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Re: Update on LTR Problems (breakup)
For #2 I agree and even said it to her. I said if I’m trying to fix it what’s the issue? She said you promised this too many times. But I really didn’t I have said in the past I’d try to see her more/text her more but this issue never came up that I know of …about not talking thing out …...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: Update on LTR Problems (breakup)
You’re right. I felt like since this wasn’t a loss of attraction thing and that it was more from showing now emotions and ignoring her, that I wanted to at least show her I was willing to take it seriously. Even though it was too late. I know I shouldn’t have but that was my thought process. B...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: Update on LTR Problems (breakup)
What did I do that was the opposite? Talk to her? I’m confused by this.
1y ago - Permalink
Re: Update on LTR Problems (breakup)
I really don’t see where I did something wrong. People in the other thread were saying show your actions, I didn’t see anything about them saying don’t ever hit her up. The whole problem was me ignoring her.
I’m not here to say I’m right I’m just saying I didn’t think I did anything c...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: Update on LTR Problems (breakup)
I haven’t been at all that’s been the problem lol this meeting was in response to her text. Of course I haven’t texted or called since
1y ago - Permalink
Re: Update on LTR Problems (breakup)
All I see online is about no contact. Focusing on leveling up and improving. And while I know that’s good to do anyways ..I was wondering if that would help at all here since it wasn’t (from what I know) about my attractiveness but rather my lack of being an actual boyfriend.
I know impossibl...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: Update on LTR Problems (breakup)
Yeah I get that 100% to agree with the breakup .. but in this relationship I was always stand offish. We didn’t see each other much, she always pushed for more, and I regrettably left her hanging for a bit when she asked to talk
So that’s why I did want to give her some reassurance that I’d w...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: Update on LTR Problems (breakup)
Ok sorry I don’t understand. What should I do then, if you could just clarify.
1y ago - Permalink
Re: Need Advice on this LTR
Alright so now what? Do I send a message to her last response or what?
1y ago - Permalink
Re: Need Advice on this LTR
Lol yeah thanks, and even though im getting flack for this, it's still 99% better than how guys are acting with their girlfriend.
I really dont feel I owe an apology here. Since I'm already on the fence about keeping it as is with it ended, I'm not willing to do that.
1y ago - Permalink
Re: Need Advice on this LTR
That is my line. And it wasn't out of being emotional about it. To me, after I cooled off, thinking about it now, I still think it's completely disrespectful.
If I was out at a bar, and I overheard this convo take place and found out that the girl that said "dont threaten me with a good time" about...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: Need Advice on this LTR
Like ive said in my other comments, call me all the names or whatever, that's fine. I'm not here to prove that I'm right..otherwise I wouldn't be posting. And like I also said...I'm not sure if I even want to continue this relationship so this post was more to see my options and what I can do better...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: Need Advice on this LTR
I'm not here to prove im right. I'm here to see what I did wrong and fix it here or fix it with any girl in the future. So all of this doesn't bother me, im taking it as feedback. So thanks.
But where do we draw the line exactly? If your girlfriend says "I made out with this guy at a bar" or "yeah...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: Need Advice on this LTR
Right now I'm just going back and forth between if she really is suitable as a LTR. Im 32, she's 32. So I dont want to be wasting her time if it's not serious. I did lay out my boundaries and expectations. She 100% knows in her mind before telling me that story that it would be against anything I'd ...
1y ago - Permalink
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Re: Need Advice on this LTR