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hierophantoracle
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Avoding long text message conversations
Then of course set up the next meeting or:
"The next week will be busy, starting a new job. The following Saturday,it would be great to meet up. How does that work for you?"
"Yeah that works... blah blah blah"
"Great. Then we can get in touch closer to then to confirm and arrange specifics."
I do...
1y ago - Permalink
hierophantoracle
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Avoding long text message conversations
I had this situation recently and it was as simple as being upfront.
"I'd like to get to know you but I'd rather do that in person. When you do that by text, it means we have less to discover in person.Also, I'm kept pretty busy so I don't spend a lot of time on my phone. It's a personal choice."
1y ago - Permalink
hierophantoracle
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Read sidebar. Wrote MAP. What should I do with ex?
There is a ton changing in my life for the better at the moment so I'll capitalize on that.
I've heard nexted my ex. I left it on message saying I was focusing on my goals and I wanted to minimize distractions. I haven't followed up since then and she hasn't replied so I'm just letting it stay that...
1y ago - Permalink
hierophantoracle
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Read sidebar. Wrote MAP. What should I do with ex?
She hasn't taken responsibility for specific things. She "was sorry" for "the way things turned out" but never addressed specifics.
You're spot on. I've let her put me in her orbit and breadcrumb me. I won't be that person.
I think where it was tough is that things were generally exciting, passion...
1y ago - Permalink
hierophantoracle
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Read sidebar. Wrote MAP. What should I do with ex?
It's tough to do but I do know I can't put energy into being an orbiter. Looking at the patterns is pretty sickening. I won't let myself be that. I deserve better.
1y ago - Permalink
hierophantoracle
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Read sidebar. Wrote MAP. What should I do with ex?
I know it won't happen even if she wants to. I've stepped back and said "I'm not on Whatsapp as much anymore as I have goals to focus on".
She responded to them with emojis so I'm just going to leave it as that. I have allowed myself to orbit her. No more putting in energy for nothing.
With the me...
1y ago - Permalink
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