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alfon335
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Puer Aeternus - criticism on the Red Pill
I agree with you. The video was interesting to me because it did resonate with my behaviors when I was younger. While I did not agree with the rant at the end of the video I did find useful stuff reiterated what we also teach here - mundane action over passive fantasy.
I think this term puer aternu...
7mo ago - Permalink
alfon335
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Puer Aeternus - criticism on the Red Pill
You are being angry and shooting the messenger. We are on the same team. This guy attacked the community and behaviors of people here, not the underlying teaching (praxeology) about the gender dynamics, therefore I say that the premise is wrong the way people like him understand the red pill communi...
7mo ago - Permalink
alfon335
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Puer Aeternus - criticism on the Red Pill
This is the majority of it, yes, but in my personal experience within this forum over the last 3 years, it is about teaching men about masculinity in general. Pure sexual strategy is PUA stuff.
7mo ago - Permalink
Re: Am I not built for spinning plates or is it something else?
How old are you? You might still be mentally fucked for being in a beta LTR role for so long. It makes you an asexual being especially if you weren’t sexually active by the tailend of your LTR. This shit needs time to heal too.
Also, do you smoke/vape? Alcohol? Porn? Don’t underestimate how muc...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: Are feelings of guilt post ONS valid or is it just BP conditioning?
Hell no fuck no, she’s ass, I went out with another girl today and fucked another girl the day prior (though with that girl we didn’t talk at all due to language barrier). I think what happens to me with some women still is that my captain save a hoe (feel bad for the bitch) feelings get activat...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: Are feelings of guilt post ONS valid or is it just BP conditioning?
Thanks, that’s the shit I need to hear. But why did I feel like this only this time? I have had ONS before. Maybe it’s because I simply left so cold. I don’t even know her name. But yeah I guess who cares.
1y ago - Permalink
Re: How to learn internal validation, regain confidence and self-respect?
Thank you for the reply. I think the main issue with the anxiety I have like I replied to another user, is that I cannot find the truth. That’s what causes the rumination and doesn’t allow me to detach/move forward. It feels like I need more proof (to my emotional brain, hence “feels”) - to ...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: How to learn internal validation, regain confidence and self-respect?
What doesn’t give me peace is the madonna/whore complex I have with her and women overall. I either see a good girl or a slut. If I had gone no contact forever after the first time I broke up (if you can call it since we were in a situationship/she was a plate), it would be easy for me to chalk up...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: How to learn internal validation, regain confidence and self-respect?
Wow, what a reply. I will try to internalize this as it does make sense what you are saying, perhaps it really is the core issue. Indeed, even though I did receive some bad advice, in the end I was completely emotional back then and made the bad decision myself. Life didn’t even feel real, I was a...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: How to learn internal validation, regain confidence and self-respect?
Thank you. That’s the thing - is such a full separation of pursuit of women and sense of self achievable? Did others on TRP here (or you) achieve it?
I guess my life will fix once I find another woman, but that just means I am still in my blue pill ways and not training my instincts to be self-su...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: How to learn internal validation, regain confidence and self-respect?
Maybe I wasn’t clear in the post. Regarding work, I don’t work a technical job, I already have a business based in wholesale.
I went to Thailand (and still am) for 2 months, not permanently. And the time blows by when you train Muay Thai, eat/sleep/work/train and repeat. Nothing much else to do...
2y ago - Permalink
alfon335
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Dealing with oneitis when she still wants you?
I don’t know what’s best for you my man but I decided to end the relationship with my ex and live with the consequences. I am hopeful that the following is correct:
1) the broken emotional state we feel is just our body’s way of feeling betrayed/gut feeling telling us that the girl is not rig...
2y ago - Permalink
alfon335
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Dealing with oneitis when she still wants you?
Feels like the same exact situation I went through emotionally. I also had a plate turned FWB turned GF who I fell in love in time who also loved me but found out about her fucking someone else when I was too indifferent initially when she was a plate.
I tried to make it work with this girl for a ...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: Am I BP if I want to like women?
Long period for vetting I’d say at least like 2-3 months. Others go for extremes, like 6months+, but I see you are a younger guy, so don’t worry. It doesn’t have to be an exact period. Enough time to understand her day-to-day, hobbies, behaviours, notice red flags (maybe goes out with slutty f...
2y ago - Permalink
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