If you want to attract quality people into your life and have quality relationships you need to become a whole package. Nothing is worse than opening a package and finding it devoid of any substance. This is what the Red Pill is about; improving yourself intellectually, mentally, and physically to improve your relationships.
Intellectually: Read and educate yourself. Step outside of the typical female activities or reading romance novels/magazine and watching reality TV. Read real books about subjects that interest you, mix it up and read both fiction as well as non-fiction. If you find a subject that interests you, learn more about it and don't be afraid to learn about things that are traditionally woman topics.
Mentally: Deal with your issues and become an emotionally strong person. No one wants a partner that cries every night. If you are depressed or where hurt in some way deal with those issues on your own so they don't come out in your relationships (romantic or otherwise). Also take time to figure out what makes you tick and what makes you truly happy - and do it.
Physically: Find an activity that you enjoy and makes you feel good. No one wants a lumpy couch potato, it doesn't matter what it is but something that keeps you from getting winded going up the stairs. The bonus is this will improve your confidence and make you look amazing with far less effort.
There is a lot of attention paid to women's exterior and while that is important, it is also equally important to grow and develop yourself as a person. Become an active and vibrant woman that is genuinely happy and people will want to keep your around. How to Win Friends and Influence People is a great read and really helpful in developing stronger relationships overall.
Amissmiss 10y ago
My husband said there is a quick drop off in interest of even the hottest women after sex if everything she says is dumb. Basically, she was good for a good time, and that's all. On the other hand, he thought I was a keeper because I was good at conversation, looked pretty, and would not sleep with him right away.
[deleted] 10y ago
If you keep a man interested he will remember you. I have had men pine after me for 10+ years because I can have serious conversations about a huge range of topics from combat with a broad sword and cartoons to the political and economic conditions around the world. Sex and appearance are surely part of the equation, but should not be the entire equation.
Nutz76 10y ago
simple, concise, and straight to the point. I like it!
a few tweaks and it's aplicable to men as well.
[deleted] 10y ago
I like things to be applicable to both sexes. I think that it is more red pill to improve yourself as a person than to change the exterior under the guise of finding a mate.
The things I mentioned were the main things I have seen my female friends struggle with as the butt their heads against the wall, there are more.