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TulioHumanos
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Advice for Future Dating Situations
>She doesn't sound like prime material. If she is afraid to have sex, you are going to struggle there because sex is a prerequisite for you as a normal man. Does she really have enough desire? There are women who have medical issues who still love sex even though it is a risk.
Just to elaborate on ...
1y ago - Permalink
TulioHumanos
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Is a complete withdrawal the right response in this situation?
Oh so based on my intuition as well and what you have said I see it now as only really swap to boyfriend mode once I've decided that I want a LTR with a girl or alternatively fucked already.
I have two follow ups:
1. When do I know I've generated significant attraction and when does boyfriend behav...
1y ago - Permalink
TulioHumanos
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Is a complete withdrawal the right response in this situation?
Oh this makes so much sense I feel like I've been looking at things wrong. I have two questions:
- How do I differentiate between tingles and boyfriend material?
- What's the difference between "tingles" kino and "boyfriend" kino?
My answer to the first question, please correct me if I'm wrong
Tin...
1y ago - Permalink
TulioHumanos
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Is a complete withdrawal the right response in this situation?
I'll do a minor description of my first attempt at kiss escalation because it is probably the most relevant:
Basically we were at a place and she was sleeping on my chest. I was stroking her hair, and then she woke up. I made a comment about something on her face, then tried to move her by subtly g...
1y ago - Permalink
TulioHumanos
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Is a complete withdrawal the right response in this situation?
Honestly, conversation is pretty hazy, but I think I said something along those lines. Not going to lie her confusion was also a major turn off for me. I've gotten fuck yes responses before, and I didn't want to continue wasting time with someone who was trying to half friendzone me.
1y ago - Permalink
TulioHumanos
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Is a complete withdrawal the right response in this situation?
> The first date was good, and I wanted to see her again. The second date was iffy because I felt like I got everything I wanted out of dating her, but I thought might as well go on a last one if she asks me. Then I came into this date rather cold, but midway kind of changed my tone back to wanting ...
1y ago - Permalink
TulioHumanos
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Is a complete withdrawal the right response in this situation?
Isn't that response too alpha though? Won't it scare girls away?
1y ago - Permalink
TulioHumanos
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Is a complete withdrawal the right response in this situation?
I didn't, she did, and I was very grateful that she did.
1y ago - Permalink
TulioHumanos
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Is a complete withdrawal the right response in this situation?
I see, going to give my take on this as well. Because I was thinking of elaborating on this in my response, but didn't
The first date was good, and I wanted to see her again. The second date was iffy because I felt like I got everything I wanted out of dating her, but I thought might as well go on ...
1y ago - Permalink
TulioHumanos
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Is a complete withdrawal the right response in this situation?
Yep, exactly what I intended to do from the start.
1y ago - Permalink
TulioHumanos
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Constant Shit Tests, is it a red flag?
Have you even fucked her yet?
No
Dating?
Not dating
What is the context?
Met her through social circle. Can't escalate for now because of similar reasons to don't shit where you eat.
Shit testing happens a lot through texting, which she initiates mostly. Definitely know I'm giving off time ho vi...
1y ago - Permalink
TulioHumanos
commented in Ask TRP
Re: To soft next or not?
I'm gonna be real here. I was being a bitch. Should've trusted my instincts here.
1y ago - Permalink
TulioHumanos
commented in Ask TRP
Re: To soft next or not?
Honestly for the first girl, we'll never know. My guess is I just lost frame. New girl is just hotter and more interesting (mostly just hotter).
1y ago - Permalink
TulioHumanos
commented in Ask TRP
Re: To soft next or not?
As I thought. Gonna follow this.
1y ago - Permalink
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Re: Advice for Future Dating Situations