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Re: Found out my main Fwb has a boyfriend
Thanks for the advice. I haven’t posted in like a year and it was another girl (an ex). I come here for the wisdom
And I actually feel a bit better about the situation. I did some more research and found out she’s been dating him before I even came in the picture. So yeah, that kind of changes ...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: Found out my main Fwb has a boyfriend
Yeah I did and was clear I wanted a ltr in the posts. but like I said I never communicated that to her for that reason. Men not supposed to ask first.
my dilemma is I want a ltr with her secretly and will probably continue to enjoy her as a plate in the meantime but how do I not feel like second p...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: Found out my main Fwb has a boyfriend
100% it’s the alpha card. But what if I wanted a relationship with her? And was in the process of courting her?
I was starting to like her as more than fwb. And I believed it was mutual, because she would do things fwbs don’t do.
Now I feel like she’s using me for emotional validation too. ...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: Found out my main Fwb has a boyfriend
Snatched her up sooner? I couldn’t have. We have been seeing each other consistently the past two months. It’s her perogative to move things past the Fwb stage. From my prior experience, doing so will be a bad thing. A man should never bring up exclusivity
At this point I’m a bit taken aback....
2y ago - Permalink
Re: Why did dread game work on my ex?
I posted a Snapchat of me and a plate of mine on a hiking date. Photos and videos. And the views of the hike, photos of our lunch after. Just typical Snapchat fodder.
The plate is hot too. But so was my ex. She is with a beta atm and she knows I’m “dating others” but now she has a more vivid...
3y ago - Permalink
Re: TRP Advice ruined my best relationship
I understand. That’s why he told me to show up to her house with flowers
3y ago - Permalink
Re: TRP Advice ruined my best relationship
She told me all of this post break up. To clarify when we were talking just last week (we have been separated for approx 4 months by now). She told me just last week she loved me and wanted a more committed relationship, she thought I only wanted sex with her (we were exclusive though). This was not...
3y ago - Permalink
Re: TRP Advice ruined my best relationship
I showed him our conversations (post break up). I didn’t write it in the post but she said she loved me and wanted to be more serious, she said when we dated she wanted more commitment. He said that was a sign she wants me to offer her more commitment and she wouldn’t even be having this Convo w...
3y ago - Permalink
Re: TRP Advice ruined my best relationship
Yeah they weren’t very good. But as I said in my post, every LTR has cons. Her pro’s outweighed them.
One of my most red pilled friends in real life is telling me she wants me back, but I can’t just tell her that “I changed” I have to show her. He told me at this point, there is no choice...
3y ago - Permalink
Re: TRP Advice ruined my best relationship
Yeah I mainly took your advice. That’s not the one I was complaining about. The others advice I took led me to the soft next and the 1st break up prior (which was weeks before). We have been talking and She’s in another relationship now. She posted a photo of her with some guys on social media a...
3y ago - Permalink
Re: Why did my girl cheat and break up with me?
Just curious did she cheat before the break up or after?
Sometimes a girl will break up before they cheat so they dont feel guilty and can claim they have "never" cheated.
Or did she cheat to piss you off to break up.
3y ago - Permalink
Re: How the fuck do I let go of and get over my ex? I've turned into a bottom of the barrel simp because of this, and I'm angry.
Im currently going through this too. My ex of 1 yr, I made a mistake and broke up with her, she treated me very good but i pushed her away at the end of the relationship and i ended it because i lead the relationship downhill and it felt like i couldnt recover it this time. I broke up, I made the mi...
3y ago - Permalink
Re: My ex keeps dropping hints she wants me to break No Contact?
Thats quite a reach considering she didnt want my exclusivity 30 days ago. Granted, asking the same week must be the absolute worst time to ask to get back together, typically they need space after being dumped. But 30 days NC is enough to dread her into thinking shes lost me for good, and will mayb...
3y ago - Permalink
Re: My ex keeps dropping hints she wants me to break No Contact?
You think these are solid signs?
3y ago - Permalink
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Re: Found out my main Fwb has a boyfriend