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chadchaddington
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Girl I'm vetting for a LTR is following her ex on IG and I can't accept losing my hoes.
Seems simple enough. Do I set the boundaries in an overt or covert way? Should I tell her I know she's still following her ex and that is unacceptable to me if she wants a relationship?
3y ago - Permalink
chadchaddington
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Girl I'm vetting for a LTR is following her ex on IG and I can't accept losing my hoes.
Seems simple enough. Do I set the boundaries in an overt or covert way? Should I tell her I know she's still following her ex and that is unacceptable to me if she wants a relationship?
3y ago - Permalink
chadchaddington
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Almost LTR/Girl I'm vetting pulls male friends shit test
Okay man. Should I do it right away or wait till she hits me up and asks what I've been doing? Maybe hit her with "I was hanging out with my (female) friend" or will this cause unnecessary turmoil?
Also, still didn't respond to this:
>She just messaged me "I love you, and i forever will, you are t...
4y ago - Permalink
chadchaddington
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Almost LTR/Girl I'm vetting pulls male friends shit test
Okay man. Should I do it right away or wait till she hits me up and asks what I've been doing? Maybe hit her with "I was hanging out with my (female) friend" or will this cause unnecessary turmoil?
Also, still didn't respond to this:
>She just messaged me "I love you, and i forever will, you are t...
4y ago - Permalink
chadchaddington
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Almost LTR/Girl I'm vetting pulls male friends shit test
I know it's not good to be overt with setting boundaries, but I swear I told her covertly and she still doesn't get it. This now seems like the last option as I simply don't want to deal with stupid shit like this anymore and am outcome independant.
There have also been situations where I told said...
4y ago - Permalink
chadchaddington
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Should you be offended if a girl makes sex rules for you?
Oh no! How terrible!
TRP really isn't that deep. AWALT doesn't always apply. Women are human beings and some genuinely don't want to get pregnant with someone they're hooking up with, Chad or not.
4y ago - Permalink
chadchaddington
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Should you be offended if a girl makes sex rules for you?
Brother, that is a thing you have to respect.
Man or woman, everyone should decide on their own whether they want to have sex with a condom or not.
She's not disrespecting you, so you should not be offended. And if she actually disrespects you, then you still don't show you're upset. You let her ...
4y ago - Permalink
chadchaddington
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Girl I WAS vetting for a LTR disrespected me. How do I proceed after demoting her?
Yeah, you're right. I should stop texting so much.
4y ago - Permalink
chadchaddington
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Girl I WAS vetting for a LTR disrespected me. How do I proceed after demoting her?
Just to clarify, I did not expect her to be willing to do it. This is why asked her if she would be down and didn't tell her "send me nudes bitch". This I do not see as disrespect, only her unreasonable reaction/answer, as I never cussed at her or anything similar.
To the latter part of your commen...
4y ago - Permalink
chadchaddington
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Girl I WAS vetting for a LTR disrespected me. How do I proceed after demoting her?
You're speaking facts, but I usually choose to open the message, leave them on read and go on with my life. If I waited for a few days I tend to start playing games with myself and almost not focus on anything else. But I'll try doing it in the future.
What do you say about my plan (end of post) an...
4y ago - Permalink
chadchaddington
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Girl is pushing for a LTR, I have feelings for her but need hoes
How do I go about implementing that? We're both 18.
4y ago - Permalink
chadchaddington
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Girl is pushing for a LTR, I have feelings for her but need hoes
How do I go about implementing a one way open relationship?
4y ago - Permalink
chadchaddington
commented in Ask TRP
Re: A virgin I'm dating says she wants me to open up, holds sex because I don't comply
That is definetely a possibility, she's a pretty sensitive girl. I probably failed to comfort her at some point.
4y ago - Permalink
chadchaddington
commented in Ask TRP
Re: A virgin I'm dating says she wants me to open up, holds sex because I don't comply
Thanks mate, texted her back that I'll tell her something about me that she doesn't know yet, she responded "you know how to make me a good girl" lol. Appreciate the insight.
4y ago - Permalink
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Re: Girl I'm vetting for a LTR is following her ex on IG and I can't accept losing my hoes.