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Re: On the verge of divorce II
I hope it wouldn't come to any drama. We've already had difficult discussions over things and even we didn't reach a conclusion that I liked (signed paperwork over the house), I have her promise and a promise of her father at least. There is a nubmer of reasons why it is morally right to leave it to...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: On the verge of divorce II
Nah, none of that is necessary. The divorce will be no fault. I only went to her phone because she lied through her teeth the whole time and things just didn't add up. I don't know why she lied. Had she said. Look, I'm seeing someone else, that's it, we are done. It might have stung a little more bu...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: On the verge of divorce II
I think I have become domesticated over the years, I wasn't interesting anymore, it was clear I wasn't going anywhere, she got bored of me. I think I should have been more assertive the minute I have realized that it isn't working for me in the bedroom. But that is years in the past. With the knowle...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: On the verge of divorce II
hi guys, thanks again for your responses. It is surprising how many of you had it spot on in the OP thread. I just didn't want to believe or rather I wanted to be absolutely sure that there is no way to save it before I move on. Now I know what is what and it is a case closed for me. I am not taking...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: On the verge of divorce
>Lift, read the sidebar, STFU. Those are you priority for now until you improve your frame.
This is what I am gonna do for the time being. I'm getting into the reading slowly and start to understand the concepts but I do not know anything yet and don't know what I am doing.
Thank you all for your ...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: On the verge of divorce
Wow, you coming on me hard man here and I need it.
>You expressed that, but what are you going to do about it?
I don't know. What should I do?
>Make your plan as if you will lose your wife, you will lose the house, you will lose the kids. "It's not until you're ready to lose everything that you'...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: On the verge of divorce
Everything matches up though, timing, clothes etc. And she is not manipulative like this. She wouldn't simply send me anything if she was somewhere else. She's basically telling me look I am where I've said I would be, I'm not doing anything wrong. Why she is doing that?
2y ago - Permalink
Re: On the verge of divorce
I agree, I do however believe this is going on the subconcious level at least in my case. They are just being women. Simply dragging her down to their level saying look how good we have it here. They are both ugly as shit both fatter than me. They probably only have promiscuous sex with drunked bar ...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: On the verge of divorce
I am willing to believe her for the time being. She sends me pictures of where's she at when it might be suspicious. I don't know why she is doing that, I have never asked her to do that. Otherwise she keeps her phone locked since we broke up. She showed me the WhatsApp page with the list of convos...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: On the verge of divorce
> It's clearly about something else that she will not admit to. My first guess is that she has met someone else, is having an affair. Or had an affair. Do you have anything on that angle? What would be your position if she has had / is having, an affair? Would you still want to be with her, for the ...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: On the verge of divorce
>Lightswitch effect. When woman stops loving you (which in reality means she's not attracted anymore) she does 180 on you being associated with anything good, now you are associated with everything bad.
It is mad that there is a term for it. The more I read about it the more I understand how her na...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: On the verge of divorce
>When she's nagging, complaining, shit testing,.. DO NOT ENGAGE.
Thanks man, I have stopped with rationalizing, explaining etc. But in a sesne I'm glad that I expressed myself that the family is of the highest value for me and I am not ready to throw it away just yet.
I try to ignore her bitchingn...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: On the verge of divorce
My wife used to be very jelaous, she hated when I was in the middle of attention. But now she says go ahead, have fun I'm happy for you.
2y ago - Permalink
Re: On the verge of divorce
Yes, I think. they are in her head. I don't think my wife was necessarily happy, she probably said she wasn't and they encouraged her to start living finally, experience and explore. Deep down them two want what my wife has, two healthy kids, house, garden and a man who will stick it out for them. ...
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Re: On the verge of divorce II