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Re: I think I genuinely might have forgotten how to talk to women.
Yeah i'd be open to that. I know the reason i'm struggling is mostly my mindset and cucking myself out of taking the next step.
I have been slowly making progress though, I got the # of a girl that approached me last week and i reached out to try and make plans but she left me on read. Usually i w...
3w ago - Permalink
Re: I think I genuinely might have forgotten how to talk to women.
>It's not optimal but the bar is actually that low if you've done anything to take care of yourself. The average man is nowhere near any semblance of competition
Man i keep seeing this sentiment repeated on here but this isn't really the case, especially for me and op's generation (Gen z). Anyone w...
3w ago - Permalink
Re: 13% bodyfat but not seeing visible abs ?
One turned out to be underage so I ghosted and the other one ghosted me. I made a thread about it on here.
Tldr she got my number from someone and messaged me first basically begging me for a ride, and then ghosted me later when I gave her a date I would pick her up lol
4mo ago - Permalink
Re: 13% bodyfat but not seeing visible abs ?
Dude I swear I want to get better. I implemented the advice you guys gave me to go out and try talking to girls and I did. I got approached and approached as well and like I said in another comment I had a girl feeling me up during the ride which made me feel good. I don’t know if i said it here b...
4mo ago - Permalink
Re: 13% bodyfat but not seeing visible abs ?
Honestly if it's like that i might as well just use edited pics using AI. They look super realistic now, its impossible to tell. Thanks for the advice
4mo ago - Permalink
Re: 13% bodyfat but not seeing visible abs ?
how do i get past just being acquantainces with guys? do i just keep inviting them to go out until its mutual or what? its hard to make friends after school/college i feel like. like yeah ill meet some guys on a night out and get their contact but then ill msg them later and theyll have no idea who ...
4mo ago - Permalink
Re: 13% bodyfat but not seeing visible abs ?
I mean if your using dating apps then using a pic with abs vs without could be a more substantial difference. It's true that most women you meet irl won't see you topless unless your at a beach/pool or something.
4mo ago - Permalink
Re: 13% bodyfat but not seeing visible abs ?
Yeah my height is 67” and my waist is 30. I’m most comfortable maintaining where I’m at weight wise, since I can eat whatever I want and still look fit.
My goals are mostly to be strong and athletic, but I wanted to know if abs would have a strong enough impact on attracting girls to justify...
4mo ago - Permalink
Re: 13% bodyfat but not seeing visible abs ?
Guys also tend to not want to be friends with guys worse off than them since it lowers their status, so it’s hard to do. But I’ll keep trying.
4mo ago - Permalink
Re: 13% bodyfat but not seeing visible abs ?
Yeah your right lol. I had a couple girls ask me for a ride and my autistic ass fucked it up with them too. I even ended up taking one on a ride and didn’t even kiss her or get her number or escalate in anyway even though she was feeling up my chest and giving iois and shit. Idk how to improve my ...
4mo ago - Permalink
Re: 28M virgin, 178 cm . Finally started getting dates but unable to move beyond first.
Dude honestly if you're getting that many matches and actually going on dates you're ahead of the curve. Im 23 almost 24 and my dating apps completely dried up the second i turned 22. Idk what it is but i guess i'm competing with established 30 yr olds now so it's rough. Just take advantage of what ...
4mo ago - Permalink
Re: Male gaze vs. Female gaze
i have long curly hair and get complimented on it almost every time I go on a night out by girls
I think older women like short hair while college age girls like longer hair
9mo ago - Permalink
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Re: I think I genuinely might have forgotten how to talk to women.