to surround yourself with people who share your views. It will happen with time, as like attracts like. I have some extremely liberal friends who have become that way in recent years. We are still friends, but I do realis that we are at somewhat different stages of life now xo

Why should differing political views preclude people from being friends with you?

You can have all kinds of friends and all kinds of friendships. Some friends are the type you can talk politics with, with others you steer clear of politics. Same goes for topics of gender relations.

I speak here from experience. I have many kinds of friends, acquaintances and business relationships of all levels of depth and shallowness. They all add meaning to my life even though I don't discuss politics nor gender relations with most of them.

There's a reason most people speak about the weather ????

So I weaned myself off friendships that were unhealthy, and for a while that was very difficult because besides my boyfriend I was a bit lonely. I started investing in music as a hobby and after about six months I've developed one close friend and have another friendship building up. I take a long time to warm up, so your story may have a shorter time frame but hobbies are great for finding new friends.

Keep it light. They are friends, not political allies

I would echo what other have said, but also ask: Why do you feel like you need to make new friends?

I ask, because when I embraced red pill, I did not tell my friends I was now red pilled, and maintained my friendships, even if we had different views. But I did realize that one friend in particular was volatile towards my views on relationships. I’m still polite to her, but I distance myself from her because I don’t have the energy to abide by her “rules” just so I don’t get lectured. For example, she will “correct “ me when I call my SO my boyfriend, because she thinks that’s a patriarchal term and I should only say “partner.”

What I’m getting at, is being red pill doesn’t exclude you from being friend with anyone. But I understand why someone may choose to distance themselves from certain friends for being bitches.

It's hard, especially if you're in an area that is unwelcoming to you. My engineer friend moved due to his job to the Seattle area, and he's a deep red conservative republican - he had real trouble making friends up there.

Honestly, some people can't separate politics from their life, it invades it; but most people aren't that bad. Just keep in mind the people you can open up to, and those who you can not. Cut out the intolerant, and keep the winners of all stripe.