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Treadmill
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Is there a study to help her figure this out? She needs a study!
Looking at added value only through the lens of money is quite limiting though.
A less wealthy man can still be good company, emotional support, someone you can always rely on to have your back, do housework... The list goes on.
If marriage is about building a family together, then you probably wa...
1d ago - Permalink
Treadmill
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: I just want to find someone who is also single!
> turn women from possible wife material into boss babe leftovers with high body counts.
I swear I have seen this happen in real time. Young woman gets out of a relationship -> buys into the narrative that having sex with strangers is empowering -> tries to heal her broken hearth through one night ...
1d ago - Permalink
Treadmill
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: I just want to find someone who is also single!
It is a delusional line of thinking still. She is making up a fantasy of a man, then expecting everyone to live up to it.
The man in her mind is rich, because rich men exist. Probably attractive because attractive men exist. Doesn't care about the social convention of marrying young, because men ex...
1d ago - Permalink
Treadmill
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: I just want to find someone who is also single!
Complaining about a lack of single men in China specifically is borderline psychotic. That is like going to Sahara and complaining about the lack of sand.
1d ago - Permalink
Treadmill
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: FRIENDZONED
It seems to me that these women see men primarily as paychecks, and a committed relationship as a kind of retirement where they can stay at home and chill while hubby does most of the work.
I wonder what got them so jaded. Using "love" as nothing more than a manipulative tool to get whatever they w...
2d ago - Permalink
Treadmill
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: FRIENDZONED
I always feel like these situations are 50% on the dude. He could choose to walk away. Have just a bit of self respect. Maybe reflect on the situation and set some boundaries. On one hand, I have a lot of sympathy for the lifetime of conditioning that leads men to never question the behavior of the ...
2d ago - Permalink
Treadmill
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: It's so puzzling!
She needs to actually date men interested in committing too. No amount of attitude shift is going to help if she is dating the same men she was in her twenties.
30+ year-old single men who want a stable relationship and are willing to put in effort are not in short supply either. But they are not g...
4d ago - Permalink
Treadmill
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Just because men are successful doesn’t give them the right to play around with our emotions.
This is no incel space to be sure, but we do find the worst examples of women out there and put them on (anonymized) blast on the internet. I absolutely believe that can have a negative effect on the woman reading this. I know for sure that nothing good came from me reading r/niceguys at least.
5d ago - Permalink
Treadmill
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Just because men are successful doesn’t give them the right to play around with our emotions.
So that is a nice sentiment, but in that case let me extend a warning to anyone like you: Spending too much time on these topics *will* drain your energy and make you question your self worth.
Stare into the abyss and the abyss stares back. There is too much negativity and misery in these spaces fo...
1w ago - Permalink
Treadmill
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Just because men are successful doesn’t give them the right to play around with our emotions.
Genuine question: What is the appeal of this site to a woman? Frankly, most of the posters here are pretty jaded and will very much not want to listen to you.
Your attempt at empathy will go unappreciated here, and no one is going to believe that you are not like those other girls. In fact, it is ...
1w ago - Permalink
Treadmill
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Just because men are successful doesn’t give them the right to play around with our emotions.
The psychic damage from holding onto values not shared by the rest of society is not trivial. Every time you are talking to a girl who you think has potential, but then it turns out she is fucking a new guy every week, it chips off a little bit of your sanity. When a girl rejects you for being immat...
1w ago - Permalink
Treadmill
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Just because men are successful doesn’t give them the right to play around with our emotions.
This is literally how young women treat men. Notably, the advice the coach gives is more or less the same that one would give a young man looking for serious commitment too. I kind of like the way she is handling this to be honest.
1w ago - Permalink
Treadmill
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: I got a fever and the ONLY prescription is MORE COWBELL, er, I mean aging hypergamous matchmaker clients!
Except in this case there is no need for beta buxxing. She earns more than enough to support herself, and has no plans to quit her job. She does not require a bailout.
2w ago - Permalink
Treadmill
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: I got a fever and the ONLY prescription is MORE COWBELL, er, I mean aging hypergamous matchmaker clients!
It is just such a waste in that case. Spending so much time on looking for a man that does not exist. "Franken-Beta-Chad" seems a suitable term.
Focusing on your career and forging your own path through life can work. I have met a few really impressive women who did that. But it requires the abilit...
2w ago - Permalink
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Re: Is there a study to help her figure this out? She needs a study!