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Re: How do you approach a situation when the boundaries are crossed?
I'd expect the guy not to compromise on his stance.
In our case it was clearly communicated that it's a no-go. It's highly influenced by my upbringing. Although I consider myself as more westernized now, the idea of my woman hanging out with a guy alone just simply doesn't pass.
6mo ago - Permalink
Re: How do you approach a situation when the boundaries are crossed?
This actually makes perfect sense. I also find myself saying things such as: 'She is on vacation, I don't want to disrupt that' and other excuses. Which make it clear that I am just trying to find a way to justify her actions without confrontation. I am just sending a text right away
6mo ago - Permalink
Re: How do you approach a situation when the boundaries are crossed?
Is this a conversation that I should address head on? Because I didn't say anything regarding this when she mentioned it. So, I am unsure about the timing since she is in vacation now, and we won't be seeing each other for a month.
6mo ago - Permalink
Re: How do you approach a situation when the boundaries are crossed?
The reasoning was something along the lines of wanting to meet an old classmate from her city, and that it has been so long.
I actually think it's reasonable, but at the same time it was a clear boundary breach.
6mo ago - Permalink
Re: How do you approach a situation when the boundaries are crossed?
She texted them separately, as in to see who is available to meet. So, it was a one on one from the beginning
6mo ago - Permalink
Re: LDR Girl Brought Up Moving — Now She’s Stressed That It’s “Real”
Your point about options is real. Although, I must mention that she initiated the moving here idea, and I followed through. But I suppose in doing so, I communicated that she's my only option. She does know I have attention from other girls as she tells me how popular I am and all that, but that act...
8mo ago - Permalink
Re: LDR Girl Brought Up Moving — Now She’s Stressed That It’s “Real”
I see your point. Instead of being supportive and warm, I've noticed that I am more distant now, she initiates a little bit, but she's somewhat mirroring me at this point. We haven't had any fruitful conversation after we had that talk.
Once I figured out she's weighing her options, I just took a ...
8mo ago - Permalink
Re: LDR Girl Brought Up Moving — Now She’s Stressed That It’s “Real”
I get your point. Thank you
8mo ago - Permalink
Re: LDR Girl Brought Up Moving — Now She’s Stressed That It’s “Real”
If from this small post its easily understood that I am carrying most of the emotional weight, then I need some serious reflection before stepping forward.
8mo ago - Permalink
Re: LDR Girl Brought Up Moving — Now She’s Stressed That It’s “Real”
Even if she was just visiting me and time is is always great together, you still think she was just bluffing?
8mo ago - Permalink
Re: Failed to overcome LMR
I am positive that had nothing to do with the last date. If a kiss is that dramatical with a girl it usually means you've given her way to many nice guys signs and she realizes she can use your attention without giving away her intimacy.
Messaging her after what she did renforced exactly what she ...
9mo ago - Permalink
Re: Should Í approach everyone who is exhibiting strong IOI's?
It defeats the purpose of being natural when you're overly technical. You should approach who you want to approach.
9mo ago - Permalink
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