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Re: The Red Pill made me more neurotic, need advice.
Thanks bro. I will re-read that stuff.
Also yeah, I know we always care to a degree. I will try to live most true to myself, but it is a trap to think we can never care. That much is very true.
1y ago - Permalink
Re: The Red Pill made me more neurotic, need advice.
Hypergamy, I guess? It's hard to quantify what part triggered my anger phase, actually. I think just learning that I was being judged to be subconciously "beta" for most my life, or that female friends of mine were essentially using me as the emotional tampon in the past.
I have a history of women...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: The Red Pill made me more neurotic, need advice.
Nobody said it, it's what I picked up from reading TRP I guess. It seems at odds with just acting how you feel/stating what you need in the moment. Because you can't just be yourself to get results.
1y ago - Permalink
Re: The Red Pill made me more neurotic, need advice.
Well, my issue is that I don't want to try and get people to act a certain way. I had this belief that trying to control other people, instead of just showing up as myself, was codependent and what made me unhappy.
I can see how it becomes subconscious which is encouraging, but it's the idea that ...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: The Red Pill made me more neurotic, need advice.
That might help I will try it
1y ago - Permalink
Re: The Red Pill made me more neurotic, need advice.
I want to be sure I can do things myself, but you have a point.
1y ago - Permalink
Re: The Red Pill made me more neurotic, need advice.
Probably. I think that's where the new anxiety comes from.
Well I still feel like I'd be putting on an act, but I guess maybe I don't have to. Thanks for responding at least.
1y ago - Permalink
Re: The Red Pill made me more neurotic, need advice.
I agree with the principle of doing, not thinking. In fact, I detest even asking for advice online. I only do so today because this issue has been eating at me, and I haven't been able to rectify it in a satisfactory way by myself.
I am active in the world. I hit the gym, work on sales, talk to pe...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: The Red Pill made me more neurotic, need advice.
Are you criticizing my writing style or trying to make a point?
I know the redpill does preach being authentically a superior man, to a degree, the issue is that a lot of it is focused on controlling how other people react to you. I find that makes me neurotic and unconfident.
1y ago - Permalink
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Re: The Red Pill made me more neurotic, need advice.