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slowlylearning1
commented in Ask TRP
Re: What to do about age gap judgements?
Just keep being you.
You don't need to leer, perv or be a creep about younger women ; but if you hit it off with a younger woman - you have both have similar interests, attraction - just go for it, and see what he says.
When did he say he couldn't be with a younger girl? Were women around, trying ...
12mo ago - Permalink
slowlylearning1
commented in Ask TRP
Re: The worst part about porn?
Nothing wrong with a sly wank. And unless it's a problem, even say the odd porn wank is alright - see it as having a whiskey on a Friday etc, but when it comes to be an addiction like this, you need to cut it out completely.
I had a phase of wanking once a week, and even then I'd have wet dreams s...
1y ago - Permalink
slowlylearning1
commented in Ask TRP
Re: How to improve social skills and establish a social circle to enjoy college ?
It takes balls to put yourself out there, you mentioned being potentially autistic/socially isolated. I spent about 4-5 years (Covid, health issues, working alone) and it took me about a year to get my social and motor skills to work when I moved to another job with co-workers.
I was frustrated a...
1y ago - Permalink
slowlylearning1
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Channeling the Anger/ Regret
I think just being yourself. Doing more activities, hobbies, life experience creates more opportunities and things happen. The more you do stuff, even just hiking you can meet people on the trail and end up talking.
Reading and learning about things definitely helps although if you know too much, ...
1y ago - Permalink
slowlylearning1
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Women that flirt in front of their man?
Thank you for your replies, I enjoyed reading them.
MrSupreme, I was exactly the same. Looking back of the 4 girlfriends I had, 3 of them were doing all this. I am actually embarrassed at how I behaved, an absolute cuck. I'd be my natural self at the start (always had a YOLO mindset) so could be ...
1y ago - Permalink
slowlylearning1
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Channeling the Anger/ Regret
I'm 42, a recovering beta. I squandered some decent women when younger due to depression/anxiety really. I could attract but they would smell my insecure red flags by sometimes even the end of a date and never see them again, or worse they had lost all respect for me.
I'm now bald, older yet in gr...
1y ago - Permalink
slowlylearning1
commented in TheRedPill
Re: The hard way
Good post, man. Really enjoyed that.
1y ago - Permalink
slowlylearning1
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Are there educated non-feminist women?
Educated, western, liberal women are literally not worth the squeeze. You'll find the odd nugget amongst them, but some are completely indoctrinated that they are militant about it. They'll grind you down, and the older you get - if you are happy, and she is not - she won't like it, and make life di...
1y ago - Permalink
slowlylearning1
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Are there educated non-feminist women?
Educated, western, liberal women are literally not worth the squeeze. You'll find the odd nugget amongst them, but some are completely indoctrinated that they are militant about it. They'll grind you down, and the older you get - if you are happy, and she is not - she won't like it, and make life di...
1y ago - Permalink
slowlylearning1
commented in TheRedPill
Re: The society is collapsing in half the world.
In full agreement.
Men have had their balls caught off in the west mostly, and are incredibly timid. Helicoptering parenting and the vapid narcissism of social media, and the accessibility of almost everything, everywhere, anytime be it movies, a pizza delivery creates a lazy, soft, depressed soci...
1y ago - Permalink
slowlylearning1
commented in Ask TRP
Re: How the fuck do you kill your ego?
Great post.
I've gone from fat to fit. And there was a stage there where I was almost looking down on fat people ; believing I was so much better than them cos I did the work. When women started showing IOIs, flirting, touching, sitting next to me, starting up conversations - I was dangerously clo...
2y ago - Permalink
slowlylearning1
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Frustrated with being all looks no personality
I am struggling at times with this too.
I am incredibly laid back and relaxed, and occasionally have women starting conversations, standing close or strangers being friendly. I go to the gym 2x a week, a huge DIY project in my free time, hiking, over 35s soccer - I am busy, but its hardly that an...
2y ago - Permalink
slowlylearning1
commented in Ask TRP
Re: How to lose that lost piece of negativity/pessemism?
Thank you for the replies, and some great replies!
I've always been reasonably popular with women (to an extent)yet I would be less cavalier once I got to know them, slowly turning into a beta date by date. So never had any issues attracting in the first place ; but was incredibly meak beforehand....
2y ago - Permalink
slowlylearning1
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Productivity skyrocketted after quitting the gym?
I have lost about 50 pounds in the space of 10 months ; and now down to BF 12% but only recently started going to the gym. I used to play soccer, middle distance running, hiking, basically lots of cardio, broad shoulders yet skinny frame.
I am working on my house in my free time. So living a reaso...
2y ago - Permalink
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